Everywhere "Wolf Dad" frequent corporal punishment is the family education of the prescription?

6-Year-old Girl as small as, after birth has been in Henan hometown with grandparents life, until the middle of August this year, only to Zhejiang Leqing and working parents together, and behold, but suffered "wolf Dad" Zhang a "strict discipline", was corporal punishment in situ running 6 hours of death. In recent years, "Tiger Mother" "Wolf Dad" has been popular, triggering a debate on family education. "Wolf Dad" Xiao believe in "Three days a dozen, the children into Peking University" guidelines, with Duster 4 children are all "into the elite." But the author thinks, Wolf father Xiao "success" should be a kind of warning, remind people to think, the stern corporal punishment education is good to the child in the end, but should not become the example that people are scrambling to imitate. Will there be any talent under the sticks? Perhaps for some people the answer is yes. But in recent days, all over the "Wolf Dad", "Eagle Dad" of the successive emergence of people worried even indignation. Is corporal punishment really a good prescription for family education? Everywhere "Wolf Dad" frequency is now: "Wolf Father" Xu Wenhui: August 15, 2011, Sichuan man Xu Wenhui only because some life trifles, in the rage of his own 4-year-old daughter pain under the ruthless hand, will daughter small ru push down, small RU head fell to the ground after coma, after the hospital rescue invalid death. " "Eagle Dad" in Nanjing: 2012 New Year's Eve, a father from Nanjing asked his 4-year-old son to wear only shorts in a blizzard, and then put the video online and immediately triggered a warm thread and forwarding. "Wolf Dad" in Hefei: During the National Day holiday in 2012, a father from Hefei, Mr. Li, took his son, who was still under the age of 10, on his trip to Yangzhou, and rode 560 kilometers in 4 days. Wenzhou "Wolf Dad": October 5, 2012 afternoon, Wenzhou yueqing Zhang MoU home to look at home in a mess, the suspect is 6-year-old daughter. Daughter refused to admit, Zhang Iron heart to teach a good daughter, ask it to run until bedtime, up to 6 hours. That night, the child's body abnormalities, sent to the hospital was diagnosed as dead. Although the methods used by "Wolf dads" to educate their children are different, they have one thing in common: demanding for their children and more about corporal punishment in the course of their education. "Wolf Dad" Xiao "education myth" for many parents is a temptation, the world parents heart, not a few parents do not want their children to enter the prestigious schools. But for the Nanjing "Eagle Dad" education way, people are mixed, but more people think for 4-year-old children, "Blizzard naked Run" is too harsh. To the "Wenzhou Wolf Dad", people can only be angry sigh, a good child, overnight, the child made what wrong as to her life? What's the use of education when children are gone? The death of a 6-year-old woman Long is just one example of the fact that the child is too disciplined and abused to sow the seeds of tragedy. It is true that education often carries with it the ingredients of preaching, but even if your starting point is for the child, you should also take a good sense of proportion, not beyond the child's ability to accept the body and mind. Children in learning and growing up in the process of making mistakes is unavoidable, easily take a club education, violence against childrenTo, not only will cause physical harm to the child, may even give the child the psychological shadow. In this regard, high distribution network young small channel (yuer.gaofen.com/) experts that Wenzhou "Wolf Dad" Zhang a tragedy, may be inadvertently lost. However, the belief in the use of corporal punishment in family education is far more than one. The lure of "Wolf Daddy" Education is its immediate quick-impact. On the face of it, the child's ability and will have been a certain degree of discipline. But it suppresses the child's individuality, "the father is from" The educational model also easy to grow the child's slavish. Parents should respect their children's nature in education, and more to explore and develop their children's personality. In the present society to the education appraisal, the education idea, "the Xianpinaifu" the more and more intense is nearly crazy, people is accustomed to "the good student" to serve as the guest, spares no effort to excavate its successful path, and attempts to realize the reproduction in own child. The utilitarian concept of education not only brings great pressure to the child, but also binds the child's potential. In such a big environment, parents should play a good role, firm their own position, and establish a rational concept of family education. To know, the child needs is not doting, not corporal punishment, but the body and the healthy growth of the heart. (Text/leaf)