The person who makes the product must know that the product manager needs to have the ability of "communication, execution, decision, study" and so on. After a quick period of skill growth, slowly and again, when you want to improve these abilities, you will find the harder.
Many people to the back basically feel that they have reached the limit, in fact, the real reason for the hidden phenomenon is: "The mentality is not long, the mind is not long." In other words is the training of the force of the back is destined to be a Beowulf, generally, everyone is a breath of practice, outside practice, bone, skin. The heavy force-depending on your muscles and bones, force the force to take a break. And the combination of gas and force is endless.
Five years later, I obviously have to feel a lot of product managers, many people on the career path, the gradual emergence of a 2-level differentiation phenomenon. Many people are challenging themselves, many people still live in their own world of the Lord. So in addition to the differences in resources around people, the greater is the "mentality" of a person.
So, many times we become more and more difficult, in fact, because we have been practicing stunts, but not the Dharma. The practice of meditation, return to the source of things, all things refraction is still your attitude towards life, the treatment of life. The word "open" has been lingering in my ear recently, so I will talk about it today.
In the past six months, I have been looking back on my previous, in a lot of things appear to be not very open mind.
The first thing, I will find that I do not know how to appreciate others, I do not like the company to our part, plug a more powerful than my product manager. I am more sensitive, I will feel insecure. I might even think, "Will he rob me of my job?" or even think: "Is not the bosses, feel that I do not make products, not important to me?" And I may also have jealousy, rejection of this person. With these mentality, the process of natural running-in has some ideas, some sad.
The second thing, I will find it difficult to accept the views of others, whether colleagues, friends, family members of my advice or criticism, opinions, I do not like to listen to, I feel is right. Especially I as a product manager, the design of some things, who said I do not good, I'm with who red face urgent. I thought it was right and no one was going to argue with me. I really care about what people say about me, in fact, often more care. The more I look at myself.
The third thing, just like the people they like to communicate together, that we are a faction, they are a faction, do not want to communicate with them. In particular, the design of the user experience hangs of the product manager, feel that he is a big system, large products, dismissive of this, and from the heart to despise them to the end. Not very open and a lot of communication, do not communicate with people who do the market, also do not communicate with the operators, do not communicate with the technology, I do not even know that I was immersed in the "enjoyment", is a real product manager's "sense of achievement" Mody? It certainly is not, it must be extreme.
The fourth thing, my vision do not want to open, I only focus on the Internet, product managers, I look at this site every day, that site, the Internet news, Product Manager news, it will feel that my life is it, I pay attention to these is enough. But I slowly discovered that the internet is not an isolated internet, product manager is not a word can be defined product manager, you want to do a good job is to pay attention to the economy, pay attention to the industry transfer and Yan Sheng, product managers will only say theory, shouting slogans, not only very junior, but also in the company will not survive.
Fifth thing, I feel I'm not open enough. Everyone in the circle, who in my product manager QQ group to pull people out, I will definitely take him off, and then vowed to ways with him, 08 or 09 that will, did do several times such things. Another not enough open also appear not enough to trust others, often have to put himself as a supervisor, take others work, they have to stare, or sleep Ah! (Lines of the new Shaolin Temple),
In fact, think carefully, because I am not open enough to do things more or less to do very poor water, do not know that this way to come around so many people incredibly tolerant of me, a little ashamed. Therefore, the narrow road is a person's own walk, depending on your mentality, you treat things, treat life, attitude towards life.
People who are not open minded, I think probably have the following characteristics:
1 Ignorance-do not know, still do not know what is open, or not open to the point;
2 self-in your own world, cling to a lot of things in your world;
3 small belly-the big belly can, let the world when the slogan to shout, life is not so the matter;
4 Stubborn-do not know right and wrong, always think that they are right, not too receptive to new things, ideas and theories
5 impetuous-not sincere enough to open your heart
Recently in Shanghai Jinmao Building a salon, the venue is Sina Support, Sharon ended, I returned to Hangzhou many friends give me feedback very well, they said: "Well, very good, through such a kind of activity, let us broaden a lot of horizons, I listen to a said, I found his ideas are I have not had, I think I could lean on that, too, when I heard B say, although he said this in general, but then I think my existing knowledge is not bad, I found my efforts, but also have friends to say to me: Today is very happy, although did not hear what dry goods, but I know so many people, exchange of goods, Also find a few close friends, there is a deep exchange of opportunities, really good ", it seems that everyone is quite fruitful."
But also a few friends to open a curse: "Damn, what salon, the guests are not the highest end, sharing the dry goods is not the most dry, I came all the way to your site did not do well." "There are also not understand the question:" Why do you want to go the way Ucdchina? I light a smile, in fact, I think everyone since so said, is because of sincerity, sincere feedback to the idea, I feel very good. But it can be clearly seen that everyone's mentality, angle is not the same. As I mentioned above, we all have this process of not knowing. When you pass, you will understand.
What is an open mind? In fact, very simple, open mind is: you honestly put down the shelf, vanity, face, impetuous put down, dust your heart on the Ashes, the heart of the window open. Be honest and let more fresh air flow in and drive you to circulate more blood.
Open the Heart, open the window of the mind, let you out of the thinking of a three-acre, see a little farther, exchange information more, know to learn more, to see some things more insipid, more rational. Then you will accept more suggestions and criticisms, so that you will have more, more conviction and firmer.
Do not know to do product manager of everyone, everybody's mentality open?
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