Internet addiction treatment Expert Tao Open: Parents are online games drug accomplice

High-profile attack online games, playing games compared to drugs, by Warcraft player discredit, netizens call its "Tao called Beast"; he admits that he has a study tour in the United States but no academic qualifications, but does not prevent him from frequently to quit the identity of Internet addiction experts around lectures; Although he suffered many of the eyes of netizens, but in many parents heart, but is " China's first person to administer internet addiction ", through face-to-face conversation to help more than 600" online addiction "of minors, he is normal distinguished Professor Tao Open. Yesterday, Professor Tao was invited to give lectures at the first education exposition in Jiangsu Province, Anhui, Zhejiang and many other parents attracted to Nanjing for help.

The ear is the professor of Tao and the ridiculous argument

1, online games are psychotropic drugs, to attack

"Network game is not a game ah, is the spirit of drugs." "In the face of the reporter's question, Professor Taohongkai the online game to make such an evaluation." He told reporters that online games are not through computers and networks to bring teenagers into the High-tech information age, but the computer, the network over the game. The reporter has extracted some netizen's viewpoint to the Tao to open a question: Some people questioned, the network game is only the virtual world thing, to the real environment influence is not big. Professor Taohongkai a thorough objection, and gave a realistic example to support his point of view, "Wenjun drug addiction has not caused any harm to society ah, why did you grab him?" It is a truth that so many stars have nothing to do with ordinary people and why society attacks them. "In the years against Internet addiction, he high-profile attack online games, by Warcraft players denounced, was" human flesh ", home, office telephone and cell phone number are published, his study in the United States, life experience has been the netizen exposure, and netizens questioned Tao opened in the United States experience, called him" false professor. " He receives a threatening call every day. "I'm in a good mood and don't care about these accusations. "By netizens abuse, blame and" human flesh "search, does not seem to affect the mood of Tao Open.

2, parents are the accomplice of psychotropic drugs

Now parents mention the internet addiction, often rely on the network ring center, expect to be sent in for a while to come out is all good, the fact proved impossible. In this way of brute force, it often has the opposite effect. Who should be blamed for children's deep Internet? Many parents put the mistake in the child, think is the child is not sensible playful, and Tao open don't think so. "Internet addiction can not blame children, blame the blame on the family education is unhealthy, blame the impact of social bad culture, blame school exam-oriented education." "It seems to him that the main thing is improper parenting. The son is not the godfather of the past, this is the root of Internet addiction. 8 years back, Tao opened face-to-face help 600 teenagers, according to his survey, 600 children, half of the children parents never contact the network, half of the children by parents introduced online games. "Children in the United States are watching their parents grow up with computers, and in their concept computers are a tool, not a toy, but Chinese parents don't know enough about computers," he said. "Some families, parents themselves love to play online games, children naturally immersed in it."

Parents often lack patience and rudeness in helping children to quit internet addiction. "Our parents always need to see the results right away, but it's even worse if they get impatient," he said. He advises parents not to fight fiercely with their children. Maintain a rational attitude, a little more patience, and slowly communicate with the child. A brutal "crackdown" can only make a child rebellious.

Seeing for the real Tao Professor on-site enlighten "Internet addiction" juvenile

Anhui couple carrying a special trip to Ning for help

Listen to Kantao opened a lecture in Nanjing, Anhui a couple not far, in front of the lecture, the son Zhang Ming (alias) sent to the Tao Open. Zhang Ming from the third grade began to contact the network game, Warcraft, Tianlong Eight, CS, all boys love to play the network game Zhang Ming almost all can "dozen all over the world without rivals", the second day when the total "fall", but also with the students have their own team of game cooperation. And Zhang Ming's "brilliant" record is inversely proportional to his academic performance. From the class of the original midstream of more than 20 straight line down, ranking behind do not say, and then simply truancy to the Internet café. "He began to get impatient with his three words, and even watched the computer with his bowl in his dinner." Zhang mother told reporters that children addicted to the network became the biggest heart of parents. At the end of 2007, the sight of Zhang Ming is really addicted to it, Zhang Dad this only painful determined to send Zhang Ming into a Shandong electric shock net ring treatment center. "I have hesitated," Zhang mother grieved son, but Zhang Dad's attitude is very painful and resolute, "just like a sick have to injections, internet addiction must be cured!" ”

But the result of the treatment let Zhang mother feel despair. The son to send network ring center five months of inhuman life became her most unbearable memory, especially the key to treatment-electric shock, parents can not accompany, can only stand outside the door, "Every time the child from that house out, do not speak, how to ask do not say." Zhang's mother said that the child had shown an aversion to electric shocks, "but we asked him how he was electrocuted, and he just resisted." "Half a year treatment down, spent thirty thousand or forty thousand Yuan."

Recently in the Internet café once again caught Zhang Ming, Zhang father this just understand Zhang Ming in electric shock net ring center five months is the symptom not cure, after one year, Zhang Ming's internet addiction again relapse. The Tao opened to Nanjing to give lectures, Zhang Dad is also closely followed the arrival of Nanjing.

A few chats open the heart knot of the internet addiction Boy

"Son, come and talk to us." Tao opened with this easy chat. The reporter sorted out some Tao open with the internet addiction Boy's dialogue record. Some psychologists believe that, compared to the parents of abusive scolding, Tao open small talk-type communication is easier to let children speak, let the child feel that he is protecting and helping themselves.

Taohongkai (pottery): Like online games, why can not stop it?

Zhang Ming (Zhang): My father and mother gave me great pressure. (with his head lowered, his mouth squeezed out a faint voice)

Tao: But they are your parents. This has been decided from a lifetime. In the past, you are very motivated, academic performance is very good, now lagging behind, the responsibility to all the parents to push? (Looking at a child's thin body) are you telling the truth that playing games has an impact on your body?

Zhang: A bit, there is no time to exercise, before the body is very good, now physically not, a will be tired.

Tao: Mom and Dad are very love you, they look at your body every day thin, hope you quit the Internet addiction, you also want to quit it, say to see what the way to take?

Zhang: (head buried lower, no word.) )

Tao: (as did not see) in fact, dyeing Internet addiction is not all children's fault, parents are also wrong.

Zhang: (suddenly interrupted) they told me to travel to Rizhao, Shandong, the result sent me to the center of Internet addiction.

Tao: How does it feel to go into it?

Zhang: In a daze, a group of "allies" in military uniforms (in the Network Ring center, the children have been called allies) come and drag me.

Tao: Suddenly see so many strangers are afraid?

Zhang: Very afraid, but do not know what to do next, at that time did not know is to abstain from internet addiction. He was later taken to room 13th (electric shock Treatment room). They asked me to lie down, I felt a bit dangerous, didn't want to lie down, and some "allies" forced me to lie down. Then six or seven people came up, someone pressed his leg, someone pressed his arm, and someone covered my mouth.

Tao: What did they do next?

Zhang: Someone with two bricks hold my temple, suddenly slapped a bit, feeling was electricity.

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Tao to open a comment online

Adults steal food, children play strange

Over the past more than 10 years, the proliferation of bad computers and online games has enabled several young players to become billionaires quickly, and they are not only wealthy, but also "outstanding young entrepreneurs" and other dazzling crowns. When these game entrepreneurs are busy listing, some department officials give them a celebration, but it is countless painful parents in the Internet cafes looking for children ...

The country has more than 16 million of the internet addiction of teenagers, they drop out because of internet addiction, drop-out, in order to network costs and fraud, theft, robbery, infatuated with the virtual reality of the dazzling and hate, beat and scold even the birth of their own parents ... Aren't they the victims of the violent erotic web culture? Not only will they be overshadowed by the future of their lives, but the hopes of their families are shattered forever! Material pollution is often regional, periodic, and cultural pollution is ubiquitous, is to affect the child's life and the entire family, and even the entire nation!

Computer, the network of excessive entertainment, gaming, mobile phone information increasingly vulgar, pornography, resulting in "adult stealing vegetables, children play strange, boys involved in yellow, girl abortion." You don't believe me? And look at the various media coverage in the past few years, you will be the same as we worry and indignation!

Play 3 years online to become retarded

In the United States, the majority of internet addicts are elderly and housewives, the elderly accounted for 40%, housewives accounted for 30%, and more than 40 years old women. After retirement, the emptiness and imbalance of the old people hooked on the game, more than 40-year-old housewives, children at the age of 18 to go out on their own, boring life so that they find a new spiritual sustenance in the online games. But in China, almost 90% of the games are teenagers, which is shocking to me. "Online games for children's intellectual development is extremely unfavorable." Indulge in the game more than half a year, IQ will have a significant decline, if addicted to online games 3 years, IQ will drop 10%, that is, 90 of the normal children of intelligence playing online games for 3 years, will become retarded. ”

Many teenagers are responsible for crime because of internet addiction

The first data I learned was told by the leader of the Shandong Juvie. According to the survey there are 70% of teenagers because of internet addiction caused by crime, all over the juvenile detention Institute have such data, because the net fee (game cost) to steal parents money teenagers, accounting for 80% of children with internet addiction, Stealing parents ' money is a common thing in teenagers with internet addiction. A lot of internet addiction children read not to go in, the last can only join the army, engaged in the service industry, some do not go to college can only read some secondary school, technical schools.