Han Hao: The feelings behind the "Xiao San Forum"

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It looks like a joke, but there are many "big three forums" in China, by the media reported the "three" forum, not only "love" This name is funny, and claiming to be "the only one of the Chinese official website," a serious steal jiamojiashi, in the content positioning, "Three love" focus on the discussion gifts (luxury, Car and house) and living expenses (20,000-30,000 yuan per month) market, through this information, "three love" is indeed the name, and market-related, but also can clearly see, hidden in the market behind the feelings of the war.

Have led the mainstream value trend of the media, in the reporting of similar sites will inevitably have a certain bias, the content of the report has a choice, the point of view is biased, but by browsing including "three Love" and other similar sites, found that their description is basically true. These sites superimposed on the basic outline of the emotional diversity of the era of an alternative kaleidoscope in the scene, where the same mottled strange, there are tears of laughter, although there are many parts of the materialistic existence, but more can see some social Ying and people's feelings missing.

"A small number of sites," the emergence of the flow of some of the feelings of the Web site, there are emotional site responsible for the "small" how the site will be approved by the examination and approval, this aspect also shows that the community in its inclusion, indeed there is no small progress, but, pessimistic, said, Perhaps the censors have not realized what kind of threat such web sites can pose, so they are released according to the principle of "no complaints, no interference", once the "big two sites" in the mainstream groups aroused repercussions, so difficult to escape the fate of the closure.

In fact, now many emotional sites, can satisfy all people to carry on the emotion to confide, the exchange demand, but "the big station" "The sudden Rise", or indicates "the special group" now began to pay attention to the sound, through gathers to emphasize own identity, lets them have been the mainstream media strife's voice to form the huge close sound. It is generally understood that after the damage to one's own interests or the active pursuit of a certain interest, people will appear in the group nature, "the" big sites "in line with this definition, by the traditional moral impact, they are in a weak position, but these sites in addition to meet their desire to communicate, what can bring? Will they take to the streets after the internet cannot accommodate their ever-increasing demands?

In everything can be measured by the high and low level of the times, the market to replace the feelings of the main topic of "primary", is again normal things, after all, the market is a standard, and the feelings can not be reflected by figures. Also do not rule out the "three sites" users, deliberately using material topics to cover up their true emotional needs, in the emotional ethics, when a kind of intimate relationship is difficult to bring a sense of comfort, indeed can be returned to the second, to material instead. In addition to the parties, who can clearly identify, to become a third party for the sake of material satisfaction or the use of love is too deep or both? The emotional world is complex, but the feelings of not being blessed are more complex.

The importance of material to the "San" site is filled with a clear sense of insecurity, similarly, those who hide behind the scenes, also have a sense of insecurity, the source of insecurity is multifaceted, one is for all men and women exist for the future of panic and helplessness, a lot of people have the emotional flaws. Why does a man fall in love with a woman other than his wife? This question is the ancient questions, who also cannot explain clearly, because the family has the evil wife and the family has the good Wife, cannot prevent the man to smuggle in the emotion, this probably is the original crime definition category.

Our society's managers believe that the maintenance of emotional stability is equal to safeguarding the stability of society, therefore, the implementation of monogamy, the abnormal feelings of public condemnation, has been advocated or acquiesced by the official. But human feelings, ancient and modern never be completely by the law, rules, to maintain the integrity of the family to achieve effective management of people, repression has never been the most effective way. How to create a good social culture, how to establish a healthy family concept, how to ease the existence of all kinds of tension, how to make everyone can reflect the value of their existence ... This is the ideal way to treat "emotional heresy", but ideally, it can only be improved and cannot be cured.

As for "The big two websites" will develop into what appearance, do not need to worry about, as some feelings, some can not form the mainstream of things will fend for themselves, to its forced excavation of the tomb will only let its strong and healthy growth.