If your child falls in love with online games

Li Yanzhi

The winter vacation came, the children cheered, finally free to play. There are love sightseeing, but also love online games, the former parents like support, the latter parents fret frown. A few days ago and Mingming's mother chat, chat to treat children play games, very inspired.

Obviously Delde is a class of students, two children of similar age, http://www.aliyun.com/zixun/aggregation/18553.html "> Hobbies also have a lot of similarities." Obviously mother said that the child recently did not like the Weiqi, to go the heat has lowered, now favorite is "Plant vs Zombies." Coincidentally, De Yun is also fascinated by the game. We two one exchanges, all do not oppose the child to play the game. But because the children are still in preschool, the common worry is that they are afraid of affecting their children's eyesight, ask each other: when the child is fascinated, you do not let him play, he happy?

Of course not happy, but still more obedient, said not to play no play. De Yun Dad's practice is to let the child set a good time, each play 20 minutes, time to automatically remind the computer, the son put down not to play.

But people away from the machine, the heart is still in the game, so if the adults do not pay attention to the words, you will find that the child is particularly vulnerable at the moment, looking for awkward, not this wrong, that is not good. This is the same as adults watching TV dramas are seeing a sudden blackout. At this moment, the child needs not parents to blame or compromise, but to share his excitement.

Mingming's mother and father's practice is to accompany his son to play the game of the Zombies. 8630.html "> Sometimes is the mother and father when the zombie, obviously when the plant, sometimes is to play the different role." After playing for a while, the child's emotions are released and naturally happy to do other things.

De Yun's parents were listening to their son explain the use of each plant in the game, which plants he used in the process, and which plants to deal with. After a lot of talk, parents nodded repeatedly, and occasionally interspersed with a few small problems, such as throwing stone car zombie is very powerful, which plant can beat it ah? Son will say the Thorn and steel Thorn, cast stone car zombie thought they are grass, haha.

Clear home Delde Family Practice starting point is to stop when on the stop. The temptation to resist online games is also a test of self-control and training, but not just to stop the end of the finished, but also to accompany the children to release his game in the energy and emotions accumulated.

If the child can comply with the time of the agreement, parents in particular to give hugs, verbal praise and other similar immediate encouragement, so that the child although the heart is still a little bit out of place, but very much for their commitment to keep the promise of pride because the child is the most compliance.

Accompanying the child, listens to the child, is prevents the preschool child to indulge in the game the more practical method, but by the child own time, the parents timely praise and encourages the child, is raises the child to be punctual the responsibility.

In this way, online games should not be a problem for parents, but a good educational opportunity. Moreover the child plays the game also to have many benefits, here does not need to repeat.

(Li Yanzhi, Beijing 65th Chinese Teacher)