In fact, life is DOTA

The two words that I heard most in a while were "confused". I heard that there were 6 million graduates in 2013. Some people say that this is the year when the work is most difficult to find. One day when I was eating Met another three years master now graduated still do not know where to find the direction of the classmates. In fact, students confused is that they learned a lot in school, but when they find a job they also seem to be able to go, so naturally more confused. When the student confused after work more than in the future can not see or have seen the next few years their own appearance. So do not know how to continue to go, will become confused. When I was preparing for the exam, I was not confused at the time of the project launch and at the time of writing, because I had a clear goal of knowing what to do and what I could get. After the brain is done to excrete a little dopamine reward me, so I have a happy feeling. Therefore, in the final analysis, there is no goal, do not know what to do, do not know what the result is. This feeling is like floating in the air, or moving in the wind, or see where the straw tightly grasp the dead, but in fact, I do not know this straw is caught right.

If I were a peasant uncle, I would know very well that I would grow grain, plant vegetables and grow fruit trees. I would like to maximize my output on limited land and earn money to marry my wife and children to build a small mansion. Life is a good day, ordinary and happy. If I am a line worker, my goal is to produce more product units in a limited time. At the end of the month, piece-rate wages can earn more, and when the Chinese New Year returns home, they will honor their elders and coax their wives and children. Simple and warm. But now there are a lot of knowledge workers, it seems we can do anything, but nothing seems to measure the value of the work where the future direction of what is prone to "blind comparisons, unwilling or excessive The pursuit of the so-called achievement achievements caused by depression and anxiety, associated with neurasthenia and eating disorders of the sleep system "So back to nature, into our society after the job is for what? And then pull the high point level, what is the meaning of life?

It was easy to find an answer. It when easy to find an answer. But when you find an answer you close your universe. You. You've been thinking about it until one day you see something like, "What is the meaning of life?": "This question should be left open. because you have far away when you are enthusiasm you are close to the meaning of your life. "you have far away when you are enthusiasm you are close to the meaning of your life." When we think about it, we actually shut down our own imagination and our own little universe. No one knows what will happen in the future. This question is easy to find different answers, different people have different understanding of the meaning and purpose of life, so whenever you are passionate, you will find that you are getting closer and closer to the meaning and the goal of life. And when you are boring You will find that you are getting farther and farther away from the meaning and goals of life, so every time you have passion you are the closest you are to the meaning of life.

My own thoughts over this period of time, when you always think about the meaning and goals of life, you do not actually know whether your goal is right or wrong, and different people give you different opinions, so whenever When you think rationally about this issue, you will find it very painful. For example, Zhou Xiaonong knows what he said: All our actions are carried out under various social constraints. Years go by, age is growing, and what kind of constraints we face in the future, you can not know beforehand. This is like the first time you are driving on a mountain road, you are sure to go forward, but where you want to make a turn, there is a fork in the road and there will be traffic jams. You do not know in advance, you can only walk down or get stuck. For some time, maybe Fortunately, you see a goal ahead, my heart would like to go there, and then close your eyes and walk, when you open your eyes, in fact, the goal is not where you go.

So life is a field DOTA, when you're happiest, certainly not the last to push the tower, but in the anti-knife, constantly brushing strange, playing equipment in the joy, so hard to think about the meaning of life and goals than live in the moment, rich My experience, read more books, see more people, go more places, experience more things. Everything from the positive to think more, think more about the benefits. If you do the same thing every day, then you are young and old too. If you do something different every day, the elderly will also be very young. Some people have been living in the anxiety of thinking about life, but just useless, often not their own can design the future, just to ensure that their time is not spent on useless games, entertainment, that is, as long as the direction of Zhou Xiaonong not wrong, Then do not worry about going to the goal. Achieving success is the same knowledge, people, experience or experience, and success is only one or two opportunities to achieve their own, and now put all the anxiety to find the target, looking for opportunities, not to accumulate, not the cart before the horse So if I stop and go in the big direction, life should be more exciting.

In addition, we have to live their own lives, not other people's lives, others can make any suggestions, but after what kind of life, and ultimately others will not be responsible. Gradually I found myself not confused, just because of these words: more books, more friends, more experience, living in the moment, the road at the foot of.