International nurses ' Day, male nurses should be cared for

What do you think of when you mention a nurse? is not a white fluttering, the laughter of the gentle woman image? In the busy medical front, but run such a group of male nurses, their hard work dirty all carry, they are the busiest, they low-key working life, they are not too easy to find objects.

"Although I was always mistaken for a doctor, I was really a nurse," he said. "Huizhou third people's Hospital ICU male nurse Mokugawa said.

The school says the work is easy to find, hangs!

"Why do you choose Nursing Major?" ”

"Because the school says less male nurses, it's easier to find a job." "Mokugawa said.

"Is it easy to find a job?" ”

Oh。 Mokugawa lightly smiled.

Mokugawa said that he graduated from Xiangfan Health School in 2006, when the nursing professional was about seven or eight boys a year. After graduation to find a job, many hospitals have not heard of male nurses. It is very interesting to meet: yo, how is a man ah; a lot of questions ask to go, but in the end is not accept. ”

2007, holding the mentality of many young, Mokugawa left Hubei came to Huizhou. He first worked in the Hui Kang Hospital, and then in 2009 to the third People's Hospital, "this side of the acceptance of male nurses is good, the current three hospitals a total of more than 10 male nurses, dispersed in the emergency department, operating room and ICU, which light our ICU has 8." ”

"But there are only two of the seven or eight boys in the same session who are now sticking to the nursing." "Talk about the scattered Sihai classmate, Mokugawa wry smile," after the internship has not graduated from a career change, all feel the prospect is not good. ”

"Then how do you answer him if there are younger brothers who are asking you to learn how to take care of boys?" ”

"I can only say ... Be careful. Mokugawa smiled and shrugged.

Often be a doctor, embarrassed!

The nurse, the body, the treatment, the care, the deathbed and so on, in fact, men and women not much different. Asked about the role of male nurses, Mokugawa said.

"That's not the same!" "Hearing the male nurse's topic, a female nurse in the hospital two eyes light:" Male nurses more useful! We often need to carry patients, some patients 180 Jin Ah, we have four or five female nurses together to lift! This time I feel that nothing is more reliable than male nurses! ”

In fact, Mokugawa also admitted that ICU shifts, each class should try to arrange a male nurse, in order to prepare for a rainy day. "We'll do more when we're in the job," he said. "If the women are going to wipe the body or something, let them do it. "Mokugawa is a bit embarrassed to say, although from the nurses ' point of view is only a job, but when it comes to gender issues, many patients and their families can not avoid a certain degree of sensitivity."

Mokugawa recalls that his internship was in obstetrics, when the situation was more embarrassing, "a large group of young couples in the door, watching me enter, asked me why, I said I was a nurse; they said it wouldn't be good if you were a nurse. I said Ah well, the first time really did not have the nerve to go in. ”

"In the ICU, the patient and the family first reacted by thinking that I was a doctor, and found out that it was a nurse and was very rare," he said. Mokugawa says, from this point of view, society's understanding of male nurses is still too little.

Let the object parents satisfied, difficult!

What's the hardest thing about a male nurse? Marriage is the hardest! Mokugawa said, they move equipment, can lift the patient, but is not open the other parent's heart knot.

Mokugawa confessed that he had previously talked about a girlfriend, because the other parents disagree, divided, and his side of the male nurse also talked about a lot of girlfriends, because the other parents disagree, most of the points. Now, Mokugawa has a nurse's girlfriend, the two sides finally can understand each other and support each other.

"Many parents object to the fact that they do not understand the value of nursing work." "Mokugawa said.

In the traditional concept, a man will be a household, women should be virtuous. Many parents will care work and women's virtuous, meticulous, auxiliary nature, think men do this line not too big future.

and Mokugawa that the low treatment of nursing work is one of the key factors, a lot of people think that women pay a little bit okay, stable, a man can not. "Fortunately my parents are very democratic, they respect my choice, feel happy to do well;" But some relatives and friends are different, they advised me to say, you see you dry nurse, did so many years or this old appearance, early career change! ”

"In fact, many friends who have turned to business or even worked, earn more money than we do," he said. Mokugawa bitterly said, the value of nursing work not only not reflected in the economy, in people's understanding is also very far, "a lot of people say that the dry nurse is not a shot to change the dressing, but in fact, nursing, treatment, spiritual comfort, hospice and so on, we work a lot." ”

Team cycling and climbing, cool!

"Sometimes busy, working like a war, immediately after work, lying in bed." Mokugawa described his work in this way. But because of the shifts reason, many people suffer from insomnia, "tired body fell on the bed, but the brain can not sleep, this feeling is not good." ”

Mokugawa said, this is not only male nurses, but also the problem of the group of nurses, "some young nurses do a year or two waist pain, insomnia, and some 54-year-old to eat sleeping pills, so how can long?" ”

"The nursing work is very complicated, but has the standard flow, every day to the patient, not only is the intensity question, sometimes also can feel very boring." "The happiest thing in the job is that some patients can chat and talk with ease and humor," says Mokugawa.

In order to better regulate themselves in the high intensity of work, Mokugawa and colleagues go cycling, hiking and "emptying themselves" as soon as they are free. "Do not go to Safflower Lake, riding a car through the streets and alleys, that feeling particularly good." Mokugawa that only learn to play, is to learn to work leisurely.

Nanfang Daily reporter Daiju

Correspondent Liu