It's a lot harder than starting a business.

Since starting a business, the biggest problem is not the lack of funds, nor the team can not find brothers, but the girlfriend and I make a fuss.

Yi in the United States to school, like the day does not understand the dark night, her day is often I tired into a dog night.

Yi Yi phone Call, and I explore the "which bag better look" such a human ultimate proposition. In the past, with my rich experience in the struggle against the enemy, a "well" "Ah" "yes", "haha", to ensure that everything reserve said nothing to let the Yi comfortable, happily hung up the phone to continue to tangle alone to buy what bag problem. I am contented with purity.

And now, No. The phone call from Yi, my mind is full of projects, funds, teams and other ideas, for Iraq's "package paradox", I can only be a small part of the brain and attention to respond to the original rich, full of care and concern, the understanding of the modal words have become a simple "um" "Um," "MM-hmm."

So, Iraq is not happy.

Days without contact, even without energy to think and good. I am busy with the muddle, open my eyes and snore, I basically forget the distant beauty of the emperor himself and a Pisces girlfriend.

The most unbearable is a lot of customers to the requirements of the shadow, where there will inevitably be female customers, and some female customers will inevitably send photos to Weibo. Thoughtful Yi saw the micro-blog, and found all sorts of things in Iraq seems to have no organization without discipline without party spirit can speak of photos.

Pisces cranky play to the limit, a micro-letter, said I changed, must be immersed in the mammoth in the sister's reluctant, was lard heart. Then a screenshot sent, I found that my micro-letter was actually changed to "Zhang Shimei."

Unfortunately, is in the Angel round me, and not enough attention to such booked, incredibly will be treated in accordance with the general enemy, reply to a dig nasal excrement, attempt to muddle through.

So, the sky collapsed.

Iraq phone call, with a "Zhang Tianyi, you are fat ah" for the beginning, then to tears, cry, will I accuse of becoming a heinous, unfaithful son, the Han. I am dumb to eat coptis, there are bitter said no, only the enemy into my retreat, to time for living space, hope that the anger can be naturally extinguished. Do not want to endure the humiliation of such a submissive in Iraq seems to be a last-ditch struggle, no sincerity to say.

My charges are gradually Leno upgraded, from the Iraq phone often do not pick up (sometimes really busy to attend to), to Iraq when I was sick my greetings just drink hot water (generally cautious of me in addition to the greeting to drink more hot water will also say eat VC), to the Not-Yi http://www.aliyun.com/zixun/ Aggregation/34037.html ">update the latest progress (sometimes too tired), to the micro-letter reply is not sincere (sometimes do not care to reply to some of the expression of Yi) ...

Finally, word, is starting a business I became the eyes of Iraq has not been out of the wives has abandoned the Chen.

All say entrepreneurship is bitter, how to fix a girl friend in my opinion is bitter no one can say.

Chairman Mao taught us: "Eggs change to a chicken due to the appropriate temperature, but the temperature does not make it into a chicken." "I decided to turn the egg into a chicken, to open the mouth, but not the smelly and hard stone." I started thinking about how to deal with relationships between startups and girlfriends.

On the one hand, it is obvious that the entrepreneur has no life, my life is only two parts of work and sleep, even sleep my dream has about work.

On the other hand, the girlfriend is still to coax good, the rear to do production construction, frontline soldiers can peace of mind war. However, the construction of the need for time and energy, but the start-up of my lack of time and energy.

So, basically entrepreneurial and coax girlfriend is a pair of irreconcilable contradictions. I've even seen in my friends that the two have become two choices.

What to do?

I tried to brood. Finally thought of the countermeasure. As an entrepreneur with a Pisces girlfriend. I think it is not that Iraq does not support me to start a business, nor is it not shenmingdayi, but Iraq would prefer to see an attitude in me: that is, she is very important.

As far as my girlfriend is concerned, she is obviously an emotional animal. Sometimes she blames me for not caring about her life. But when I really asked her about her life, Yi would say 32 words and ask me about my business.

More than specific and time-consuming to accompany, care, Yi More need is the scene and the sense of participation. For example, I find that even though I sometimes blame myself for not focusing on my own business. But when I discuss a business with the Iraqi, I will take an active part in it.

Entrepreneurs all seem to need to enter another dimensional life, such a life is easy to let Yi lost scene, such as my girlfriend often a "your world I do not understand" as a mantra, to express the Pisces panic and the resulting endless fantasy.

My solution, too, was quickly presented with a sense of scene and a sense of engagement. I talk to her about everything, not just update, but she will be proactive.

More than rational transposition thinking, Yi more need is intuitive feeling. Just started to start a business, I will often very depressed, obviously very tired, why Iraq still have to pull me said that, this is really poor understanding ah. Sometimes I will tell Yi I am very tired, but this time Yi will be unhappy, think I don't care about her.

Now, compared to trying to convince Iraq of my hard work, I will first clear my attitude. On the phone, I first take the initiative to fight the chicken blood mode and the Iraqi communication, than no entrepreneurial time to be excited to speak with Iraq. So Yi quickly felt my sincerity: I am very tired, but I am still in a very exaggerated effort to play chicken blood state and her communication. At this time Yi will voluntarily say you are very tired, do not specially amuse me the kind of words, then, I happily has been liberated, Yi also happily realizes that she still receives the attention.

In addition, I learned the more important point, if the time is limited, then must be from the scene set up in Iraq in time to escape, decisively to her own set up a new scene. For example, sometimes come back at night, tired not to die, this time to tell me her teeth pain, in accordance with the past practice I will rack my brains to ponder some have no faint strokes, let her go to ice, eat honeysuckle or something. But you know, for a daily exhausted entrepreneurs, but also to think about how difficult it is, and then with that tired voice to say these no sincerity of the plan, Iraq is not angry is strange.

Now I am smart, because I understand Yi also clearly know that I can not help anything, all she needs is my attitude. I and Yi said, today's moon is very round, I Miss Yi. Then said that the day when doing xx things also think of the Yi, and then say to do today what this thing is ... By constantly creating new scenes, she soon got the results she wanted, no longer entangled in the problem of toothache, and left happily.

Back to the question of female Customers micro blog, I now determined to learn to open every day, the first initiative to explain the situation, and a few female customers took the phase, what is the situation, and then tell the Iraqis in the rivers of the philosophy. In this way before the opening of the Iraq, I have successfully confessed to the wide, but also let Iraq get what Iraq most want: a sense of participation and security.

After all this pain, I realized that when exhausted, the way to get a girlfriend is to be decisive and to take her into your scene. Tell Yi in various ways: you are more important than starting a business.

The consequence is that, in the short time, Yi will let me live in a reasonable way.