Learn to think about each other

This is a problem that I suddenly realized recently. When discussing a problem with an experienced or a good person, you will often find that the other side will consider more in-depth and comprehensive points, the discussion of a pass down, always feel that they consider too one-sided, always annoyed how did not think the other side thought of this.

When a student does a math problem, when he encounters a problem that will not solve it, it often finds that it is a simple step and all the questions will be solved. This time if read the answer after the end, just remember: Oh, this topic which place to do so. In another one months, I usually can't solve this problem again. Later, I learned to try to think, why this place? Is it because of the condition that you think of this formula? See the answer in fact most of the time is to think about solving ideas, so that is understood, impressive, and then encounter similar, can be solved

Of course, the work can not be like math problems, there is no standard answer, there is no absolute right and wrong. But most of the time, if you try to think about how the other person thinks, he is based on what points to propose this solution, if the other side is right, then you also learn to grow, the next time also will think about these points, if the other side is wrong, you can grasp the other side of the point of departure to convince him.

The essence of the problem is to learn to think independently, do not easily believe in other people's views, and do not easily veto other people's views, but also not to take other people's views as their own point of view. Now impetuous Internet circle has too many such people, read a bit of science and technology media articles, began to talk about what the future trends, a major company inevitable collapse, a new product is bound to go a long way ... This kind of article or want to look less, know the point of information can be, or their own quiet heart to a lot of research products more thinking is.