Most middle school students will love the network as a love game

The domestic middle school student net Love Special report publishes the cartoon Liu Evening News reporter Chanyu reports recently, reporter learned from the Shanghai Academy of General, a school of Education and Science, Northeastern Normal University, Sun Yaiping, etc. written by the domestic high school students "online Love" special Investigation report shows that about 20% of the respondents have "cyber love" experience,　　Most middle school students only regard cyber love as a kind of emotional game. Most networks are limited to virtual space The survey involves 16 middle schools in 10 provinces, cities and autonomous regions of Shanghai, Beijing, Guangdong and Hubei, and 2558 sets of effective questionnaires were recovered.　　Among them, the survey shows that nearly 20% students have had a cyber love experience, boys, whether in the incidence of online love or have the number of online lovers, are significantly higher than girls. The reason for the occurrence of online love is also varied, more than 40% of secondary school students will be "emotional frustration, loss or boredom," the negative emotional experience as the reason for the development of online love. In the way of online love, nearly 70% of students choose to be limited to online chat to meet or live online, such as online marriage, the establishment of virtual online families, and the common network life.　　At the same time, 16.2% of middle school students choose to bring online love into the real life style, and 7.7% of middle school students choose to develop a "one-night stand" way to develop cyber love.　　The selection criteria of middle school students ' internet lovers mainly include "character", "Just feel" and "appearance", respectively, the proportion is 30.8%, 21.4% and 19.1%. Most students believe that online love is a recreational game survey pointed out that the current can be seen in the media in the case of the victims of cyber love, thus, adults are also prevalent in the network of middle school students worried about the relationship, worried that high school students will go astray, deceived. In the opinion of the survey, this kind of worry is not unreasonable and should not be too big.　　Data show that 41.3% of the students only love as a love game, 27.6% of the students as a net love as a pure spirit of love, 25.4% of the students think that online love is a possibility from virtual excessive to the reality of love. In line with the answer to this question, most students ' online love attitude is entertaining, that the net love is like in "online game is almost, is a joke", is "a kind of feeling game, can not be taken seriously", in this premise, most students also recognized that "online love is just a game, there is no need to be single-minded."　　At the same time, more than 40% students on the net love is neutral attitude, that online love can be a good thing, can also become bad. Guide students to treat the network of heterosexual contact experts believe that online love although in middle school students is not a common phenomenon, but also within a certain range of a network of friends. In many cases, it is not in the real sense of love, but a heterosexual interaction game, and a considerable number of students have a correct understanding of it. Experts pointed out that the middle school students can not simply the network communication in cyberspace equivalent to the network version of Puppy love. If students can correctly grasp, may become the middle school students to confide their own negative emotions, to meet the emotional needs, to eliminate the heart anxiety of a way, so as to have a positive effect on healthy growth. Experts also suggested that the middle school students to correct treatment of the opposite sex in the network, to start from many aspects, so that students understand the characteristics of network communication, such as the anonymity of identity, the exchange of information, as well as the majority of the network mentality, so as to eliminate the middle school students on the network of heterosexual Enhance the ability of rational treatment of network communication.