My girlfriend always let me pay

Mutual tea/28 years old/clerk

Mutual tea: In fact, is more sensitive topic, but still want to talk to you.

Nuo: Well, what's the matter?

Mutual tea: Is my girlfriend always let me in the Internet to help her to buy things, although not very expensive things, but to tell the truth my heart is not happy, not how much money, it is not like this way.

Nuo: The kind that you like to pay for?

Mutual Tea: Yes, we've had a fight about it. I told her what I wanted to say to her later, I would buy it for her, instead of paying for it passively, as it is now. I felt like she was used to paying for me, and I paid for the last time I bought a pair of slippers. That day I was not very good mood, in the company busy one day very tired, did not help her pay, did not think she was angry, said I do not love her. You said it's not funny to test love and love with this?

Nuo: Oh, how long have you been together?

Mutual tea: Nearly a year.

Nuo: How was the relationship?

Mutual tea: Not bad, at least I feel good. But since she often asked me to help her buy things, I feel strange. After all, we have not married, nor cohabitation, usually are different, she so as if I have been her husband.

Nuo: haha.

Mutual tea: personal feelings, it is best not to involve money, this is really very sensitive. You see, I just refused to do it once, and she thought I didn't love her. So I have to have a good talk with her this time, will not help her to pay for anything, this and I love her is completely different. If she had to pull these two irrelevant things together, I'd be really angry.

Nuo: Once in a while played one or two times is not not can not, as the habit is always not very good. The question of principle is to have a good talk. Because the little things hurt the big feelings will not outweigh the gains.

Mutual Tea: She is now a bit of a dead head, always unhappy, I am very nerve-racking.

Nuo: A good coaxing, from the Horn of the drill out also takes time.

Mutual tea: Well, I'll talk to her again, thank you.

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