No one in the workplace irreplaceable

Work, the boss likes to say to employees: "You are the company's pillars, the mainstay ... ... balabala ...... guy doing well, promising, XX post is empty." Then give you to draw a pie, then talk about the success of learning , Inspirational pieces, soul chicken soup, the United States to coax your heart bother, feel no, the company almost collapsed the next day.

When you fall in love, you have similar situations. Men like to say something like "You are different from other girls." "You are the most special girl I have ever seen." ...... If you ask him, "What is the difference? ? "He can not answer, will only say:" can not be said, anyway, is not the same, I see you on the xxx. "Men a few words, female grace confused letter. What is more, met twice did not return it, even the other side what personality do not know, dare to love and life directly linked. "You are my life", "I can not live without you," such a shameless words, what dare to say. Seemingly absurd, but why some people buy it.

But whether in work or in life, is anyone really irreplaceable? I say two examples are true. The first one is about work, the second about living.

I am a programmer friend, and all programmers, hardworking and a bit proud. When the work is really dedicated, there is always a kind of me who the spirit of daily obligations to work overtime to 8,9 points, the computer is a sit-in for 10 + hours. Frozen shoulder, cervical spondylosis, sciatica ... get a bunch of occupational diseases, their own dry is not happy. When a friend persuaded him to take a break, he always said: "You do not understand. There are many problems in this system. Except I can not solve it, I will be finished if I leave. Finally, he left for various reasons. After leaving, he stole the past three colleagues to inquire about the status of the next project, the result made him very disappointed. After he left, the project did not collapse, did not even delay, the boss quickly find a more Niubi replaced him, everything is operating normally.

He was mythology of those workplace, brain chicken soup brain wash, think he martial arts best in the world, he is "irreplaceable." In order to collective, honor, the interests of others (in fact, the interests of the boss), in the case of a clear holiday, take the initiative to give up their holidays, but also feel very honored. Give up the chance to watch movies with his girlfriend, give up the agreement with friends to party, and even gave up the holiday to visit their parents ... ... give up too much important thing, to pursue the so-called "success", the whole end of the cart before the horse.

Not only in work, in life, such examples more. My other friend, girl, is learning the market, but doing the administration, work leisure, low wages, the reason why such a choice, is entirely to take care of her boyfriend. She lived together with her boyfriend. All her life was done around her boyfriend. Her living expenses were boyfriends. Her hobbies were boyfriends. Friends were all her boyfriends. Climb up from the 6th floor every morning to climb up to buy fried pancake fruit fritters, go to the market at night to buy chicken to buy fish. Seven days a week, not heavy to the boyfriend delicious drink for. In order to wait a good boyfriend, gave up all their hobbies and circles, heart to heart followed him. Unfortunately, her boyfriend derailed. Although she had a belly grievance and cried to death, she still chooses to endure and she does not want to break up. Her original remark is: "Now I am surrounded by all my life. He is my only one. Without him, I Do not know how to live. "

Later, of course, all kinds of crying is useless. The points or points, she moved out of her boyfriend's house, rented a room himself, quit his original job, returned to his own decency, the original enthusiasm for her boyfriend voted to work, two years later, Her salary has been higher than the ex-boyfriend, there is no lack of a vote of better suitors. When a friend gathered to eat, I asked her: "You did not say that he did not live before? I now see you live is not bad ah? Mixed wind and water." She himself embarrassed smile : "The original is indeed too naive, always thought he could not live without, in fact, in this world, who is not the same who live apart from it?"

Indeed, online those who will always bring "life", "life", "no you can not live" and the like Kudu Ku Ba 屌 fried love words can cheat boys and girls tears, many people even according to that standard to make friends, But those feelings are like adding a chicken soup of poppy shells, drink more can only harm themselves, young, what events have not experienced, I dare say for each other to die, then your parents heard, no Sad? Even people who do not care for their own lives, will love others?

Why do not you talk about the general public, mortal beings? Do not give me the example of Jobs, he really Niubi is every day, get up at 4 o'clock in the morning, work all year round , But he is over in his 50s ah? Not to mention China, the world is also so single jump one, not universal. If you live every day, "everyone is drunk I awake alone, the world are muddy I alone Qing" idea to live, you will live tired and bitter. To tell the truth, most people only exist to maintain the complexity and diversity of higher organisms, you and I, who he is no exception.

When you feel that you are important, is the only, irreplaceable time. You think about it. One day you left the world, who would really heartbroken, crying dead, except your father and mother. Will other people be more than three?

Source: stay a few hands