On the three-day class to resign young people

It's a huge benefit that people can have fun from their work. All in all, it is good to do anything; but to do something like this is where human values ​​and dignity lie.

Last week recruited a young man. When the interview, very passionate, well-prepared, the company has also done research, and even dialogue and questioning, obviously rehearsal before, in a word, looks like a very serious young man.

He said: In my opinion, this is the company and culture I want. This is my favorite job. The young man, wearing black-rimmed glasses, was passionate about his idealism when he said that.

To be honest, I was impressed by this demeanor. I think perhaps the work is full of complicated and boring, but only this passion can create excellence.

Later, I looked at the work again and found a good foundation. Decided to hire. HR gave him an OFFER soon. The second week came to work.

A few days later, he sent a text message to the supervisor, saying he did not like the job. The next day, he will not come. Even the separation procedures did not do.

When the supervisor spoke to me, I was still very surprised. "Is not this possible?" I think this act of recklessness is totally unlike what the young man should have.

I really want to talk to him and sent him a text message. No reply. I am going to give him a phone call, but then I thought I did not think it necessary.

Even talking on the phone, I want to talk to him what?

Advise him to continue to the company? - No, I will not want him again. I do not want such young people.

Talk to him what is "responsibility"? - Are adults, but also quite boring.

Talking about the relationship between "like" and "work" - I'm not Kazuo Inamori, and I can not say "I like working on it rather than looking for my favorite job."

Think of it, I want to tell him my story.

I want to talk about myself 7 years ago.

At that time, I had not graduated from college and did a script copywriting at a video advertising company. Writing scripts is very hard, video ads are not interesting. With my imagination before completely different.

Just fall in love with his girlfriend came to me. One day, I did not even greet the boss, and said with the administration I quit. I packed my things and left.

Cell phone shut down, with his girlfriend after a few days isolated, happy, heartless day, I suddenly felt that the company should give an account, so bite the bullet and go to the company to find the boss to talk about.

Coincidentally, in the company of the elevator to see the boss, with a group of people, carrying the size of the equipment, hurried out outside shot. The boss saw me, stunned for a moment, said to me: wait for me, come back to tell you.

I was terrified This boss is usually temper, this can not kill me next?

I was in the company for fear of waiting an hour. I looked at the company busy with other people, simply do not care about me. Extreme embarrassment.

I found a piece of paper, wrote a long letter, on the front desk. Be account for a moment

In short, I fled.

This is the beginning of my career. An obscene, tainted start.

I am looking for that young man to talk about this.

I want to tell him that it has become an embarrassment to me that I can not wear it away for a long time.

After that, I often suddenly remembered myself in a bath when I fled, the heart itch incomparable, could not help but to howling two throat to ease.

Later, I formally entered the advertising and broadcasting industry. I worked in a local creative company for three years, followed by the director and started her own business. This year is the fourth year.

In 2012, by chance, I saw the boss of the original movie company.

After all, for many years, I have had a sense of commonplace, to take the initiative to say hello to others. He still remembered me, shook hands with me with enthusiasm, asked me about the current situation, praised me for being "talented" and did not seem able to remember the embarrassing encounter at the elevator.

We have a meal together, have the opportunity to cooperate after the meeting.

Since then, we have never seen it again.

After that meeting, I completely forgave myself. I also understand one thing - almost everything you find embarrassing can only be remembered by you. Others have long forgotten or do not mind, only you, as a long time can not fade "heart itch."

Looking back at the past, I was like Wang Xiaobo. Wang Xiaobo has an article called "Work and Life." I was reading no big feeling, better than reading "a maverick pig" so enjoyable. But looking back now, this article is almost always written into my heart.

There are three sentences, still my heart:

The first sentence is: "It's a huge benefit that people can have fun with their work."

The second sentence is: "All in all, it is good to do anything, but to do something like this is where man's worth and dignity lie."

The third sentence is: "When people work, not only with the hands, legs and waist, but also with the mind and their own heart."

Unconsciously, I found myself in the face of work, attitude and their idol exactly the same life. It makes me feel very excited. As if I had experienced a practice that I myself was unaware of. Now confirmed, repair for the body, as usual.

And from the beginning of that embarrassing start, the attitude and cognition of this face-to-face work started from the long-lasting heart that can not be dissipated.

That embarrassing experience and the constant self-examination and constant devotion to the work over the years have given me a fresh idea of ​​"work". And how I should treat "work."

Yes. If I had a chance to see that young man again, I would talk to him about them.

Author: wheat Cheng

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