Post status information on Weibo and the reason of life sentiment

This article is aware of the user's questions, why should people in micro-blog, Facebook and so on to release their status information or life sentiment?

From the most favoured @ minus two answer:

It's not about sharing!!!

It's about expressing yourself!!!

section of the column to answer you:

If you have a more thorough understanding of human nature, you will see a deeper motivation in the move to "send a picture of a dish to a friend." Only a narcissistic person would think that the "I'm eating this dish" thing is important, important enough to let others know--unfortunately, everyone in the world is narcissistic except for depression, and you'll notice that most of the information in the social network has nothing to do with "communication", just someone who publishes Self-marketing information that "thinks it's important". According to the theory of human self-expression, people's self-expression is often based on the characteristics of the other side of the relationship to take a corresponding response, people will constantly adjust and control the information presented to others, especially the information about themselves in order to establish a good image of their own-so people will enthusiastically maintain their microblog image, Turn a blind eye to the leak of privacy and be abusive to your loved ones.

See someone to ask for the full text, actually did not send the full text and refused to reprint is because the manuscript has not been sent out, now it doesn't matter. The full text reads as follows:

Social networks, life kidnappers in the electronic age

Social receptacle, the life kidnaper

Minus Two

Everyone takes out their cell phones before greeting each other. Several of them "sign in" with their mobile phones, and then forward "check-in" information to everyone present, while others take photos of the dishes on their cell phones, and then forward them to everyone present, until all the prompts are gone and everyone starts to move their chopsticks, While absent-minded to gossip, if there is no explosive topic that attracts the attention of everyone in the audience, then everyone's attention will be captured by their own phone-for example, I would receive a clumsy doodle from the person sitting opposite me, and then let me guess a word based on this picture.

Now, this is about the same as having a dinner, forwarding a photo of a dish to the person sitting next to you eating with you, it's a stupid thing to say, but people still enjoy it-when a water dispenser has a Weibo account, we realize that nothing is going to stop social networking, Whether it's a meal or a reunion.

Most people who are keen on using mobile phones to refresh SNS sites do not believe that social addiction is a problem-they have the illusion that when needed, I must be able to restrain myself, which is certainly easier than quitting. But this is not the case, online social addiction is quite different from addiction, and if you know the mechanics behind it, you will be amazed at how well it can exploit the weakness of human psychology-a normal person who falls into this trap is almost impossible not to be addicted to this thing.

If you have ever refreshed the page during the forum, you'll understand how sophisticated the social networking notification system is--it's hard to tolerate waiting, they need a new state of stimulation, and modern airports are designed to be long and long in the distance between the air and the baggage. In order to avoid the passengers in the baggage to fork in the luggage, because "walk" than "etc" easier to accept-and the creation of the notification system, the product managers are clearly familiar with this, as long as you're notified that the system is constantly giving status updates, you can let people log in every day and stay on your social networking site for a long time. This trick is like using sausages to tease dogs.

Many people think that social networking sites reduce the cost of communication between people, facilitated the flow of information and the world--they were apparently deceived by Facebook and Sina's meager websites, while those who knew the nature of human society agreed that it was one of the driving forces underpinning social networking-and that there was some truth in it, People always have the power to see old friends who haven't seen each other for years. Old classmate, or first lover, see if they are worse than themselves, my cousin has confessed to me, after he heard the news of the former girlfriend divorced, he has one consecutive months of attention to her microblog and happy net account, and feel very cool--Buffett said, Competition is not the driving force behind human progress, jealousy is.

But in fact, it's only a few drops of soy sauce in the social networking dish--if you have a better understanding of human nature, you'll see a deeper motivation in the move to "forward a plate of photos to everyone you eat with." Only a narcissistic person would think that the "I'm eating this dish" thing is important, it's important enough to let everyone know--unfortunately, everyone in this world is narcissistic except for depression, and you just have to notice that most of the information in the social network has nothing to do with communication. It's just a personal marketing message from someone who thinks it's important. According to the theory of human self-expression, people's self-expression is often based on the characteristics of the other side of the relationship to take a corresponding response, people will constantly adjust and control the information presented to others, especially the information about themselves in order to establish a good image of their own-so people will enthusiastically maintain their microblog image, Turn a blind eye to the leak of privacy and be abusive to your loved ones.

The latest research shows that passionate about social networking, and probably your lack of success--3 out of 4 Americans are Facebook users, but in people with disposable assets of more than 1 million dollars, that's only 26%, and the percentage of millionaires on Twitter is just poor bumping Psychologists say the reason may be that wealth gives people more independence, less reliance on others, less attention to others, and a tendency to focus on themselves. Surely Zuckerberg will not be on his own web site all the while-and most of the world is "not successful", no doubt.

As long as you see through all this, you will understand that the social network boom, is not a revolution in science and technology, it is just a focus of human weakness, and it is not seen behind the butt, more or less can smell the taste of a conspiracy--free Software Foundation chairman Richard Stallman that , the real-name Facebook is an international parasitic project, and Jonathan Nolan (the writer of inception) says in his play that Facebook is actually the CIA, and since people around the world have been so willing to disclose their privacy, the CIA's work has been much simpler.

Now it seems that the temptation to stay away from notification sounds, from social networks for their own "free" is the way of life.

547 Tickets @ Shu, Internet enthusiast

I sum up, the Three Laws of SNS psychology: The First law: a person's inner strength and his microblog, micro-letter friends, IM Signature Update frequency is inversely proportional. Second law: A person's degree of narcissism is proportional to the frequency with which his microblog and micro-trust pictures are published. The third law: a person's sense of loneliness is proportional to the square of the number of times he refreshes Weibo and micro-letters.

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