Spring Festival New Year's custom: back to her mother

[summary] The first lunar month, most of our country have married the girl back to her mother's custom. Early in the morning, my husband and I put on new clothes, take a few boxes of parents love to eat snacks, candy and noodles, full of anticipation of speeding in the road back to her mother.

Jellyfish Network February 21 (YMG reporter Sun Yu Photography report) The first month, most of our country have to marry out of the girl back to her mother's customs. Mother said, "think the daughter married out in the beginning of the day can not return to her mother's home, the family will eat poor, only in the early two can return to her mother." In the day of the year, married out of the daughter to take her husband, children back to her mother. "Although usually regularly back to Mother's house, but during the Spring Festival of these old rules, I still have to abide by, not only respect the tradition, or respect the elderly people's" will. "Back to the Maiden's daughter to bring candy and noodles, candy expressed wish life sweet sweet beauty, noodles is to express the meaning of healthy longevity." After her mother-in-law, my husband and I carefully prepared to return to her mother's gift. Early in the morning, my husband and I put on new clothes, take a few boxes of parents love to eat snacks, candy and noodles, full of anticipation of speeding in the road back to her mother.

Although only a few days did not go back to Mother's house, but pushed open the door that moment feel still familiar and unfamiliar. Familiar or that house, Strange is a house full of flowers already occupy the living room, home a new brand. Mother has prepared the breakfast and is gardening on the balcony. This breakfast can be much richer than usual, not only dumplings, stir fry, as well as stewed fish, crabs, sea cucumber and so on. Just entered the door, my mother came to me and my husband's mouth stuffed with food, immediately the tip of the tongue by sweet toffee parcel. "Why so sweet, too sweet." "I wound to eat sugar." At this time, the mother smiled and said: "This year, it will be so sweet, bless you both a sweet honey." "I just reacted to my mother's well-intentioned, a warm heart."

Subsequently, my husband and I have to kowtow to the parents, although the parents are humility to say "forget it, now do not pay attention to this", but still very happy to accept our kowtow gift.

Whenever I eat dumplings on Chinese New Year, I always fear that my teeth will be cut off by coins. Parents always put coins, peanuts, dates, toffee and other symbols of auspicious meaning of things wrapped into dumplings, I always carefully eat dumplings, hard to swallow. At this time, once eat coins, toffee, peanuts or dates, still very happy, hope this year can go big luck.

After breakfast, father proposed to take a photo of a family, this is the family's old rules. At this time, everyone will dress up carefully, take out the camera at home, shouting "eggplant", exposing teeth, leaving this happy moment.

As the time was too rush, after the mother's home a little rest, she set out to prepare for the next party. Before noon, we have to rush to participate in the husband's family more than 10 Big reunion dinner.

Because of the large population, the home simply sit down, family dinner has to go to the hotel. In-Laws, uncles, sister-in-law, sister-in-law ... A congratulations, said the auspicious words, everyone while enjoying the feast feast, while chatting up gossip, see children also want to give red envelopes. According to the family's generation, age size, from big to small toast, round down to two hours. Every year, this family big dinner will add new, who brought a daughter-in-law, who has a daughter, who wild the baby, these became the table talking about the focus, everyone will give the new or early for the parents of the people toast. After all, the family, drinking or more humane. If the new person a little alcohol, it must be relatives to explore the bottom, relatives take turns to toast, round down, again good liquor can not be overwhelmed, not drunk. If the new people do not drink, relatives will not dispute, still will be one by one toast, say a few words of blessing.

Whether it is to go home, or to participate in the husband's family reunion, can feel the deep affection. People sit together, talk about work, talk about family matters, encourage each other and help each other. Relatives are busy for a year, it is difficult to seated people. Only at this time, the pro people put down a year of exhaustion, put down a burden, from the field back, together to drink, chat, entertainment.

Year after year, although the time is changing, but the affection between the pro people has not changed. No matter how high they fly, how far, how tired, always have affection with us around, just let us have more courage to move forward.