&http://www.aliyun.com/zixun/aggregation/37954.html ">nbsp; It's hard to get married with a wife, almost divorced Zhang Xin.
I and Zhang Xin married after a company, probably from the marriage, run the company this is the six months before the completion of things, the most difficult is the first two things, housework, the company's things together, almost divorced. I remember we were married two years, the company two years, my wife and I almost every day noisy, meet on the noisy. Once she said no, she was gone, went back to England, I drove a car, with luggage to send her to the capital airport, walk halfway to the two of us again, she said you stop the car, I stopped, she took the luggage to taxi go, one months without any contact. I think this marriage is going to draw a full stop, not to mention the company. This may be the deepest time of our crisis.
One months later she called me and she said she wanted to come back to China, hoping not to get involved in the company. So, it's really a tough thing to start a business with a husband and wife, and she says she has kids at home, and the company doesn't care. I said yes, I'll do it.
in this process I have some experience. The 1th experience is to find a company partner, not a class of students, this is actually a failure, you will, he will, you won't he will not, the experience and knowledge structure is almost the same, do not be partners together, the most important thing is to complement each other, you will he will not, he would you will not, This is the basis of a good partner. I see this, I and my wife is completely different, my wife is a returnee, I am a turtle, she from the West, I come from the northwest, so, completely different, we look at each other's strengths. The first step is to appreciate each other. The first step is like the flowers in the garden, although I am a grass, but as a flower can appreciate me is good.
I remember a day at my wife's wedding when my wife's best friend sent his sister. My wife this friend has never seen me, I called to ask his sister, Zhang Xin found a husband how, his sister sang song, "No Tree high, no flowers, just a nameless grass", grass and trees to be able to appreciate each other. This is the first phase. The second stage is not enough to appreciate each other, I now the deepest experience is that two people should be integrated, like a beam of light, he is a beam of light, I was a beam of light, two beams of light together, they can not be separated from each other. When young people want to get married and start a company with their wives, they must think this road is a hard road.
The three
in life: Deng Xiaoping Zhang Xin Feng
Wantong Chairman Feng once to Pan Shiyi said: "Is three people accomplished you, Deng Xiaoping, your wife, and me." Pan Shiyi thought so deeply.
said that the High-profile and marketing pan Shiyi has "peasant-style cunning".
1963, Pan Shiyi was born in a small mountain village in Tianshui, Gansu province, talking about childhood, poverty, hunger, and the "Cultural revolution" period of endless intervention, is the most talked about topics.
in the "Rivers and Lakes" salon, Pan Shiyi recalled that the primary school when the material is the poorest, when the food is less, often take the sweet potato as the staple food, so now "see sweet potatoes on the acid water."
in the 80 's, Pan Shiyi resigned from the oil department of Langfang, Hebei province, to become one of "Wantong six Gentlemen", earning the first bucket of gold, more to meet a number of important business partners.
in the "Six Gentlemen", Pan's position is not high. Public information, Wang is the general manager, Feng and Liu June are vice chairman, and Pan Shiyi often in the end, is "management of financial".
Wang Recall, Pan Shiyi in financial very shrewd, everyone gave him the nickname "Pan". Talking about Pan Shiyi out of the book, Wang smiled and joked: "In the end is the original is very we did not find, or money after all aspects of the improvement?"
and Wang to Pan's ridicule different, pan to these entrepreneurial partners are always generous praise.
He appraised Feng "the thought is very active, is a mountain in front of me, the more never past". He appraised Wang is "a reliable elder brother", after a lapse of many years, he still will mention Wang the sentiment of that year: "Wang said, ' We do the company is to take the Chinese contemporary intellectual's serve the country road '." ”
Pan's second Take-off, due to the encounter with Zhang Xin.
if the current standards, Zhang Xin is a genuine "white rich beauty." She moved to Hong Kong in her childhood, graduated from Cambridge University and worked for Goldman Sachs on Wall Street and spoke fluent English. When reading in Cambridge, she and Zhang in Oxford to join together to set up the British Economic Society, and Pan Shiyi is Zhang Welcome Fellow, it is this layer of relationship to two people to do the media.
"Suddenly heard two people fall in love." Pan Shiyi has a hand in this, Wang said. In a TV show, Zhang Xin said that she was chasing Pan Shiyi, "and after a very difficult, he had a girlfriend, and just left the ex-wife, is simply difficult." ”
not only "Lightning love", two people know a few months after the "lightning marriage." After the marriage, Pan Shiyi left Wantong, and in 1995 and Zhang Xin co-founded Beijing Red Stone Industrial Co., Ltd. (predecessor of Soho China).
Two people jointly developed the Soho modern city, the foot of the Great Wall of the commune, Jian Wai Soho, Soho Shandu and a series of real estate. Ms. Zhang is in charge of building design and capital operation, and Pan Shiyi is responsible for sales and government relations.
in the "Rivers and Lakes" salon, Pan Shiyi said: "Zhang Xin is a very important person for me." ”
He also responded to the audience of "pecked" cross-examine: "You are still very young, listen to the wife, life will be very happy, you must remember." ”
Feng once said Pan Shiyi: "Three people have made you, Deng Xiaoping, your wife, and me." ”
in this salon, this sentence was again brought up by Pan Shiyi.
