The first letter to Da Bao

Remember when I wrote the 2013 summary at the beginning of the year, my mother wrote this passage:

Recently, there is a lot of voice around: "When are you going to have a baby?" "and" to be born early, very old to suffer. "Contradictions are always common. To be honest, I hesitate to give birth to a child, and I have a faint fear. In fact, I like children, but I am afraid that after the birth of a child, can not give TA to provide a good environment for growth, not to let ta free from all kinds of toxic and harmful food hazards, deep inside fear that they can not become a qualified mother. Moreover, said selfish point, I am afraid that after the pregnancy, I can not travel, can not go to crazy play, can not eat delicious, TA's arrival, dispersed I enjoy life time. In fact, these reasons not only convince the family, but also can not convince myself. So, let it be natural, children and parents are doomed fate.

And mom will be "pregnant" in the 2014 plan.

But at the beginning of the year, because of a trip to Korea, we postponed the plan and postponed it again because of the rush. Another important reason is that mom wasn't sure if Dad was ready, and mom wanted it to be based on a joint effort, and I didn't want to force your dad to do something he wasn't ready for. Since the marriage, mother has been waiting for a certain. Finally, my mother and so on, one day, dad hugged his mother said, I want a baby, a baby belongs to us.

May is almost a business trip month, the unit sent her mother to travel on several occasions. Late dragon Boat Festival, mother and father to discuss, want to go back to Guangzhou, to see your grandpa and Grandma, Dad told me that he had already planned, to take me to Guangxi to spend our two years anniversary. But my mother still insisted on going home, because my mother felt that there are many opportunities to travel with her father. Later, Dad thought of a better way to take your grandparents to travel together, this also satisfied mother one of the plans this year. So our family six people all the way to Guizhou, from Guiyang-Anshun-Carey-Zhenyuan-Phoenix, a short 6th line left many precious and beautiful memories. Mother thought, the next trip, should be seven of us together.

The day on which the news was heard was the morning of July 23, the night before Zhou dream to mother, told her mother has a happy event, so morning up, mother can not wait to test, when see gradually obvious two red bar, excited to shout awake sleeping father, and then calmly handed him to see, "I seem pregnant." "He was incredibly suspicious, asked me whether I see the eye, when he opened the eyes of sleepy to see, he did not have any reaction, but to continue to sound asleep, of course, the mother is still immersed in the emotional mood, with a good mood to finish breakfast, backpack out to work." Then my father told me that he closed his eyes because he was so excited to cry. Yes, there is no drama in the excitement to embrace the scene, your father some too calm, as if everything is expected. The afternoon to the hospital confirmed that you really exist, mom phone told your grandmother and grandma and grandpa, they know your arrival, very happy.

After the excitement has passed, then comes the worry, the anxiety. Although from July onwards, dad will no longer allow the mother to wear high heels, do not allow mother to eat any outside food, but also do not allow mother to stay up late, all the cautious, all because of the strong sixth sense of your father feel your existence. Just before this week, Dad had a high fever to 39 degrees, even took a few days of medicine, so once worried that will affect you. Also, July is also mom and dad very busy one months, Dad busy contact media cooperation, mother busy to change the manuscript, sorting pictures and graphics, often a long time to face the computer.

The days that followed were slower than the day, you are so small, maybe you just just implantation, you are only an embryo, and the mother has not any reaction, every day is always unconsciously pay attention to you, the toilet accidentally twisted waist mom will worry about whether it hurt you, a long time to ride a car bump mom will be afraid to get you, Always on the computer mom will worry about you hurt, this anxiety and insecurity has been ongoing. They all said that the first three months must be careful, but also because these three months is a stage of the fittest, mother dare not to this aspect, every day to pray and dialogue with you, I hope you grow up healthily. The only way to let mom feel you are still in the body temperature, mother's temperature is significantly higher than before, and more than your father, every day before bedtime, gently touch the belly, touch the neck, tu, very hot, just rest assured sleep. Sometimes because of the first bath, the skin surface temperature has not come up, the mother will be a nervous, and then repeatedly let your father confirm.

The anxiety of waiting lasted until week sixth. From the sixth week, mother began to react. Morning Vomit became a daily inevitable thing, followed by the paella not fragrant, dizziness and brain swelling, let mom into what also do not want to do what also can not do the stage, have not experienced the expectant mothers are lucky, that feeling really very painful, every time before vomiting must experience the stomach twisted bowel boil. Every time I spit it out, it's like a struggle, a battle between the mind and the flesh. At the same time, the mother is gratified, because the book says, if the pregnancy is bad, the baby is healthy in the belly. To the seventh week, the daily vomit into a daily three vomit, mother think ah, vomit bar vomit, vomit to later habits. Just worry that you will be malnourished, because every day mom can only eat a small amount of things, eating and eating to vomit, eating eating will have no appetite. For the first time in my life, I think food is so annoying.

In addition to physical changes, there is also a noticeable change in spirit. Always think of a strong independent mother, suddenly become very timid and fragile, and as long as your father in the side, the mother became particularly dependent on him, no matter what, will hope that dad can stay around.

Your father is very good, he learned to do a lot of things to meet your arrival, he insisted on getting up early every day to prepare a nutritious breakfast for us, every day to wash at least two kinds of fruit for mom to take to work, every day before bedtime talk to you, every day to make a dance to mother to see the happy mother, every day touching the head of mother to coax her mother to sleep, And he was always tolerant of his mother's small temper ... All this, mom never imagined, but Dad did very well.

This morning, we went to MCH, your aunt took her mother to take the BC, the doctor said you grow very well, everything is normal, you have about eight weeks. Mother is very happy, although still lying in bed, dizziness and brain swelling, nausea to vomit, but think it all worthwhile.

Thank you baby, chose us to be your parents.