The perplexity of a young female programmer

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I graduated one year, the study is the information technology major, the graduation time has not thought what to do, wants to do the translation, but although English has 6 grade certificate, but the spoken language is not good. A little Japanese. Because the programmer work easy to find, entered the line. I'm looking for a job in Dalian. ）

In fact, the idea was very simple, that is to do the programmer compared to other work and people's contacts are not so much, and do not have much of the technology of dark nasty things.

But after work I found that it is not, sometimes a lot of people are not because of good technology, but because will be flattering or gifts and so on, in the company mix well.

I find it very unfair. Many girls are afraid of being a programmer too tired. I am not afraid of hardship and tired, that is, it is not fun to go on. My company is not good, I have only done a project development and a project test, I would like to job-hopping, but I think a good pl to betray, tell the human resources, just in the years ago did not go. He is more than 10 years older than me, he is very kind and nice to me. (liquidated damages 30,000, here advise just graduated students, do not sign liquidated damages so many companies, there must be a problem. The reason why he is good to me is that I am good at Japanese (at this time I have tested the 2 level) in the daily project, the test is to use Japanese to write test style book, and he can not Japanese, our group also have no Japanese good. I'm not gone. Achievement is monitored, and every few days I have to get criticized or get a chance to punish my money.

After a year, they didn't want me, and I was expelled, and I was happy to be expelled. But this time, I am not a fresh graduate, so I find a job, other companies to my request is also high. Because I am good at Japanese, so I found a job smoothly, this salary gives a lot. In fact, I do not have any work experience, but it requires a high 2 weeks to do 3 pages. Because I am strong, do not want to be looked down upon, so I work overtime, completed the task. But here's pl (This guy and I graduated from a college, the same term) wrote his name on the project. So the manager to talk to me, a lot of advice to me, said I did not progress and so on. I also very defy, the 2nd day resigned.

This is my experience of working for a year, I am very distressed, I want to know what the female programmer will become in the future, is really married no company want it, or how we try to gain a little respect and social status, I now want to go to the job, where my Japanese can be further improved, But now there are two years of work experience, I am in a dilemma.

The predecessors who want to come to this forum will give me advice, whether it is with people or career planning, your sincere help may affect my life, thank you for the