The success and the bond of the game

Winter vacation just past, in the holiday children spend a lot of time playing games frightened many parents. Parents are worried that their children will be addicted to computer games and will have a bad effect on their future growth.　　However, talent also has a lot of early contact with the game, the key is to teach children to learn self-control and constraints. Liu Yan, still under 23 years old, will receive a master's degree in computer science from Cornell University in a few months, and his next leg will be Oracle, the world's largest enterprise software company.　　In the media interview, he frankly his primary school has liked to play games, it is the computer generated a strong interest. Liu Yan Liu Yan's strong interest in computers stems from the primary school age. At that time, home computers were far from universal.　　Liu Yan's parents, because of their work needs, bought a 286 computer, so that Liu Yan in the second grade of primary school can access to computers, so that he has a strong interest in computers, thanks to computer games. Parents play games with their children properly guide Liu Yan parents to play games for their sons, neither conflict nor encouragement, but by playing games to teach him how to control his time.　　They will strictly limit the time Liu Yan play the game, how long to say how long, in order to develop his self-control ability. In the third grade, the mother took him to Zhongguancun to buy a name "Gemini Legend" game, as a birthday gift.　　Because the language of the game is English, his father accompanied him to check the English-Chinese dictionary while playing. It was this sort of parenting approach that made Liu Yan develop a habit that was vital to him-everything was planned in advance and strictly enforced. After college, he was surrounded by a lot of people from the strict control of the students feel that they seem to have suddenly been "free", then all day addicted to computer games. Liu Yan sometimes play with them, but can always control the time, "play the game is appropriate to relax, not to play games and play games."　　This attitude makes him like to play games but not indulge in, can reasonably control his investment in the game of time and energy. Learn to restrain and not indulge in the game of course Liu Yan is because of his efforts in the study, and let him have a strong interest in computers because of computer games, the correct guidance of parents so that he went to a successful and not addicted to the game. (Edit/Xu Mingming)