The love of men and women is nothing but that.
At first it was fresh and warm and everything was fine.
But there is a big difference is that women will love to see more and more heavier, and men in the opposite.
What is the last thing the woman who has been hysterical about?
I paid so much for you.
You are not like this before, why changeable.
Why do I see your cell phone, if you are honest I still use to see.
Why do I always call you, not because I care about you.
......
I want to laugh every time I look at it.
Be married home, be a housewife.
Gradually people are sloppy, trivial, no career, no friends, lag behind the times, the circle of friends is getting smaller.
Men, on the contrary, have a career with friends to keep up with the times, the circle of friends more and more big.
The gap between two people is getting bigger.
Because the woman is the only one, so the guard, endlessly around him.
Men feel more and more annoying, the more the more contrast to feel the family this woman ugly and outdated.
The woman says, why did you change, you used not to be like this.
The man says you see what you are like now.
So I think that the maintenance of love, especially into the marriage of love, a woman must have:
Career, self-motivated.
Stay beautiful.
There are a group of friends who are more positive than gossip.
Gentle, sensible, considerate, able to handle the subtle emotional changes between husband and wife.
Reason, can accept the change of love.
Tolerance。
Wisdom, can correctly deal with the inevitable waves in life.
Above all, generalize for EQ quotient + medium above IQ.
A woman of this kind + has the Vision + the good luck to find a equally mature man + determination to live well = happier marriage.
There is also any "love inevitable death" theory or something too lazy to elaborate.
In short, people are changing, love is also changing, careful and wise people can accept the subtle changes and use the right way to deal with it, adapt to the various new stages of the way of getting along.
In addition to the kind not to marry and permanent for the purpose of love, I think love is really "EQ merchant" exclusive.