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Do the network is very lonely, I have a deep understanding, especially in the early days of the network, no like now so many friends, even if there are some better netizens, is not the same city, so throughout the city, has been a very strong sense of strangeness, I think, I am not an exception, this is why the character of the webmaster most are very eccentric, and even the exclusion of peers. Stationmaster is the Mustang on the network, in reality, is the weak of life.

Later, I met the remote control brother, we have a get-together every 3 days, once a week, rain or shine, sometimes not busy time, even a day to see 2 times face, and each time will bring a new friend recommended, sometimes he took a friend, sometimes I take a friend, so friends interspersed with each other, In order to meet more and more friends, he has more than 1000 friends in Rizhao, and his own level is very high, sometimes even his classmate party, he will take me, through this way, I from his friends circle, know a lot of my friends, never be lonely, and these new friends, We also maintain the habit of meeting with a new friend introduction, this is also related to Shandong culture, Shandong people like more formal wine field, at least 4 people to become seats.

Since then, I have been encouraging friends of our group, to strive to do the local forum of the owner, stick the administrator, or to the local forum to write posts, the purpose is to bring more and more local friends, no local friends of the network is lonely, is lonely, but not self-confidence, I have a friend, He is now the manager of Sunshine Bar, he is also professional network, he belongs to the kind of low-key, he is much better than me, his local friends are many, birthday, post bar There are bands to give him a performance.

Many friends feel that they know their friends too slowly, in fact, can try this method, and friends about a regular party, and each time bring a new friend, to introduce to each other, so that more and more people, we do the network is to take this way to gather, for example, originally I and Tong know, and then I took flat peach , Tong brought his friends, and then we continue to widen, gathering more and more people, I have to Chun, mountain and so brought to everyone, so the circle of friends more and more, so I think, friends are not afraid of less, afraid not to contact.

Our party is very regular, busier friends circle, is generally a quarterly meet, choose a city that we have not been to, allow a friend, such as many people say this time has not been to Weihai, so chose Weihai, I have not been to.

Such a way, there is a disadvantage, it will be a mixed bag, so must have a captain, the captain is very key, and must find the kind of very social experience of the captain, he will directly decide whether this person can come again next, that is, the threshold. At the party, we will introduce the resources in our hands, this will be able to contact after a single line, the last time in Binzhou party, I introduced my hands have published resources and channels, today, sports Bureau Friends contact me, to a fitness DVD, I introduced him to the small lying teacher.

Some people say, make friends to see fate, I think make friends to fight for their own first, to win, can say that fate has not come, if nothing to do, light waiting for fate, I think it is difficult, you lock yourself in the house, longing for fate, may be a lifetime a person can not know.

This is the third way I've summed up my self-confidence, making more friends.

The third way, there is a disadvantage, will invest in a larger, treat dinner, go out to play and so are all need to spend, know more friends can promote self-confidence, but make friends, to few, seemingly contradictory, in fact, not contradictory, a friend, if you can not upgrade, then it will drag you, two levels of considerable people in deep contact, can drive each other. Someone asked, what is your friend standard? I said, if I suddenly left the world, he would like to take care of my parents, but also I chose him, I will do for him. Do you have a friend like that? I said, 2~3, just a heart-to-heart. There are many friends, there is mutual learning, there can be real long-term contacts of friends, but most people are in the life of the traveler, to pay the people pay!

To give a very simple example, if I'm on the web now, something happens, stink, who and I have relations, then will be infringed, I think, maybe 99% of people will be far away from me, and even clarify their understanding of the relationship, or even a knife, this is very normal, because I do not give you enough, But now each other has the demand, even is a kind of cooperation, therefore only then comes together, some people say the friend many, that oneself can imagine so, if come this step, he still will be beside you? Not that I denied the people and my friends, just said that career friends, and emotional friends, there is a gap.

In "Itpoet: Self-confidence is the ladder of the success of the webmaster" in this article, he promoted his own way, is to highlight his own name, in fact, such a way of promotion, is the most easily forgotten, but many network people hype, but also accustomed to this way, such as peach writing articles, also take this way, Add a flat peach to each article.

themselves flaunt themselves, and even show themselves that others do not like to see, but when others advertise you, others show you, someone is watching, so when you are ready to promote yourself or show yourself, you can take this mode of cooperation, first to meet the peers, such as to know 3~5 like you, ready to become famous, and even promote their own people, People sit together, face-to-face, with their hearts to say their real needs, such as you want to become famous, you do not say that they are purely written to play, write play, why do you publish? You just want someone to pay attention to you.

Most of the online celebrities we know are working, and so are the writers, behind the abuses, attack, critique, in fact, are deliberately arranged, 5 people cross, the first month, small a push small B, small B push small C, small c push small A, so cross, can be abusive, can be critical, can be encouraged, Can be touted, according to their own personality design of different programs, such as some people are old, not suitable to scold, that can come out to clarify, for example, some people like to use video, some people use text, that let the people with text more labor, with video more spread some.

Let me give you a simple example, Itpoet wrote an article, uncover understand the real ugly face, record their own in the hundred saw, understand the description of worthless, such an article is very easy to recommend even the top, also will be wildly spread, over half a month, I in the QQ space to publish a statement, Said Itpoet actually early kicked out of the group, he is revenge me just, so he was a war of fame, at least in our circle no one knows, no one does not know.

Seemingly he and I have a grudge, in fact, he secretly want to invite me to dinner ...

Cooperation hype, there is a feature, must play their own expertise, keep their own style, at the same time do not flatter, to let the other side in the curse of growth, so that their fans to pay attention to others, so that other people's fans began to pay attention to their own, so we see some of the daily articles, many are packaged and planned.

The last question, is a word in the text of "5 online support for new people, the reality to help those around." ”

When we first started a business, we were often socially responsible, want to change the world, at least to change the family, oneself did not develop, began to encourage others to start a business, or even disorderly command, think about the results, you have not developed, want to change others, nature is difficult to change.

The best way to change your family is to change your destiny, and it can lead to the fate of others. The best way for someone to help others and change their society is to make enough money, and if you are going to help more people and have been living your life, society will not admit you, and eventually you will not even admit you.

Tell a true story:

Lao Zhang is the first batch of Chinese medicine secondary school students, 40 years ago, technical secondary school, assigned to the town hospital, he belongs to the kind of very law-abiding people, do not like tossing, very own work, he brought an apprentice, the hospital is not only for people to see a doctor, he brought the apprentice to the main learning is to the pig to do castration surgery. The Apprentice surnamed Li, we call him Lao Li, because Lao Li is now more than 60 years old.

Lao Zhang in the hospital word-of-mouth very good, very happy to help others, but do not understand the ways of the people, so has always been an attending physician, Lao Zhang to the patient to open a single is mainly based on traditional Chinese medicine, do not open, he does not like disorderly prescriptions.

40 years ago, Lao Li Chutu later, his own in the town opened a small clinic, he is characterized by large doses, dare to drug, so the reputation of the disease is more and more distant, how good to what extent? 20 years later, his personal clinic had a higher flow of patients than the town hospital.

40 years later, all two of them retired, old Zhang ate a pension, and Old Lee bought a luxury sedan, often go out to travel, even in the local political decision-making, because Lao Li is the town's richest man, others saw him, should look at one eye, festivals, to his home is a constant stream of gifts.

And Old Zhang retired, few people pay attention to him, live an obscure life, not to mention someone to respect him.

This is a real story, people are cheap, even if you have been giving, you are not as others, others will not put you in the eye, but if you take care of yourself, you developed, all the people began to pay attention to you, and even worship you, so that you can master more resources, you can achieve more value.

Do you think I'm bad? No, this is a real story, through my own treatment of the past some of the entrepreneurial friend's attitude, I think I am also a cheap, in a startup, feel the other side a lot of shortcomings, when others develop, for fear that other people do not speak to themselves ... Why are you not respected? The reason is simple, I always want to play the role of Lao Zhang!

So a man, to develop, is the hard truth, before you develop, you can only consider yourself, if you really want to help others, when you develop, you even do not help them, in fact, you have helped them, because you have driven them spiritually, for a very simple example, If I am now a well-known webmaster, a yearly income of tens of millions of, may have friends to be able and QQ and I chat for proud.

Did I say vanity? One day, you will understand I said this sentence, because I really feel its cruelty and authenticity.

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