What is refracted behind the cave man reversal?

Recently, the 35-year-old migrant workers Shi Zhiyong Single cave caves save money to send home story moved many people. Media in-depth investigation, the plot reversal: Shi Zhiyong to the media confessed to lie, 6 years did not return home also did not send money.

Previous reports let all the cave brother's situation to give sympathy and moved, most netizens sigh he is a responsible son, good husband. But the truth is the opposite, some netizens said "I touched a", feeling that they have been cheated of compassion.

In fact, from the previous news, but can see some unreasonable details: if a monthly income of 3000 yuan, not for the province of one hundred or two hundred yuan accommodation costs and live caves, in the basic needs of eating and living can not guarantee the situation, how to talk about his telephone charges and drinks it. So what's the reason for his lying? In the face of the media after the questioning, Shi Zhiyong admitted that in order not to want his family to find him, he chose to lie. And behind this, from his family contradictions, and the deep sense of inferiority.

This can not help but remind me of the 2010, the newspaper reported that the Wanghong, from the Guizhou countryside to a university in Chongqing, after graduating from college, the family 8 years without his tidings. This newspaper restored his 8 years of life: New Year's Eve into his alma mater of the classroom to sleep, alone in the small hotel, listening to the Spring Festival evening song "often go home to see" and tears, also changed all kinds of work, and then stood in the highway exit for a sign to lead the way ... The same is the heart of the autistic, the same is a family do not want to return to the tangle, behind them are burdened with a family's expectations and responsibilities. When one day they are crushed and unable to face their family, they can only choose to escape from reality. And for the sudden visit of the media, this simple human concern before, will be to conceal the inner inferiority and vulnerability.

As China's hundreds of millions of rural people flock to the city today, their potential stress and mental health problems should not be overlooked. Cave elder brother Such reports in recent years has been no case, they are disadvantaged competition between the reality and family pressure, the inner cracks more and more large, over the longer term, finally let them have no choice, the heart gradually become closed numb. Whether it is Shi Zhiyong or wanghong, this situation will turn into the uneasiness and burden of the family behind them. This is not a few enterprises and love people out of the olive branch can be solved, the crux of such problems lies in their mental health defects, they need to face the reality, open the shackles of the heart, in order to let themselves really out of the cave.