What makes Chinese young people lose their "sloshing" youth?

Abstract: http://www.aliyun.com/zixun/aggregation/1459.html "> The vast majority of young people in China are abducted from their ordinary life upon graduation. On the one hand, the traditional society of" step by step into the mainstream " Habits "dominate us; on the other hand, social reality also deprives the chance of" continuing to sway. "

What makes us lose the "sloshing" youth

On the plane, the Polish boy next to him just attended Hunan Satellite TV's "Chinese Bridge" tournament and flew to Shijiazhuang to see his acquaintance in Germany.

The Polish guy has studied and worked in Germany for many years, this time on behalf of Germany. The result was not particularly good, but it was just an opportunity to travel to China with friends. I was very curious, "You do not have to work." He said he has not got a fixed job, he has to work in Germany to earn some money and then travel around the world. He has been to many countries , Met a lot of people, travel changed his life. I asked how old he was, and he said he was 28 years old, but he could still enjoy sloshing for a few years before he could fix his life.

It is truly enviable that a 28-year-old Polish boy can sway his youth freely. In China, a 28-year-old boy is often no longer young, anxious love married, have a hurry to buy a house to buy a car, anxious fight business. Our young people are anxious, if 30 years old can not succeed, this life may be "finished."

I am still curious about the "sloshing" of the Polish guy and not unusual in the eyes of others. He was very surprised at my question. He said that many young people in his living environment are in this state. He asked me, have not you ever traveled abroad and never seen the world? What did you do when you were young?

Like most Chinese young people, I started living step by step after graduation. If a 28-year-old Chinese guy does not have a permanent job and is not yet married and has dangling all day long, he must have become an alternative to mainstream social media and even be labeled "social youth" s Mark.

"Mainstream", "normal", can not say bad, but many Chinese young people are still eager to have a "sloth of youth", otherwise, will not see others in the "sloshing youth" heart envy. Young to comply with the heart of the free and unrestrained, it should be in accordance with the inner will and interest to live. For example, the Polish boy was interested in language and began to learn Chinese. He never considered whether it would help make a living in the future. And we had to consider employment long before choosing a major in college.

Most young people in China are kidnapped by ordinary life as soon as they graduate. On the one hand, the "social customs" that have traditionally made their way into the mainstream in a traditional way dominate us. On the other hand, social reality has also denied the opportunity to "continue sloshing" . "Left men left women" can withstand the family pressure to withstand, but an independent community must find a job in life. The employment situation is not optimistic. If you do not occupy a "pit" soon after graduation, wait for you to shake off enough. This "pit" has long been accounted for by others. Those in the community who are well-paid are usually only targeted at fresh graduates in their recruitment and have little chance of "previous youth" or "social youth." Finding a job that is generally or even barely able to earn a living must take into account the future pension risk.

The Polish guy does not fully understand such a "tangle" of Chinese youth. He knows many similar young Chinese people in Germany. However, the reason why young people in China dare to wander is largely due to the better family conditions and the sloshing End of youth does not affect the stability of life after. And this, and the family background of the average Polish boy sloshing, in essence very different.

As soon as you graduate, it's because we do not have much choice. You can "sway youth" in your heart, but you can not be sloshing in real life. You have to find a mainstream shell to protect your impulsive heart. If you imagine the young man in Poland like to "sway youth" with his life style It is necessary to pay the price of "sloshing life."

If one day young people in China can freely "sway youth," it must be the most free and unrestrained moment of our creativity.