What's so subtle about the middle of a circle of friends?

The era has developed to today, thanks to the technological progress of the blessing of human life from software to hardware has been life, social relations have followed constantly change: the birth of the Internet let us have a netizen, this collective from the version of Friends, Bo Friends, Amoy Friends all the way update, has entered the "Praise Friends" time- I have to say that these 10 years are the best times for sociologists!

So first ask a sobering question: how much do you have?

In the micro-trust circle, for friends to share the life of the essay or share the content seems to be every day will be used to do one thing, because there are always some friends or occasions to make you feel that the point of praise is impartial the most appropriate expression. If I meet you in the future, why should I greet you? With silence, with tears? Now you can add in the circle of friends to give me some praise.

Larry Rosen, a professor of psychology at California State University, says: Young people who spend hours a day indulging in social networking sites such as Facebook like to communicate with people several times, like drinking water, even though a little spit doesn't satisfy you, and a lot of times, hunger and thirst will ease. Moira Burke, an expert on data analysis, wrote in The Atlantic Monthly: "Using Facebook's Point-and-click buttons to interact with friends can effectively increase social capital while reducing our communication costs."

Just like the recent red of the wonderful social app Yo, the importance of social software lies not only in communication, but also in how to divert people's boredom.

So over time you will find that the most you have is actually these points of praise. Business meeting Meeting customers, because of a temporary activity and the mutual account of the partner, graduated 10 years of basic no contact with the university students, you will regularly patronize the hair stylist, or break up 5 years have already become passers-by predecessor ...

Point praise became the social network connotation and extension of the most abundant human behavior, it assembled all the words, speechless but full of expression when the mood, but also cloud light wind, no need to reply, reduce the cost of participation, but also moderate ease of loneliness. The subtlety of praise is that it is neither "Big love", nor "+1" or "Agree" (Awesome), for the interaction, it is suitable for the dosage is not wronged speakers, nor grudgingly, communicative behavior can be completed, the two sides unfocused.

This may be because there is no limit to the number of friends in the social network today, we do not have so much to say to everyone. Alumni party to come up to ask for forwarding the entrepreneurial little brother, to participate in a certain exhibition sell creative Flashlight 200! must be a compliment. I really can't (don't want) to reprint for your flashlight-if you are not a little bit of praise at this time, but go to the manual message said "Praise", the risk is too large, the basic will again be required to forward the circle of friends, The chicken blood of the entrepreneur you know.

In addition, the brush social network has taken up too much of our time, some with each other's heart can communicate the situation, you do not let the typing of the time to occupy both sides, directly point praise. "Late at night thinking of Peggy and Don finally reconciled to feel warm and gratified." "Chasing the mad Man" friends will be the first time to come to a point of praise, said "agree, I have just finished, tomorrow to meet to discuss the plot." "The internet is not without warmth.

Of course, a little bit of praise is like water, but we have to avoid becoming a geek in the eyes of the people, such as never give yourself a little praise. Po a photo from the basic is to say "I am beautiful", and then give yourself a heart that is really narcissistic to unforgivable. Similarly, his own injury spring sad autumn sentence, even if write Abas, once oneself point of praise, really blot, not only will appear very strange, but also can instantly quench others follow the desire of praise, people will only want to let you in there high cold for a while.

What are we saying when we're doing something?

I have read

This is probably the biggest demand, want to express "read" and there is no good comment, this tangle of mentality can finally be point praise end, "finally boarding, this time is true", "overtime finished, leave!", "pick braces, eat big at night" This kind of daily plain post probably also deserve praise. Yongzheng when the batch suriko, if there is this function he will not need to grant so many "know" Meng descendants.

Oh

Still basking in the new killer bag? "Mission 5" is coming out. The quality of Prada has been up to the people spit into the "do not do not have the color of the fade so congratulations on your purchase of a goods," OK? This kind of behavior is nothing to praise, but anyway you immersed in it I will help you to create a better atmosphere more impatient, even if the heart floated over two words: hehe.

Ha ha

If it is really funny, people will not begrudge their hearty laugh, even if they are too lazy to put a string of H-typed words all changed to "Ha". But sometimes it is too exaggerated to laugh so rampant, especially in a more tactful post, laughter will appear to you laugh too low, point praise is a lot of implicit, both to understand the small humor, but also successfully maintained the high cold.

"Thank you."

In the universal circle of friends to help turn my recruitment, leasing, Zhaoqin, recruit interview object posts? Conveniently point praise to thank you conveniently forwarded, really conveniently unceasingly, both sides tacit, equivalent to use the latest hot up nonsense app "Yo!" Come on, yo. With the courtesy of a return visit, said I saw, I am very polite, I am not a white-eyed wolf, you did not help turn, kindness my afterlife will be a newspaper.

I haven't shielded you yet.

20 years of missing primary school students coincidentally added micro-letter is also silent, it doesn't matter, friends in the circle occasionally a praise can be a friendly, in the event of a day will not because there is no communication and too embarrassed, although this in case the chance is not too big but the point of praise and not to blow ash.

Come on

Friends of the dog to do surgery, students of the new store to open, the wife of former colleagues into the maternity ward, all need to cheer up, point a praise I in mind, attention you, waiting for good news.

Help you win some detergent.

The chance to win XXX with 30 compliments the promise of the grand prize may be Phuket two-person tour, parent-Child Center swimming coupons or a set of photography studio, in short, to see your friends so praise if thirsty, you also believe that the spirit of sincerity, homeopathy save a little friendship.

True praise.

If you make a pie chart, then this function is probably 5% so narrow a bar, the equivalent of wearing autumn pants because of "you feel really cold" accounted for the proportion.

n a way to harvest praise

Landscape

And shooting technology is very relevant, even if you are shooting a blue sky and white clouds above, looking for a good angle composition and then pick a suitable filter, get the haze of the people's praise is not difficult; Of course, if you are in Tahiti or Yellowstone, then it will be a compliment. The party is so realistic.

Food

Late-night food is revenge society, you can only harvest "I am hungry" or "You are too cruel" such a thread rather than praise. You need to find a meal. When everyone is satisfied to eat frozen dumplings or work lunch box to light your braised pork or molecular cuisine or any of the people can no longer be satisfied with the status of food, we will be envious to come to a point of praise, but not to curse you.

Exotic Style

Go to India do you have a 50 rupees in the sights for the local lady to draw mehndi on your hand? Although a bit tight hole, but still bask. Golden bling of the Sikh temple can also sway the masses, Japanese Nara, those docile deer can also be fascinated by many animal lovers, the Antarctic emperor penguin or something more praise. Of course, the Arc de Triomphe, the Statue of Liberty, such as the early Chinese people to break the threshold of the attractions to be praised the chance of greatly reduced, it is not exotic.

Sad reminders

"Potato chips finished a whole bag of manuscript and a word did not write!" Really eat instant noodles without seasoning bag! Or, simply, "Just drop a big mapa at the office door!" The Friends of the praise will flock to the road to see the uneven point of praise-who is the real friend to see.

Good luck.

Drop a taxi to the red envelopes can rob 1 Yuan of money above is good luck, rob a start price unexpectedly spent the next half of all the luck. At last, the lottery of the World Cup finally got a bet that they didn't have to queue up on the rooftop. American Stroll Street meet Chen Cursor sprinkle money? These to the literary and artistic said all is the life small is lucky, is worth the point praise.

A face without any traces of Photoshop.

If you're crazy about a 5-layer whitening effect but speak out, then we will also for your sincere and self-deprecating point of praise, in addition, the best not to show too many pictures of the traces, after all, we have seen your uncover, so that we are ignorant of the conscience to the United States Mito works of praise is not humane, Natural Smile Natural Posture Natural Square show free and easy, also more easily infect audience.

Book Photo

Late-night hair than the hair to eat or more elegant behavior, always to the late-night boring brush friends circle waste time to watch: Others are improving their self-cultivation, you can at least click to see the original image of people to do the book you pick it! Regardless of the content is not the appetite, a little praise can express "I also love the book of people."

Professional knowledge

Foucault's 30 years of his death to comb his classic theory? What do you make when you peel a banana peel? These high cold knowledge posts have always been turned everyone praise but no one can read, everyone think is to save a spare just.

Wit

The guide to leave during the World Cup is really a big fan of wit, "my wife and I said I want a bad, if she does not believe, I will rage to buy her a bag!" A flawless plan is worth a compliment.

The author thinks, the person who is enthusiastic about gathering praise, the heart is longing to be around the person's attention, just like a person's interpersonal communication general. I like that Facebook developed a point of praise function, to this boring world, boring people's hearts wiped a bowl of chicken soup. But, although the chicken soup is good, don't want to have a drinking!