When the psychology of diplomatic relations appears in social networks

Social networking has now become a part of our lives, and how will you react when you find out that your online friends are removing you from your buddy list? Some academics have found that, at least on Facebook, the damage done to you is not as much a difference as real life.

And academics report that when your Facebook friends and you release your relationship, the level of anxiety and negativity you experience is proportional to how much you use Facebook. In addition, you are intimate with your friends, you know exactly who will delete you, and what you perceive as the reason for your partner's contact with your friends, and who gives priority to your friend's application.

The researchers also found that "the long-term use of Facebook means that users devote a lot of effort to maintaining a good relationship with Facebook, and that when they lose one of their friends, they have a very strong cognitive and emotional response," which is how much time you spend on Facebook, The more harm a friend's initiative "disappears" to you.

The researchers measured the way people perceived themselves to release their friends, such as being overly active on Facebook, expressing extreme opinions, making inappropriate comments, or having unpleasant relationships with each other in real life, or not knowing each other too well. While most people believe that a good friend is an offline affair, it can trigger a user's strongest negative emotional response if they are in contact with a friend for Facebook-related reasons.

It is also an important factor whether or not you are actively sending out a friend application. When you initiate a friend application, you have placed yourself in a lower position and you have to wait patiently for your application to be accepted. If the other party to accept the friend application and then release the friendship, this will cause your understanding of the imbalance. The idea of why he had to accept a friend's application before might trigger a meditation and negative mood.

As in real life, the more intimate relationships on Facebook break down, the more damaging you are. But the exception here is that parents, because Facebook's student groups are more disgusted with their parents to become online friends, so when parents and their own friends do not have a negative impact.

Although with the Internet more and more infiltration of our lives, we often even have difficulty to distinguish between online and offline differences. But at least at this stage, the study warns us not to devote too much energy to social networks and we need to return moderately to normal life. Maybe you should turn off everyone or Twitter page and take some time to be with your friends and family.

Via:readwriteweb