Young white-collar workers become a micro-BO-controlled micro-Bo anxiety syndrome attention

&http://www.aliyun.com/zixun/aggregation/37954.html ">nbsp;   "Food and clothing to live with the line, eat and drink Lazarus Sleep, is really inseparable from micro Bo Ah!" "26-Year-old white-collar Natalie (alias) sigh, whether it is on the way to work, squeeze the subway, eat, and even go to the toilet, are constantly brushing micro bo," If you do not hear the ' buzz ' (new micro-credit hint) sound, I am flustered; if you don't see the increase in the number of fans, I will be frustrated ... "      Become a "microblog control"      Natalie is a salesman for a cosmetics company. Six months ago, she learned the appearance of colleagues, officially opened the mobile phone microblogging. Not to mention, through micro-blogging her business volume has been upgraded, and the performance has been climbing. "In the beginning, I brush a few times a day, then change to an hourly update, and then, simply become a few minutes of refreshing, do not brush on the annoyance." "Natalie said.      Because of a lot of "micro-blog control" by colleagues and friends, Natalie, who is fascinated by Weibo, also thinks he is very fashionable and thinks he has walked into the mainstream life circle through Weibo. Every day wakes up, she holds the handset to keep refreshing the micro Bo, as long as hears the familiar "hum" the sound, Natalie said oneself has a kind of elated feeling.      didn't have a very short-lived. Over time, the number of fans on Natalie Weibo has almost stagnated, and business volumes and performance have plunged into bottlenecks.      Speak online language      in order to reverse the dilemma, Natalie around, and finally found a way to make up: to Taobao "buy" fans. Of course, she is more diligent than before, hard to brush micro bo: Eating, walking, she will keep fiddling with mobile phone brush microblogging, to participate in parties, dinner, originally cheerful and lively she became silent, low head brush micro Bo addicted to their own world ......     once, The company held a salesman training meeting. The leader of the leadership questions Natalie, did not think Natalie is buried brush micro bo, face ask questions, open mouth is "pro" and other network language, make the leader in distress. Another time, Natalie with seven or eight friends to the hotel dinner, but, all the wine, but not a person to speak, we uniform photos, upload, brush micro bo, send micro-letter, each other speechless.      leaving Weibo on the ground, "    " just started to brush Weibo, as excited as chicken blood, but gradually become depressed unceasingly. Natalie Frankly said, after the post Weibo, if no one reply, response or forwarding, their mood will be greatly affected. Will constantly refresh the interface, lament "whyNo one?      Natalie said that in order for others to feel that they cared about them, or that they were seeking attention from others, she had to add meaningless comments to other people's tweets, such as "I agree!" "I Like it!" "In addition, in order to exceed other colleagues in the performance, she will continue to go to Taobao bulk" buy "fans, but, colleagues are doing so, so that we have a strong comparison and jealousy heart ......     Recently, Natalie appear flustered, palpitations, insomnia, sleepless and other symptoms, Seriously affected the work and life. "This is typical of micro-anxiety. "Shenyang Mental Health center psychologist Liu Changhui pointed out that micro-bo, and micro-letter, is to increase the interpersonal interaction of a tool, but once the excessive enthusiasm will be counterproductive, resulting in personal and real social isolation. Nowadays, many people indulge in the virtual world of micro-blogging and micro-faith, which leads to the lack of individual social function and the dilemma of personal life and interpersonal communication. Liu Changhui said that using micro-blogs and micro-letters to be within the scope of demand, not because of playing micro-BO micro-letter to squeeze off normal rest time. For example, the weekend, after work should be friends to sing songs, chat, drink tea, choose other more leisure and healthy way to relax themselves.      The term "micro-anxiety"      once not "weaving the scarf", do not pick up the micro-letter on the sleepless, anxiety, dependence, compulsion and other psychological problems-this is suffering from the micro-bo anxiety, referred to as "micro-anxiety" : That is, it is difficult to automatically care about various events and people's comments; The reading time is reduced; there is a great convergence of things to be talked about at friends ' gatherings, the loss of exclusive knowledge and feelings; negative events, often angry but powerless; optimism about the country's future is gradually being overwhelmed by pessimism;