# Agile individuals #101 daily growth: 73rd days [Selection]

Therefore, the three disciples of the ancient Greek Master of Philosophy Socrates asked for advice on how to find the ideal partner. Socrates did not answer the question directly, but asked them to go through the wheat field, only allowed to move forward, and only gave a chance to pick the best and largest wheat spike. The first disciple took a few steps and saw a big and beautiful wheat spike. However, as he continued to move forward, he found that many of the above were bigger than the one he picked. He had to regret to finish the entire process.When the second disciple learned the lesson, he always reminded himself that there is better in the future. When he arrived at the end, he found that all opportunities were missed. The third disciple learned the lessons learned from the first two. When he reached 1/3, he divided the big, medium, and small classes into three categories, and then went 1/3 to verify whether they were correct. When the last 1/3, he chose a beautiful wheat spike in the main category.Although this is not necessarily the most beautiful one, he finished the whole process with satisfaction.

Meaning: Each corn is a choice, and you have to consider it every time you see a corn. What should we do? Will it be the biggest? Will there be better in front? You cannot predict whether there are any bigger ones, but you have to make a choice. Eager to pick up the corn and wait for a long time, I will regret it. Only those who know how to choose will be able to get their most satisfied corn after careful observation and Comparison on the way, even if there is still a better one, he does not regret it, because this is the choice he really made. Maybe it is not the best, but it is the most satisfactory.

Thinking: You are faced with different choices every day in your life. Do you want to get up early? Where to eat at noon? Which pair of shoes do you want to buy?......When you choose the corn, are you making your own choice or are you selected? How much time and effort does it take? Are you in a good mood?

1. 101 life principles: selection (last time: Self-Restriction)

Life can be simplified based on principles. If you don't believe it, try it.

 

2. 101 worth thinking about:How to make a choice?(Last Time: Are you afraid of failure ?)

There is one simple and effective way to grow up, that is, a good question, but you must think about it before it is a really good question for you.

 

3. 101 things to do in a lifetime: add oneCommunity(Last Time: Do something that once failed)

I hope I can find some things hidden in my heart here.

1.Birth is the most difficult choice for human beings, but the starting point of life is not that important. What matters is where you finally arrived. Everyone wishes to be able to do what they like, but not every time they do what they want, or often do what they don't want to do. You may say you have to do something, or you are forced to do something, but I tell you that, except for the birth, whether you do anything else, it is actually your choice.Don't rush to draw conclusions. Good choices take time. They are deliberate results, not impulsive ones. Don't barely accept anything you don't really want. You need to express your value, do not abuse your freedom to choose what causes harm to you.

On the other hand, good choices indeed improve the quality of our lives, so that we can control our own destiny and get what we want, but choosing is a good thing, and it does not mean that it is better to have more choices. Phase
Conversely, Excessive choices often enable you to start self-doubt before making a decision. They also allow you to set unrealistic expectations or lead to blunt decisions, it even causes emotional anxiety and psychological depression. Handling excess traffic
The question of choice is that we have to decide which choices are really important in our life, focus our time and energy on those options, and give up some unnecessary choices. If the option is restricted, we can pay less.
Some energy, get a more comfortable.

2.It is difficult to make a choice, because most of the choices need to weigh many factors. To rent an apartment, consider the location, size, decoration, safety, and rent. To buy a car, consider safe and reliable, fuel consumption, style, and price. to select a job, consider the salary, location, and promotion opportunity, persons of the nature of work and upcoming official business. Most options include the following steps:
1.Set the target (one more)
2.Evaluate target value
3.Search and select a solution
4.Measure opportunities for different solutions to achieve their goals
5.Select the best solution
6.Use the selection results to revise the objectives and re-assess their importance and future selection methods.

3. now there are as many communities as supermarket goods. Do you choose a community that you really want and can actively participate in? Do you want to coexist in knowledge and practice? or choose to rush to the event venue without a stop, and then leave with what you learned silently?

 

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