All experiences are a gift

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Recently, I often chat with an old friend. Four years after graduation, old students are also "birds and forests". Today, they are scattered in various cities and haven't been in touch for a long time. However, he is one of the most frequently-connected ones.

He is also one of my pursuers in the college age. I should call him a senior engineer in theory, but I always give a big name. I was a freshman and a junior. In my eyes, if he was born in ancient times, he must be a standard fan of "Literati ". He is infatuated with the ancient culture, loves poetry and songs, and is fascinated by academic research. In the past few years, he wrote a lot of poetry and often saw his masterpiece in the school journals. He enjoys his studies and works very hard. Unlike the "idle man" who hasn't thought about further study since he entered college, he thought about the way to continue his studies early in the morning. He enjoys the school atmosphere and hopes to stay in a school in the future.

At that time, we studied all the majors of the College of Liberal Arts. One required course was the same, called Chinese aesthetics. The teacher was very young and handsome. The students in the lectures liked him very much. However, at that time, our school did not conduct in-depth research in the field of Aesthetics. After several times, he seemed to have found a direction and therefore decided to apply for an aesthetic orientation for graduate students.

Throughout the freshman year and sophomore year, we were still good friends. He was not frustrated by my euphemism for rejection, but increased his motivation. In my sophomore year and the second half of his senior year, he began to devote himself to his Postgraduate career. At the end of his senior year, after a long wait, he received an admission letter from a Chongqing University.

After my junior year, his traces only have intermittent coordinates in my life.

Study 2, coincidentally, he converted to Christ. "I was deeply touched by the love of God, so I don't bother writing love classics ".

Yan San, who wants to stay on campus, is facing the fact that it is difficult for graduate students to enter the university, so he continues to participate in the examination.

In 2011, after a decision, he chose the city where the university is located and entered the wuda University.

Now, he will enter the society when his PhD study is about to end ......

Looking at the past and looking at the present, we are all looking at it. He said that the campus is beautiful, but as soon as he thought it was about to enter the melting pot of society, he seemed not ready yet. The beauty is too short-lived, and it always forces people to make choices. He talked about the future's confusion. Now he has his old classmates in Beijing and Guangzhou, and some of them have settled in the city. He doesn't want to leave home too far. The biggest possibility is to stay in Wuhan. At last, he could not help but joke: After reading for so long, it seems that he had taken a big circle and finally returned to the origin.

So I can only comfort you, life is like this, you never know what is waiting for you in the future. It seems like a regression, but it's a lot of experience that has been around for years since I graduated from college. Do you think you will never regret it in the future?

Even though chatting has reminded me of a recent TV series "micro age", Amber, one of the protagonists, has lost her first love. The final conclusion proves her mother's sentence: the artist will not stay for a woman. Even if I had been persistent, even if I did not give up, amper eventually ended with the Kang Dao he loved and seemed to return to the origin. But for amper, for love, for herself, she has a clearer and deeper understanding, and surely understands what is suitable for her.

Sometimes, people are always feeling that they have returned to the starting point: they want to continue their studies, but their fate is everywhere, and they feel wasted. Hard work, no return in a short period of time, and their feelings are all vain; the belief that you want to stick to will eventually let time take away from your fingers ...... at this time, we will have a burning sense of powerlessness, fall into the whirlpool of self-pity, and even decadent, self-blame. Fortunately, time will treat everything, and time will flow and come to smooth all the folds and waves of life. Afterwards, we will always feel that all of this is just a foreshadowing.

In my graduation year, I once worked as an intern sales student in a real estate company for a period of time. Since then, I have never been engaged in real estate work. I thought I could never use that experience any more. But a few years later, when I decided to select a suite for myself, the real estate knowledge I learned from my previous work helped me a lot. What kind of house layout is the best, and how to design it is helpful for Feng Shui, which layer is a gold floor, and the floor area ratio is equal to the floor area and so on, so I quickly chose the one I was satisfied. I did not think of it all.

How many times have we actually returned? Everything we 've experienced, whether it's good or bad, will always have a lot of impact on us, and life is also full, it becomes hierarchical and cannot be replaced.

All experiences are valuable. Who knows, at a certain moment in the future, will they be grateful for what they have experienced before?

Everything is a gift!

Left Bank Note: Your thoughts come out only when you experience what you want. Only when you have experienced it can you know what you want. From sensitive to generous, From Slim to crude lines, from paranoid to rational. This is a self-revision that requires constant progress in learning to get along with the world and people.

Inspirational things have a time limit. Don't expect a stimulus to change you smoothly. The motivation of a person can only come from himself. You only need to motivate yourself in a different way until it becomes part of your blood. You can only learn how to stand on the earth with your own strength if you keep falling. Everyone's life is a process, accompanied by a long foreshadowing: behind all the bulls is a high wall of accumulation, and behind all the hardships is a silly persistence.

Experience, victory, and more powerful than in the past, this is the need for growth. Everyone has their own ambitions and weaknesses, but some people choose to move forward on every node that can be abandoned. I admire such people.

All experiences are a gift