Carrots, eggs, or coffee beans

A daughter complained to her father about her life and how difficult everything was. She does not know how to cope with her life and wants to abandon herself. She is tired of fighting and fighting, as if a problem has just been solved, and a new problem has appeared again. Her father was a cook and he brought her into the kitchen. He first poured some water into the three pots and then burned them on the fire. Soon the water in the pot burned out. He put some carrots in a pot, put eggs in the second pot, and put the powdered coffee beans in the last pot. He intruded them into boiling water and did not say a word. My daughter gave her mouth and waited impatiently. She wondered what her father was doing. About 20 minutes later, he closed the fire, fished out the carrots and put them in a bowl, fished out the eggs and put them in another bowl, and then scooped the coffee into a cup. After that, he turned around and asked his daughter, "dear, what have you seen? "Carrots, eggs, and coffee", she replied. He approached her and asked her to touch the carrots with her hands. She touched and noticed that they were getting soft. The father asked his daughter to take an egg and break it. After the shell is peeled off, he can see that it is only cooked eggs. Finally, he made her drink coffee. After tasting the fragrant coffee, daughter smiled. She asked her father, "What does this mean? " He explained that these three things face the same adversity-boiling water, but their reactions are different. Carrots are strong and strong before they are put into the pot, but they do not show any weakness. But when they enter the boiling water, they become soft and weak. The eggs were originally fragile, and its thin shell protected its liquid internal organs. However, when boiling, its internal organs become hard. Powdered coffee beans are unique. They change water after they enter boiling water. "Which one is you? "He asked his daughter. "How do you respond When adversity comes to your door? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean? " What about you, my friend, are you a tough guy, but you cringe, become weak, and lose strength after suffering from pain and adversity? Are you an egg that can be shaped inside you? You are a man of uncertainty, but after death, breaking up, divorce, or unemployment, have you become strong and stubborn? Your shell seems to have been in the past, but have you become tough because of your strong character and heart? Or are you like a coffee? Beans change the boiling water that brings pain to it and make it produce the best fragrance when it reaches a high temperature of 212 degrees. It tastes better when the water is hot. If you are like a coffee bean, you will become promising in the worst case and make the surrounding situation better. Ask yourself how to deal with adversity. Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?