Communication is important.

The provincial races are over, but the real work is just beginning, and the provincial races are just the pre-warming of the national races. School has been a holiday, and I do not have a holiday, I still guide the students to participate in the national competition to study, until the late-night to go home. Who said that the most happy teachers are the summer and winter, watching other teachers in the summer vacation and can not leave their own, in fact, not happy.

Provincial guidance of the need I believe his classmates, today and Sue teacher said he did not want to participate in the game, anxious to find a job, the mind is not here, the state is not good, learn not to go in. I also know that his recent state, in fact, rather than wasting time in this, it is really better to do something, may save the game he has already had this idea, but because of his promises, has not said. When Mr. Su talked to him this time, he told his true thoughts. In fact, many times, I also want to communicate with him, but do not know how to communicate. Watching him do not study, my heart is very angry, junior, we all work, and he stayed here, if not learning, can not get good results, time is really white waste. Perhaps because of my personality reasons, most of the results of anger is the Cold war, I do not want to see you, but also do not want to communicate with you, as if death will not meet to solve the problem, will not be angry again. I know this is wrong, but also can not solve the problem, but still love to escape. Through this matter I think, still have to communicate, but if SU teacher and he communicated, I do not know his heart real idea, communication can solve the problem. Including me this semester to teach "Network formation and interconnection" effect is not as good as the last school year, resulting in this result is because the professional internal work more, resulting in my own comparative anxiety; the second is that I am really not good at communication this semester, since I think the lesson is good enough, this course I said two times, So this year I must have spoken better than last year, but the result is not as good as last year. So our students and colleges and universities of students still have a very big difference, they do not have the autonomy to learn consciousness, encounter a little thing on absenteeism or completely depressed, if this time can persuade communication, maybe students will soon come out of their own things.

Su Teacher is very good at communicating with the classmates, the students all say SU teacher seems to have been full of positive energy, can walk into everyone's heart, or more than the old teacher learning, learning and communication of the careful and patient, learning communication skills. Seedlings teacher recommended me to see the "Art of Communication" This book has been bought, but I have been on the shelf, this time can really start to see.

In fact, the communication also let me see a lot of students change, such as summer students, I do not think I do more of what he did, but may be more often said a few words, let him change. In the past he is the class of the general level of students, but in my teaching him "network formation and interconnection," when I always emphasize more reading, more search manuals, do not ask, but first think, half an hour to solve the problem again ask. He has studied my method for a period of time, and sure enough, he has made great progress. At least when you have a problem, you want to solve it yourself, rather than ask it by mouth.

Again, such as horse classmate, last year determined to test ie. I always thought he was a learning thing is not too solid, a little floating classmate, but after communication, I learned that he was formerly a fight brawl expert, before the college entrance examination has not learned, even into the detention center, but later the prodigal son, came to our school. So it will be in learning methods and learning attitude to give me such a feeling, in fact, he is still very much in the heart to learn, he wants to make up his debt to his family. He told me, "Teacher, I now every day before I go to sleep before I think, I have caused much trouble at home, I have to test ie, find a good job", I heard really moved, see the children grow up, I am very gratified. I also advised him not to give himself so much pressure, learning this kind of thing is slow kung fu, it is impossible to eat a fat man. I take his side of the Zhu classmate gave an example, he has been praised Zhu classmate study good, understanding ability strong, I said, "Zhu students have been learning since childhood, you wasted those years, people have been sitting in the classroom learning, so learning ability and understanding ability naturally much stronger than you." Persuade him to step by step the steadfast walk, every day to record what they have done, what harvest, plan, do not think of what to do. This afternoon, I was in discussions with the leadership, the leadership has no intention to mention that I have a deep influence on the horse, so that he is more determined to test ie, and learning methods are also stronger than before, so the effect of communication so I am very surprised, I have so much energy.

In fact, are the little things, more communication, more exchanges will have a return, do not escape, not the Cold War. Communication skills should also be summed up, read more, learn more about other people's communication skills, so faster to find problems, solve problems.

Communication is important