Do not turn art cultivation into stress for children

925dn why many parents drive their children on the art road is not necessarily because they have a high level of talent? The reason is that the artists who are engaged in artistic work are very respected and many of them are often shown in the spotlight. They have become the focus of public attention, with infinite scenery and considerable income. We can't say that it is wrong because these parents have forced their children to practice the piano, because in today's society, each of us can choose our own development direction and strive for the best life prospects. However, as a parent, if you lack a corresponding understanding of art and the laws governing the growth of artistic talents, you may not only get twice the result with half the effort, in addition, you may find that all the hard work you have done is useless and misses your child's future.

Xu Peidong should be a composer familiar to many of our parents who have some knowledge of music and art. He spoke about the fact that many of his parents are eager to learn music, regardless of whether they are interested or not. When he forced the children to learn music, he said: To engage in literature and art, he especially needs innate qualifications and acquired interests, therefore, it is recommended that the parents who are used to placing their unfulfilled ideals on their children can calmly ask your children: do they like to play the piano? Does he like composing? Then you can calmly observe your child: Is it the piece that plays the piano and composing?

His attitude towards his daughter's "female father-bearing" will take the road of composing music in the future is also worth our reference: his daughter went to college this year, he also liked composing. He secretly wrote some music, but he didn't take the initiative to guide her. He believes that no matter what she wants to do in the future, she has to lay a solid foundation for the cultural course. If she likes composing, it is the same piece of material. Then, "I will give her some sunshine ".

Therefore, if we want to select the "art" development path for our children, then. First of all, we should take a good look at this question: Is my child doing this? If so, you may wish to continue. If not, I am afraid that, like Xu Peidong, the children will have to "lay a good foundation for the Culture Course ", the future of the child cannot be delayed. By the way, today's music test-level business colors are too strong, in addition, the grading practice is contrary to the artistic pursuit of individuality and there is no uniform standard. Therefore, as a parent, never take it too seriously, as a result, while the children are under tremendous pressure for no reason, they are actually drifting away from art.

Do not turn art cultivation into stress for children