[Great Wall Original] What should I do when my girlfriend has a relationship with my comrades in arms?

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Question:

Before the conclusion, we must solemnly declare that I do not advocate or encourage everyone to cheat. After all, it is not good for anyone to cheat, either for men or women, the final result is not to confuse a family, but to break down their feelings.

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I couldn't help writing down this fascinating question because it happened to one of my military friends who had been worried about it a few days ago, I met him on the Internet. He sighed several times in the group and said several times: "Can anyone help me? I am also interested in him. Anyone who wants to know me knows my character and temper. I am a girl who has always wanted to Share sorrow with her friends, especially when dealing with military personnel, I naturally treat and care with enthusiasm. This is because I have met many military personnel and friends who are part of the group, when I saw my friends in the group worried, I wanted to do my best to comfort him and enlighten him. When I clicked on his avatar to talk to him separately, I said to him: "Can I share your sorrow? Maybe I can't help you? But after all, you will feel more comfortable! I didn't expect him to say something to me: Could you really help me? Let's talk about it! Listen.

I used to be a naval warrior. After three years of military career, I have been retired. I am doing business in my hometown. I have been fighting for my own basic business, I usually socialize with all the customers and sometimes go home very late at night. Although I am really tired, all my efforts have replaced my achievements in the business world, all customers admire me very much. No matter what kind of good business they think of, I am the first one. This makes me very proud, I have always kept my business well organized. My family is also one of the best in the town. My parents have always been in a position in the town. They have always taken pride in me, although I compete for competition in my career, I have been worried about my feelings. I asked him why he was upset? He said to me, "I have an 18-year-old girl who is very tall and elegant. She can say that she is a pretty girl. When she sees her boy in our town, she likes to say hello to her, I said it was natural. What kind of man saw a pretty girl? This is a strange thing, but my parents have never agreed with us. I asked him, "Why? The reason is that the girl is not wealthy at home, and her parents are all heads and faces. She doesn't have a proper door, and she doesn't have a wrong household. She just needs to find a girl with a good status and family! But I don't think so? I think? As long as she treats me well, it is enough to really love me. It doesn't matter if there is any money in her house. I can earn money to support her, as long as she can be happy and happy, not to mention, I am touched by his persistent love. Such boys are rare! My parents don't agree. I talked to my parents more than once and twice, and the results were the same. I don't agree. Don't mention it. I'm depressed and worried, because of this, I still have not given up, and have always insisted on my own ideas, can always be with her.

But why should Cang treat me like this? Is it wrong for me to really love someone? Why does she betray me, why does she not cherish my feelings for her, why does she want to do such a thing, and check whether the situation is correct? I hurriedly asked him, what happened in the end? He said to me: "I really love her, love her so much, quarrel with my parents for her, and rush with my friends for her. I bought her clothes and jewelry, I bought cosmetics and bought a car for her. I tried to treat her wholeheartedly, but she had an improper relationship with my comrades in the hotel. When I saw that scene, I almost collapsed. One is my beloved girl, the other is my brother-in-arms. I am stupid. I don't know what I should do at that time? I have no ability to think at all. When they find me, my comrades-in-arms will catch up with me, kneel at my feet, and beg for my forgiveness, I really want to beat him, what should I do if I say that my wife cannot be bullied? Should I forgive him or her? How should I select and how should I do it? For several days in a row, he kept kneeling in front of my door and hoped to ask for my forgiveness. Should I forgive a comrade-in-arms who had a relationship with my girlfriend? She called me every day and cried and said, "Please forgive me. I am confused. When I asked her why you did this, she replied, but it gave me contempt for her. Why does she do this? The reason is that I often don't have time to spend with him, and I am often busy with my own business. Oh, my God! What a silly answer, I said to her, "Why am I doing this? It's not for me and you to have a good time in the future, so that you don't have to worry about eating or wearing it. I hope you will be happy with me. You know my parents clearly and don't agree with me, but I quarrel with them for your purpose. My buddy told me not to let me be with you, saying that something will happen to a beautiful girl. I still don't believe it, I said that you are not such a person. our three-year relationship will not change our love because of your flowers. I am so stupid. How can I trust a girl like you, you know how much I paid for you, and what I paid? It is the betrayal of my beloved girl, the destruction between my comrades in arms. How do you make me behave? My comrades in arms have been kneeling in front of my house. How should I face him, he is like a brother-in-arms with me! I'm sorry for the fact that you have made such a thing? If someone deceives me, what do I do? You are the one I believe the most, the one I love, and the one who hurts me the most. Why do you tell me why? Why do you want to treat me like this? I mean I should not do it every day, and call the ground not to work. Do you know what it is like to be cheated by my loved ones? It's as painful as a sword penetrating my heart.

Seeing the words he gave me: "I can feel how complicated his mood was at that time. His eyes may be filled with hatred and may face the betrayal of his favorite person, in the face of the deception of his closest comrades-in-arms, the flames of his inner anger must be burning. You said you could help me, so please tell me: 'Should I forgive them? This line of subtitles appeared on the computer screen, but I did not think about how to answer him. I quieted for a moment and said to him, "I know your conflict, but something has happened. What can we do? I can also understand that you do not know how to do it now? To tell the truth, "You can only think about it yourself. I really love her. I don't want to give up on her. I also thought about it, after all, she is still fun and young. She doesn't want to do anything like this. I once thought about forgiving her, because when you really love someone, you can tolerate everything about her, I said to her, "yes, when you really love someone, you can tolerate everything about her. But if you think clearly, what should your parents do if you forgive her and accept her? What do they think? He or she would not accept a girl who betrayed her son. You also said that your family is in town and has a status and reputation, my family asked you, "how do you choose her and your parents? I asked him something, but he was speechless. I couldn't say anything about it. After all, it was about you and her and your family. I just wanted to remind you, what should I do? Have you figured it out? Ah! Why is it like this? What should I do?

Digress: to all men and women, boys and girls:

Here I want to explain why men and women are derailed. It is clear that the vast majority of men do not like flowers, and flowers, the reason is very simple. It is nothing more than satisfying your own desires. So? What about women? What is the reason why a woman is derailed? It is to avenge those men. Since he can ignore me outside, why am I keeping my life as Jade for him, consuming my emptiness and loneliness?

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It is because of this improper idea between men and women that we will see the birth of many tragedies. Please cherish your valuable side by following your own advice to those lost men and women! It is not easy for two people to combine together. They cherish each other's feelings. Don't wait until the last time you do something wrong to know it's time to regret it. You must know that when you miss a time, you can't come back. Remember, be careful! Be careful!

This article was edited by Zheng razor at 18:10:37, September 17 ,.

 

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Irrigation tipsLieutenant Colonel of the Chinese army Add as friend reference 3 floor 14:43:48

This .. Too outrageous. Regardless of the value or value, first of all, marriage is to respect the choice of marriage and life. If you cheat again .. Well, sooner or later, life will get revenge.

The poster is the title party. The authentication is complete.

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JunyiMajor General of the Chinese Air Force Add a friend to reference the 8 th floor 15:23:12

If you are a comrade-in-arms like this, never give up your girlfriend. There is no moral standard and no psychological defense. Of course, the hero also has some aspects to think about, such as how to treat the next girlfriend.

Step 3Chinese naval university Add as friend reference 10 floor 15:34:32

There is a long way of life, and everything may happen.

What we can do is to cherish everything we have, including affection, love, and friendship...

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MajclhLieutenant Colonel of the Chinese army Add as friend reference 11 floor 15:34:33

In this way, you just forget it. I used the title of another post to answer "You are not worthy of the love of this demobilized soldier ". For the "comrade-in-arms" (in fact, he can no longer be called a comrade-in-arms), forget him, despise him, and do not retaliate against him, let him bear the burden of his life (if he has a little conscience)

Dl8418Army sergeant Add as friend reference 12 floor 15:38:31

My feelings are not forced. Now, I suggest you go there and find another one. There is no shortage of women with legs in this world.

Shiga mingfuArmy top-level soldiers Add as friend reference 13 floor 15:44:23

I don't want to be here, because the people here are so excited!

Color, sound, fragrance, taste, touch in the world, can always confuse all the people, please love.

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Flashing red starsLieutenant Colonel of the Chinese army Add as friend reference 14 floor 15:51:12

Sometimes, people will do something they don't think of. This depends on the emotional foundation of the two of them and their personal views on it.

Yayawa18Colonel of the Chinese navy Add a friend to reference the 15th floor 15:56:28

Be cautious about emotional issues!

Once something goes wrong, it's as the author says: It hurts everyone!

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RyhcMajor of the Chinese Air Force Add as friend reference 16 floor 15:56:36

In real life, there are fewer and fewer people with specific feelings. When you really pay for all your love in exchange for betrayal, it is undoubtedly a disaster for a person who is emotional and focused, and it is only over time to smooth the heart's pain. Others cannot help him in this case. Only he can help himself. He must defeat himself and surpass himself. Another reason is that he saw this happen on the Internet. Does he have the ability to bear it? Maybe the more people who know these things, the more pressure they put in their hearts. If someone really helps him, don't repeat it in his life. Staying away from this topic is the best help for him.

Emperor Shi XuanChinese army Emy Add a friend to reference the 17 th Floor 15:59:19

Strong twist of melon is not sweet, as long as the true feelings of the effort, do not impose their own sense of superiority on others, that will only push her farther! Love needs the care of both parties! Instead of unilaterally building on money and status! Feelings are the most authentic foundation of both parties!

Very cola 0911Lieutenant Colonel of the Chinese army Add a friend to reference the 18 th Floor 16:00:24

Let him go with such a girlfriend! After suffering from other people, she suddenly realized that her youth is gone forever!

Gulf UtopiaAir Force Major Add a friend to reference 19 th Floor 16:05:07

This is like the shadow of a friend of mine.

I think they are going to get married, because they love to take her out of the game, but unfortunately, the love for an hour on the Internet has defeated the love for three years.

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Friends and women made online friends. They caught up with friends after they opened the house in the bored and fresh room. My friend beat the man and went with great strength.

But I have been depressed at home for six months!

Women must respect themselves.

FeiqiArmy Lieutenant Add a friend to reference the 20 th Floor 16:07:43

Speechless .........

As for how to choose, it depends on the depth of feelings, although girls are not desirable, but men should also reflect, busy making money, but ignoring the feelings of their favorite people, A man should embrace everything with a big mind, calm down and calm down, otherwise it will be endless regret!

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I wish you a wonderful result!

Sharp momentsLieutenant Colonel of the Chinese army Add as friend reference 21 floor 16:08:17

The following is a reference to Junyi's speech on the fifth floor: If you are a comrade-in-arms like this, never give up your girlfriend. There is no moral standard and no psychological defense. Of course, the hero also has some aspects to think about, such as how to treat the next girlfriend.

I very much agree with the opinion of badminton fans, where is there no grass in the world? Women who do not know how to cherish their boyfriends are certainly not worth cherishing. the content of this article is somewhat the same as that of the previous article. The truth is: feelings are two people's affairs, and wishful thinking will never end up with good fruit. I don't know whether to say yes or not, but it is true that the support is in the wind.

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Cheng zilingChinese army Emy Add as friend reference 24 floor 16:15:10

A wonderful family can withstand the test. is a test of life. now I am happy for your military friends. true. such a woman cannot be his wife. if you are not married, you will be derailed and your feelings will be weak. it is not conducive to family harmony. the main communication between husband and wife is the communication between the heart and the heart, instead of what I buy for you every day. No matter how upscale, he is just material. this is not the way to treat her well. The money-bought marriage is full of copper. when your life goes well, she takes a fancy to your money. When you are not smooth, she may leave him. your military friends are lucky. no loss?

33161Colonel of the Chinese Air Force Add a friend to reference 25 th Floor 16:18:22

"The reason is that I often don't have time to accompany him, And I am often busy with my own business"

What a ridiculous excuse!

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There are usually two reasons for a woman to cheat. One is that she is not concerned enough, and she does not have enough time to spend with her. The other is to blame the man for being incompetent.

A man is really tired. He often stays with her and loves women. If he has no money, he will be said to be useless by women. When she is so eager to make money, she cannot stay with her.

South China Sea TillerSergeant Navy Add as friend reference 26 Floor 16:22:12

This is not a blessing!

There is no eternal love, And the vow is just a loss of words. When a person opens his mind! Then we will abandon shame! If so, we should be glad to feel better at the pain of the betrayal after marriage!

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Still sunnyLieutenant Colonel Add reference for friends 28 floor 16:41:17

The "comrades-in-arms and girlfriends", let them all go. What is it! No. There is always a bottom line for people to do things. What can be done and what can't be done. Even the most basic moral bottom line has broken through. The person kneeling down is nothing more than a pity, dignity. Does he still have it?

YnlcyyColonel of the Chinese Air Force Add a friend to reference the 30 th Floor 16:52:32

If a man is derailed or a woman is derailed, the final result is not to confuse a family, or to break the feelings of the two.

Well, I think so too. We should abide by the rules of love.

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GuavaColonel of the Chinese army