How to exist

Before June year 78, a girl in Chongqing I knew used up cash when she played cards and shopping the day before and got on the bus. As a result, she had to choose from the road. According to her, a girl in Chongqing was not so new, if there is no air conditioner or a bus with a high noise, it can go back to work smoothly.

In the evening, the girl lamented how simple his school is, and how childish he was without social experience.

Yes, "how pale and miserable will it be if you have lived in a self-world without social identity and lack of social value and spiritual sustenance for a long time ", this is the grief of a 25-year-old girl.

 

I think this is a question she has been asking and exploring. Especially as a woman, I think she must have been thinking about it for a long time.

Let's talk about her choice. Her final choice is to enter this man's world. In her opinion, in this society, the world is a man. In reality, women cannot completely change their subordinate status.

Gain social recognition, that is, men's recognition; gain wealth, that is, compete for wealth from men; gain a certain social position, that is, gain men's recognition and respect.

How can we achieve this? What I see is that she is trying to integrate into this society.

She drinks, plays cards, participates in all kinds of wine bureaus and social activities, and shuttles between various middle-aged and elderly men, carefully protecting herself, and vigorously rotating in one social network.

For a time, she became famous in her ever-expanding circle. During the period when I happened to break into her circle, I heard many discussions about men.

Fortunately, I didn't hear any peach lace.

 

She asked me how to exist. Maybe I didn't want to give her an exception.

I remember what I said was an understatement.

I said that you are so good at writing, writing, expressing, and constantly improving your skills. I also gave an example of a talented girl I met on the forum. With the general salary of the working class, we are not stingy with the pursuit and payment in words.

She retorted that my point of view was too mainstream. I believe everyone knows that the classic one is: text cannot be used as a meal, and an upgraded version is: even if it can be used as a meal, how can we ensure a sense of security.

 

At that time, I was less than 30, and my career was still in its infancy. When I heard this, I could not give more comments, more importantly, I felt the misty darkness behind her soul... There are loneliness, grievances that have to bow their heads, and a lot of negative emotions that have accumulated surging volumes. Instead of solving them, they become more and more intense.

The two talented women, one who went to a real estate company for copywriting and the other who went to a newspaper as a real estate reporter.

After 3-4 years, I gave her the talented girl who was away from her. Starting from writing advertisement texts, I now run the company's flagship cultural real estate brand Chongqing Tiandi, I felt that she had gained a balance between her physical and mental health and her career.

She has lost contact for two years.

The last message was that she left the newspaper and then went to the Organization introduced by her boyfriend to do the 4S Shop-related work of the car. She had completely left her favorite words.

She got married in the next three years. Her husband was her first love. She had a long-distance race for 10 years and finally had a happy ending.

Real estate reporter girl, her boyfriend is over 10 years old and 20 years old, I really don't know what to call her home and her mother.

 

Yes, this society is men's. Yes, it is difficult for women to obtain fairness in this society.

However, at the age of 33, I thought this was just an excuse for them to retreat, surrender, and Chenghua. Women can be wonderful in this society.

This is wonderful, but it can be achieved only by persistence and a good attitude.

 

I think she may encounter it again in a few years. I hope she will understand it at that time and try to practice it all.

 

 

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How to exist