I heard a passage from "Addu" yesterday.

When I went back last night, Zhang Feng and I stood at the door of the dormitory of Addu (***) and listened to the internal meetings of Zhang Xiaoqing, then, ** I ran to Addu to bed and told me that I was ill. ** the solution was to cure the problem and my life was very good. ** then, I felt sad. Then Addu came in, I asked Addu how to improve the quality of life and make himself energetic. Then we started to talk about "how to maintain health. Because Addu is very talkative and has a deeper understanding of society than us, he does not want to study, so he has long thought of going out. Remember last night, after listening to his two-hour speech, I was deeply shocked. Addu told us all his private things as public, there are also a lot of unique insights on interpersonal relationships (of course, I have some negative attitudes). Here are some words that I remember very clearly:
I. "when I was in junior high school, we had the first student in our school. The school director said that he must be from Tsinghua University and Peking University ...... but at that time, I just shook my head, because the score was not good. If I said no, the people would despise me, so I didn't come up with my thoughts (that person can't do it)
Do you know why? "I want to explain my point: 1. junior high school is quite simple. It is good at this time. It is not good in the future. 2. people are very bad, and they will not answer any questions about learning. 3. he also said one thing, saying that a girl wrote a letter (Love Letter) to him. Later, he handed over the letter from the girl to the teacher, the teacher happened to be the uncle of the girl. Later, she spoke about the story in the class. When the class was over, the girl hit the wall, later, my classmates left, and only Addu and another student comforted her. This case shows that the boy has no feelings and will not deal with interpersonal relationships at all, but has no future for development.
2: He also said he wants to do what he wants. His ideal is to do business. Through his good communication skills, he can confidently believe what he has done and do better than others, here, he gave an example of how many people do business, and he didn't know how to study. (I thought so at the time, why did he give these examples? I: he will often get in touch with or understand the achievements of people with different personalities. If they have a way of success, Addu will have the same idea as they will achieve in the future, so I feel that I can do it myself. 2. His ideal is to do business, make a lot of money, and not find it in books.) So I have a negative attitude towards this.
3: "No matter what people do, if you want to become a promising person, you must be generous, emotional, and talkative. A stingy person has no food to eat ", later, he gave a lot of examples, which were very vivid. I felt that this was the most lacking thing in my life. I was a strange and impermanence, I don't know what kind of person I am. I have a lot of nervousness, and most people are very stingy (self-feeling). Many people are reluctant to take the initiative. In his words, I learned the truth of being a person. Although not all of them are true, they just get into the river.
4. When he said that his relationship with his father was very stiff, although he was very concerned about each other, he then said something that made me feel very infeasible, he said that his family planted mushrooms, and Addu told his father not to do that thing. Then Addu told us why we didn't planted mushrooms at the beginning, and the analysis of the problem was quite good. I praise him very much.
5: He also talked about his own fight and the idea of building a house in a reservoir at home to do business.
6. His last sentence: "Xu canzhao: I don't want to open it very much, but I am helpless"
After hearing all of his words, I felt that I lacked many things and that our college students lacked the qualities and social experience they needed.