Introvert survival manual

Introverted is not a disease, but often cannot adapt to this chaotic society. The inner loves quiet, the wind and the quiet of the Buddhist family, which are incompatible with the current social atmosphere.

In order to make your life more attractive in the workplace, you must recognize the disadvantages of the introvert:

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1. the introvert is easily misunderstood as self-centered and not considerate of others.

What is the truth? Most extroverted users are self-centered, because they have strong personal opinions, but they are good at establishing communication channels and making good use of others. They are not really thinking about others' situations; the introvert always takes into account the situation of the other party and reflects on his/her behavior, so as to avoid harm to the other party.

What is the inspiration for the introvert?

Since we are misunderstood for the sake of others and sacrifice our own interests without approval, why should we do this?

The introvert must emphasize self-centered and give priority to their own interests. The interests of others are exclusive to others, so they do not need to worry too much and do it with courage.

Why is it still universally recognized that extrotors take advantage of low prices? This is a question worth thinking about.

People will not be so disgusted with the importance of communication. This is an example. Second, the Extrovert is better at balancing the interests of all parties: No one will really think that others will sacrifice themselves to satisfy others, and no one will expect you to get the biggest share of the benefits, people just want to get the benefits they deserve.

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2. The inner is misunderstood as unsociable.

This is a big misunderstanding. In fact, we do not like to communicate with others, but do not like to communicate with strangers. The purpose of communication is different. The purpose of communication is to acquire knowledge, rather than to improve interpersonal relationships. The inner prefers beneficial and in-depth communication instead of exaggerating. This is why many introverts are good at writing but not language, because writing has more time to think about and involves more in-depth topics.

What is the inspiration for the introvert?

First, you must be good at saying something that is not marginal. Second, focus on people rather than content. Third, the Extrovert does not believe that you will love it unless you express it in obvious language and body. This is a negative assumption, and the introvert is not good at denying assumptions. Fourth, the Extrovert is afraid of the introvert, because communication and feedback will bring about a sense of security, and they do not want to lose this means.

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Iii. shyness and guilt are not the patents of the introvert, but they are worthy of attention.

Why do introverts need to pay more attention to shame and guilt? One is that they often reflect on and think about others, and the other is lack of communication experience and have never seen big scenes.

To improve this, we only need self-esteem and learning communication skills. Some problems are hard to deal with, but it is easy to avoid it if you know some skills.

Shy is afraid that others think they are incapable. You just need to be sure that I am a normal person, and the other person is a normal person. Everyone is equal. Just do not raise yourself, you do not need to belittle yourself.

Guilt is to think that you will hurt the other Party. This requires rational analysis, recognition of the facts, and brave apologies if it hurts. It is important to understand that mistakes are normal and to make up for them.

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4. introvert is slow

In general, it is a lack of "smart" talents. It's better to know your own characteristics.

First, we need to develop the habit of notes (bian, jian. Slow pace is due to lack of overall planning capabilities for recent events.

2. Writing notes helps sort information

Third, do not regard the impression in your mind as a reality. If you think too much, you will mistakenly think that the understanding of the other party has reached your own level, and assume that there are too many prerequisites.

Fourth, look for opportunities to be alone, relax and restore energy

Fifth, do not make decisions under pressure. This is not your long-term plan.

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5. Do not discriminate against yourself

Being introverted and extroverted is just a matter of male and female. People's happiness first is: they can become themselves.

"…… One thing will not change, that is, me. I will always be me! "