Is the 30-Year-Old programmer always in pain?

Programmers, are you thirty years old?

Graduated from college, male, thirty years old this year, the ancients cloud: Thirty, look at yourself, suddenly sad.

I have been engaged in software development since I graduated from years. My passion and pride seem to have been wiped out by years.

I remember that when I was studying, I had a lot of fun at school, and I was confused about football, novels, and Internet cafes. In short, I had no solid software programming skills. At the end of my graduation, I was faced with the first confusion and helplessness in my life. Even if I studied hard at school, what I learned was not necessarily helpful to my future work, that kind of confusion and helplessness is really the punishment I deserve for years of play.
Recently, the company has received big projects. These days, the company is preparing to attract people. The company has held several recruitment meetings together. To recruit senior Java programmers, you must meet the following requirements:
1. Strict test, the test is about an hour, the test pass rate does not exceed 90%, do not tell me that you will use IDE, will check the document, if you do not even understand the basics, do not confuse.

2. Java has about 3 years of experience. If you start to work in a regular company or work as an intern, you will also be considered a work experience.

3. Must be born 80 years later, unmarried!

Programmers over the age of 30 don't want to say they have poor technical skills, but they are the first. They require a high salary and generally do not have a monthly salary of 12 K, it will not be long before, and we have recruited about 8 K senior Java engineers who have 2 years of experience. Second, programmers over 30 years old are generally married and even have children. If they have family members, they will never invest 100% in their work as unmarried young programmers, it is impossible for everyone to take the company as their home as a young programmer. We are a startup company, and 30-Year-Old programmers are too costly for us. The company is also recruiting students. At first glance, the requirements are almost the same as those of our company, not programmers over 30 years old. Programmers over 30 years old still stay in a company, and there is little room for job-hopping. I don't think it's really special. I think programmers over the age of 30 will have a miserable career in the future. Programmers in their 20th years have been honed to become a great ox, or they will be 30 years old ....
As a 30-Year-Old programmer, I often recall my past. I am no exception. I believe many it friends share the same idea with me: when we know how to cherish time, I have discovered that I am no longer young. At the age of 30, I realized it slowly ......
The age of 30 is the turning point of life. It is not the end of youth, but the second starting line of life. People should not live in the eyes of others' doubts, nor be put in the eyes of others, nor should they live in the weights given by others. Do not be afraid of other people's arguments. disputes can prove that you have a role. If you don't dare to stand up, you will never have a chance to stand up. This is what I learned after I was 30 years old: it is impossible to avoid being discussed. The only thing I can do is to surpass others. Only those who are far away from you can surpass others, beyond the comparable scope, they will have no confidence to envy you again. For those who have repeatedly destroyed you, they can only prove that you are the object that the other party really wants or cannot surpass, you should be happy and believe that the onlookers can be clear at a glance.

The beauty of struggle: After the age of 30, I realized that although my life is too short, it is also self-defeating. People should pursue something and have their own goals and careers. Busy life is full and happy. If they have goals, they will not let us deviate from our course. Only continuous advances can we see more beautiful scenery on the way forward. After being 30 years old, I realized that there were still many things to do that were not done, and enjoyment was not the only one.

Learn to choose: After the age of 30, you can choose between them. When I was young, I always looked too much. However, despite the many blessings, there are not much to grasp and get. Instead of all the bottles are half-bottles, it is better to fill them with several bottles and then drop unused bottles so that they can be lightly loaded. Don't let unnecessary things stop us from moving forward. Do not abandon yourself.
After the age of 30, I realized that to be loved, I must love myself and never give up on myself at any time. To gain respect for yourself, you must achieve yourself. A mediocre person is respected. It is nonsense. No one is willing to appreciate an idiot. Even if the sky is falling down, there is no more worthwhile than giving up life. If we live, we will be able to turn around. If we die, we will be doomed to lose forever. Nothing is better than living.

Coming soon: After the age of 30, not only do I know the world, but I also know my own shortcomings. On the one hand, you should not regard yourself as a perfect princess, nor demand yourself with perfect standards. There is no best, only better.

Do not give up responsibility: After the age of 30, I realized that there is still a distance between love and responsibility, so I will not be so arrogant. People are also mature and sophisticated. Therefore, life will become boring and dull, but it is also somewhat stable. Any heart does not want to drift for too long. Responsibility is the highlight of our lives and the point of success. Give up the responsibility, and pursue the temporary benefits, and eventually lose more. Life is a geometric mean.

Learn to stand on your own: Do not pin your hopes on others after you are 30 years old. The only one who can be permanently dependent is only you. At any time, We must be self-reliant and self-reliant. strength is the motive force behind the ultimate victory.

Learn tolerance: After the age of 30, you may lose your fame and fortune. Life is poor. We come with our bodies alone and walk empty hands. No one in material can occupy more, except the rest of the party. After the age of 30, we will learn tolerance and patience, and our life will become more open-minded. As a song sings: It doesn't matter, forgive all the mistakes in the world, it doesn't matter, why let yourself suffer the reincarnation. In fact, in many cases, we seem to be unable to forgive others. In fact, we did not forgive ourselves. We punished ourselves with others' mistakes and let ourselves bear the cross for many years, it turns out to be so uneconomical.

Cherish friendship: After the age of 30, I realized that people should have their own friends at any time, and those who do not have friends can never be a big tool. If a friend leaves, he will not return. After being 30 years old, I realized that I am the biggest beneficiary of my sincerity.

Smile forever: After the age of 30, I felt that my life was so short-lived that I wanted to be happier and more elegant. However, the pressure of life made our brows more tight, melancholy is a haze that never throws. Maybe there should be a great deal of excitement when you are alive. It is very important to give yourself a smile every day.
If we haven't done well before the age of 30, let's try again after the age of 30. We cannot change history, but we can change the future ......