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First , to be realistic, not capricious. Do not think in the vacuum of the problem, you are facing the most urgent problem is employment and survival, learning skills is the hard truth, which requires a solid effort.
Second, be self-made. Children can not eat candy will cry, you are not getting love on the distress. What difference does it have? Where is greatness? If you are as picky about your behavior as your lover, then your lover is much better than the present.
Thirdly, I advise you to be brave in part with the inferiority of the people. As I said before, people are born equal, you do not have to worry about others (good and bad) face and wronged yourself, no matter how much you want to handle things well. To give yourself too much pressure is not good, this does not solve the problem, to calm down, can be gradual but not self-defeating.
In the Forth, inertia is a habit, but it is not a good habit. Change the habit to start with action.
Five, do not die and retreat, it is easy to know that it is difficult, not only for the big goal, but more practical significance is to help you out of the immediate predicament, and go further. Many times you will find that the river is not as shallow as the old bull, nor as deep as the squirrel said.
Do not ask others what happiness is, your happiness and pain yourself clearly.
Seventh, start by doing what is right in front of you. Do not think that the overwhelming thought, more understanding of some truth is good, but the human energy is limited, action is actually more important. Do not need to understand the reason is not to understand, this is also a reason.
The Changle to know contentment, you and I are mortal, certainly many things will not be satisfactory, to know the unremitting pursuit, but also to understand the treatment of cherish.
Life--there's a lot of meaning