Love and image

Before my mother said to me to maintain a good image, her so-called good image refers to the appearance of clean and tidy, because I grew up not to pay attention to the "image": Always love to wear old and dirty clothes, do not love to wash their hands and face bath. So she sometimes angry call me "Maitai God", I also feel indifferent to this title, and I do not have any reflection of the behavior and think there is any improper. But this is my idea of the last few days, and now there's a change.

I would like to talk about my previous ideas, in fact, I am also very attention to my own image, beauty of the heart of the people are the most suitable for most people. I also hope to have a good image of beauty, but my perception of good image is not the appearance of clean and tidy, but in the eyes of others my efforts and perseverance of the will-this is an internal image in the outside because of others to see the appearance of an image.

I was the first class in high school (ordinary class), although it is the ordinary class, but more is the contrast, around the basic mostly are learning slag (although I also learn the slag, while learning side DNF), which also highlights my differences-the second to fifth in the class are not playing games or main study, but I did not study well. I give the students the impression is this, there are some people envy and flattery, which has formed my image of one-sided and distorted understanding-the image is not appearance but the inner generation of others on their own views, good appearance only for women useful. So I began to play the game more crazy playing truant and seriously study physics, I began to do other people's eyes of the heterogeneous, to show me the difference, is a good image. Here also to explain my secret love class in a female classmate, so want to show a better image, but also because of my mistaken understanding of the image also with this classmate farther and farther away, deeply regret.

After college, I also have a favorite girl, but my view of the image has begun to change-I am in college is mediocre, because there is no like high school competition, and my professional also very painful. So the important task of attracting girls was to change the appearance, but I didn't give any action to change the appearance until the junior. Because I feel that my appearance is not too bad, the whole person is reasonable, before someone said I am handsome I also did not care and take seriously, but the end of the freshman time to the short "love" came when I was full of hope and confidence, finally there is a person really like me from the outside, It means that I'm still a decent appearance. Maybe she's attracted to her, and I feel "reliable" for others? But this from her mouth I do not think it is true-because at that time I still higher in the routine, hip-hop attitude to face the future of learning face to face life and not to really seriously go and who who talk about the future talk about the ideal, because these things I have to stay in the heart, others see is a package of me. So I think that was just my appearance + she is also empty and lonely + her strong desire for love has contributed to our short "love", so I did not put in any feelings (irrelevant).

October 28, 14 I really like the goddess is a confession it, and at night I also what my mother through the phone, not careful to cry, she asked me why I did not say later texting told her, she also comforted me. I began a lot of thinking on this day, there is about the future of career, postgraduate, recent study, there is also about the appearance of. Because I thought about the reasons why I might fail, which is not the decisive factor but it is definitely one of the factors. So after these days I began to take care of the image, two days to wash hair, hairstyle can not be messy, every day's face brushing is more basic, but more important is the dress, I always wear a piece of clothing, now I change also although just changed one or two pieces of clothes but these changes played a certain role- My girl friend told me that I used to be like Sanmao, and now I'm a whole lot. None of this has been done in vain, and has made a certain effect, changing my previous perception of the image.

Objectively speaking, the image is particularly in and within, both of which are very important, there is no external image of others can not see you, but only the outside without inner people are also very superficial perhaps also very disgusting. In any case, the external image must be done well, can grow not beautiful but must be clean and tidy. Pang Tong, very powerful but no good image-others despise him may not have a girlfriend, but people's strength is some, although the realization of personal ideals is a successful person but I think he may not be happy. I have thought about a problem is the achievement of life is important or their own feelings and the joy of living important, my previous setup is that these two cards can not be combined, I think I was wrong-a life winner must be the two have a talent worthy of the title of Life winner, or missing any one is a failure or in the eyes of others is a failure, But people who have any of them don't think they're the ones who fail!

　　

Love and image