Treat your child as an equal individual, express love to your child, but don't let your child feel special and excessive attention.
Respect the child, try not to impose his will on the child, but if it is determined that whatever the child is going to obey/do, lead directly to
Health:
Eating, dressing, washing, drinking (fruit), excretion
General:
Cultivate children's self-care ability; Children can do things, as far as possible to let the child solve themselves;
Make rules, respect children, non-urgent/important things do not hurry (remind one every few minutes), urgent/important things directly completed;
Play:
General:
Build environment, guide learning, solve problems by yourself;
Respect the child, ask the child's opinion, give advice;
To children's needs, let children learn to ask for help, if the child does not indicate the need, try not to disturb;
Non-special circumstances, if adults have their own things, can be directly and the children say, do not indulge the child;
Parent-Child Diary Two