Programming for three years, whether to stop and choose to switch

I have to say that I have been confused for a while ......

It has been three years since my internship. Although experience and salary have been improved, the true pursuit does not seem to be at this frequency, it is said that warm boiled frogs will kill people. Maybe now I am in this state. Now I have been working for two years and one month, and I have learned a lot and gained a lot, however, I feel that my inner needs are not here. I have been engaged in catering since I was a child, and many of my family members are engaged in catering. This is precisely because of such factors, I am more interested in Food & Beverage. [I am not sure whether I like food and beverage is influenced by the surrounding environment or by my heart ], in a sense, my personality is not suitable for development. [from college to now, I have never changed my mind. That is, I am better at communication, my job mentor at the university said that I was more suitable for sales. They also thought that I would do sales. At the beginning of the graduation conference, all the interviews were for sale, but at last, considering the stress of life, I chose my major. I thought that if I had to live, I could do what I wanted first, so I started my major. I do not love technology, but I do not reject it. I will also look at various technical blog posts to broaden my horizons. Now everything is stable, so I lose the perseverance, I should force myself to make a fortune, and I have to force myself to have the courage and perseverance. I don't know if such a state is a manifestation of self-deception, I am not sure [the two most familiar industries are the IT and catering industries. The former is my major and the latter is my quasi-Major ].

When I told my parents about my thoughts in the first half of this year, my parents initially opposed it. Later, after several communications, I gradually understood it. From the previous discussions, I only learned how to listen, I heard that the combination of voice and voice makes communication more effective, and the mentality may be calm. The reason for my parents is that they feel that such a job can bring about a certain amount of income and they feel that they need funds to save some money for me to work for several years, but I think that when everything is ready, the external factors have changed, and all the so-called preparations are not good. I naturally understand that this society is changing rapidly and always say that we are ready, but the more accurate it is, the worse it will be. When the preparation is complete, the chance will be gone, after you have made the decision and made the decision, the factors you need to prepare may become what you have now [what I need to prepare is my mentality ]...... When you see such a passage in the circle of friends, it makes sense to [share it with others ]:

[Do not let your life be lost in the word ""] Wait for the future, wait for the next time,

Wait for time, wait for conditions, wait for money ...... Wait, wait, wait,

Without youth, without health, without opportunities, without choice, without beauty. No one can predict the future,

Many things may wait forever. If you want to do something, do it quickly. Do not wait for too many regrets for yourself.

From the perspective of my parents, I can understand their thoughts. In fact, I still want to understand my parents and their real needs and thoughts, maybe the children's shoes in the garden have also experienced me. I clearly know that it takes courage to switch, and I know that sooner or later I will switch [the world's "Martial Arts" is fast but not broken]. Some people say that the next line is like a mountain. [choose to be careful, hesitate most] I also know this truth, but if I don't follow my own ideas, my heart will always be as big as a hill, in fact, I am also wondering if I can accept the psychological gaps brought about by the transfer ...... [When can I prepare myself?-mentality]

My uncle is a restaurant chain. I was the first to do everything with him, and I could also learn my experience. In an industry that I was not familiar with, it was just like a fish, however, the verbal actions of entrepreneurs may have exceeded the thinking areas of ordinary people, leading to family opposition to my work with them. [I am also worried that the relationship between my family members may be poor due to the influence of the entrepreneurs ], in fact, to put it bluntly, everything is everything we need. [The words are so pertinent, but there are some concerns in our hearts. Can we learn what I want, I am concerned about whether it will be done together because some things affect the relationship between my family members. This is what I do not want to see most. If there must be a statement, I can't determine whether I can handle this well.] For me, my needs are simple: learn what I want to learn, do what I want to do, the first job and experience in the industry is very important. Maybe from my uncle's perspective, he is not sure which direction he will take me in his heart. After all, it is also the influence of his family's relationship, if it is good, it is not good. If it is not good, there will be more things [I can understand its ideas]. Here, some colleagues in the circle may think that I am in relationship ......? In fact, I have also considered other catering companies in the past. There are many choices, but there is only one purpose and direction. The time relationship is written here. Hope you can give me some advice and give me some pertinent suggestions !! Thank you.

The younger brother is not talented, and the document is limited. Hope to understand ...... 3q

Programming for three years, whether to stop and choose to switch