What's wrong?

Recently it was a bit strange. It seems that the frequency of saying "no" is getting higher and higher. It is more picky than before and has a definite idea. The approval documents are constantly requested to be modified by the other party. I used a red dot to circle a demand statement. It seems that I am not satisfied with the description of each function point. I have repeatedly reviewed it for a week, I still feel that the instruction is not well written and clear enough. Me, what's wrong?

In the morning, I received a call from a company's small sales team. To be honest, my head hurt when I heard her call. That's a word! I have backed up all the things I 've done. I don't know what I 've said. I have to listen to the leaders. Why doesn't she understand? I am also a part-time employee. I can say what I can and can do. I must do it, but I can't do it. How can I promise?

Said, said, and began to invite me to dinner, but also very specific about the time, location and so on. As before, I patiently said to her, "No, this is not good. We can communicate with each other in the Office to promote the development of this project. I don't need to eat. I'm not polite. I really don't need it ." I don't like the foreign company's sales requirements to invite me to dinner. Whether the other person is a male or female, I really don't like it very much. I have to eat with people I like, my friends, and my colleagues. Otherwise, it may be strange and strange. In addition, the sales staff of most small companies have to pay for their own banquets, and their income is not very high. They may not be able to do anything if they make money. I don't want to take advantage of others' advantages. I have a professional principle that must be adhered to in my position. I have to take responsibility for my salary and take or eat from others, I don't want.

Today, this small sales is different from usual. After hearing my courtesy decline, she silently said, "I work in Shanghai alone, and there are not many friends, I think it's a great deal for you, so I want to invite you to dinner, talk, and chat."

My heart suddenly felt uncomfortable. If I was such a small sales with heavy pressure, I would be in the same mentality as her. I began to regret it a little. Maybe I thought it was a little blunt to decline politely, but I didn't know how to respond for a while. After a few seconds, I said to her, "Thank you very much. I have received your kindness. If you are free in the afternoon, you can come to my office to talk and chat with me ."

I feel a little sad when I put down the phone. Recently, my temper has deteriorated. I remember when I first started my work, I seemed very "caring". I always reminded myself that everyone came out to work, and they were all hard-working. Don't be harsh or picky about each other, do not embarrass each other.

From this afternoon, I 'd better change this situation. It's not like a young man. The first thing I can do is to tell the person who is sad and can't scold me in person. The demand statement can be passed and you don't have to modify it any more.