Why are our wives better than others?

There is a popular saying: My wife is better than others, and my mother is better than myself! Taking a closer look, there are a lot of phenomena in this world that have made a good interpretation: big money with beebot, extramarital affair crazy behavior, sexual flooding, even this virtual network society can't escape like Sun monkey's palm-in-hand-there is a word that cannot be found in "": Internet dating or online couples.

The most expressive form is the following:

Holding the lady's hand, as if I had returned to 18th 9; holding the lover's hand, as if I was drinking Moutai; holding the wife's hand, as if I had the right hand on the left, I felt nothing at all. From the traditional point of view, the phrase "Wife is good for others" does not seem to be true and is contrary to our ethics and value orientation for thousands of years.

Why is my wife always nice to others? After careful consideration, I found it very knowledgeable.

1. The distance produces beauty

After a man is married, he gets along with his wife and lives together in a circle. After a long time, his new feelings gradually disappear, and his wife's manners and manners are at a glance, seeing other women is just as curious and fresh as seeing their wives. The reason for freshness is that there is some distance, like watching flowers in the fog, and looking like clear and non-clear. What a man captures is only the superficial phenomenon of a float, but he cannot see its substantive things. This haze can produce a kind of beauty. This is also the main reason for us to be able to fall in love on the Internet. Many people who have had online dating experience say: online dating is just a matter of death. I think this is because the distance from the float to the substantive aspects is gone, leading to the death of Internet love.

As the saying goes: John wins the wedding. We are also talking about the beauty of distance, and I believe many of our friends have deep experiences.

For example, my wife is like a book. When you get your hand, you will enjoy yourself and read it tirelessly. When you have read the story, you will know the story and get familiar with it. In contrast, a new published book will certainly have a strong interest in you. That is to say, other people's wives always look better than their own most popular metaphor.

2. Different appreciation perspectives

A husband's appreciation of his wife is totally different from the appreciation of other women. A man's appreciation of his wife is from the husband's perspective. The husband always hopes that his wife will be perfect and superior to others, go down to the kitchen ". Some men want their wives to be ladies in the hall, a slut in the bed, and a nanny in the kitchen. While most men look at other women from the perspective of friends, colleagues, and classmates, they must be humble and friendly in their interactions, and behave as gentlemen everywhere, it is to look at the spring in the street (Women's scenery), also feel that the women who have been in a hurry in the street are all beautiful.

Starting from this idea, seeing other women, of course, is very cute. If they are gentle, considerate, and beautiful, they will feel that their wife lacks grace. In short, this kind of "Seeking for perfection" is often shorter than the person's wife, so I feel that my wife is not satisfied.

Iii. Different mentality

When dealing with women out of marriage, they tend to desire the trust, goodwill, and even affection of each other. As a result, they will face each other and intentionally conceal their own shortcomings and try to show their advantages. Originally, this woman was a "Hedong sihoo". At this moment, she was also soft-spoken and tender. It was originally a "Night Cross of the East China Sea". At this time, she was very charming and graceful. My wife is different. I want to live with you at home every day. Coupled with the burden of life, housework, and other things, it is inevitable that you will be confused. Once a person's mood is affected, he will become more and more disgusted with his wife's shortcomings. Everything will look unpleasant and think of others' advantages. Of course, he will say that others' wives are good.

4. Different psychological feelings

After the husband and wife have been working for a long time, they will produce the psychology of "long-lived Lan Room without smelling its fragrance". This is a factor of psychological saturation. I am used to the advantages of my wife. For example, braised pork tastes beautiful, but it makes you eat it every day. I believe you will get tired of it, and you may even lose your appetite. This kind of psychological feeling makes it difficult for you to feel the beauty of your business.

Every couple is combined because of love. before marriage, you will feel that your wife is the most lovely person in the world. Better than anyone else, so you can mobilize all your wisdom to pursue it. After marriage, I think my wife is inferior to others. It is just a psychological illusion. In all fairness, it is the wife who share the same joys and sorrows, the wife who lives and deaths together, and your wife, which is the most difficult and helpful thing for you.

5. Original heterosexual attraction between men and women

Out-of-marriage contact with other women, the most fundamental is the mutual attraction between men and women, this is an instinct. A famous American psychologist said that the best target of men's emotions is women, and the best target of women's emotions is men. As a result, we can always find in the chat room that a pair of men and women are like a good match and chatting with potential. Of course, there will also be chat between the same sex, but it is far inferior to the depth and length of the chat between men and women.

6. Couples have been getting along for a long time.

A person has one or more disadvantages. A man is one and a woman is no exception. As a wife, in the symphony of rice, oil, salt, and pots and pans, complicated housework makes her unhappy, especially nowadays, many male have disadvantages, such as smoking, drinking, playing cards, and gambling, it is often late at night, and so on. Of course, women will say a few words. Furthermore, nagging is the nature of a woman. If it is in a woman's menstrual cycle, women with large needle points will also be treated as watermelon. It is common to lose their temper and make the man angry, no way to adapt. The man sighed: How can he marry such a tough wife to see how good a woman is!

But for women outside of marriage, other women do not need to live with you, do not have to do anything about eating, drinking, and Lazarus. It is the most wonderful time to be with you, therefore, there is nothing to worry about, and there is no basis for conflict .. If this woman is your lover, the words you say will turn you upside down, either for her or for men, and the lover will accept your shortcomings.

A typical example is: the wife will throw your lighter out of the house, while the lover will give you a lighter.

If you marry another woman, you will feel the same sigh in a short time. In the eyes of other men, your wife is very good.

Homlinski, an educator from the former Soviet Union, makes sense: "When young couples create happiness together, when they cultivate delicate and strongest human wealth in ordinary mutual care, therefore, love is permanent. At that time, there may not be a situation where this person is better than his wife (or husband."

Let me end with two poems: I don't know the true colors of the mountains, but I am here.

May the husband and wife in the world respect each other and love each other, and reach the realm of "like guisqin" and "singing with your wife". You will say "your wife is better than yourself!