Your efforts are made to make your choices more correct.

Life is a test paper, there are many choice questions, how to choose all by yourself. Even if there is no answer to the choice of life, choose the time also to follow their own heart, in the future less regret, even if not negative life. And, you'll find--as long as you follow your own inner choices, you're going to have to work harder than ever, because you want to use action to prove that your choices are right.

Reunion with Sujinyi is the last day of the National Exhibition book, at that time, we have not any contact for more than half a year, the person who thought that there is no intersection in life suddenly appear in front of you, also said to ask you to drink coffee, or quite surprised.

We chose the location of the window seat, in the aroma of cappuccino, Sujinyi said: "Elder sister, I now begin to regret, I should not listen to my mother's advice, back home to do what the banking system work." Now I do the things I do not like and have to smile to deal with a variety of complex colleague relations, is physically and mentally exhausted Ah! What do you think I should do now? ”

Sujinyi was an editor of my department, six months ago, because of the work encountered some bad, plus her mother kept on the phone with her advocate in the hometown for her to seek a how stable work, so she wavered.

I'm not surprised she mentioned leaving the office. She is weak, she is very hard, but always with other editors a little gap, which I see in the eyes.

But I can feel that she is really love this job, all said interest is the best teacher, I believe that in time, she will make achievements, so I tried to retain her.

Su Jin, you do not hurry, you do not compare with other editors, you and yourself than, you do not think you have been more than the beginning of the time to improve a lot? "I looked at her and said.

She was slightly stunned and looked up.

"You are slow to do books, only because of the lack of experience in book cover, and the company's requirements on the cover are very high." But you've made great strides in writing programs and designing layouts.

"You do not need to compare with others, as long as you compare with yourself, today than yesterday improved a little, even if successful." ”

Sujinyi is could be free resigned, she thought I would very readily promised, did not think I would tell her this, for a moment she did not know what to respond to the good.

Seeing her silent, I asked her: "What do you study in college?" ”

"Accountant," she replied. ”

Originally she and I, are halfway decent, learned other majors but engaged in the work of writing. Visible is the work of writing enough to love.

I asked her to put aside her mother and me, just to follow her own voice, and a week later to tell me whether to go or stay.

A week later, Sujinyi chose to leave, and I certainly respect her choice.

More than half a year without any news of her, I think she should be living the life she wanted, and deliberately avoid contact with my former boss. So, for the moment I suddenly appeared in front of me, and threw me a so heavy topic of her, I really do not know how to answer.

Outside the window, neon lights flashing, colorful light in the Su Jinsch makeup face should be shining, but her eyes of the anxiety and loneliness but let her look tired.

I said to Sujinyi: "I am not very clear about your situation, but my story may give you some inspiration." ”

When I was young, many choices about my life were made by my parents, I had no choice, or I had no right to choose.

In the test, my father asked me to fill out the normal school and key high schools, and then my score to the key high school, he felt that I went to high school university more promising. So, I went to the provincial key high school.

Sophomore liberal Arts class, obviously I like the arts, parents think "Learn physics, go around the world are not afraid", and let me choose Science.

Until the college entrance examination failed, my score and undergraduate missed, father felt hope female into chicken dream burst, all day temper.

Although now in my opinion, life is long enough, like a heavy book, the college Entrance examination is only one page, no matter the test is good and bad, turn over just.

But then, to 18-year-old me, the significance of the college entrance examination is to determine the success or failure of life watershed. The college entrance examination loses, in the relatives strange eyes and father's scolding sound, I experienced the deep frustration feeling.

In the choice of repetition or directly on a tertiary institution, my father chose to let me go to college, he was worried that I might not be able to do a good test. In fact, as I do, I am also afraid to repeat the dark days that count as the countdown to the college entrance examination every day.

To make a choice for my life, I started out of my parents ' side.

I was in Yangzhou University to read the college, Yangzhou city scenery Beautiful, like a fresh and elegant Jiangnan beauty, inspire me a lot of creative inspiration. High school writing novels by parents think is not a long-time, now into the university, finally can soak in the library to read like books, listen to favorite music, write like the text.

Compared with the monotonous and hard high school life, the university life is rich and free. Good college life, I give myself the only pressure is-I must be admitted to undergraduate. Set this goal, there are two reasons: first, I hope to make full use of the university's time to improve themselves to make up for the failure of the college entrance Examination regrets, the second is the employment situation required, employing units tend to choose a high degree of talent, I hope that in the future, I will not be rejected because of academic qualifications.

Higher education means more choice and autonomy in job hunting, and the ability to choose jobs that you prefer.

As the dragon in the book "Dear Andre" said to Andre: "I also ask you to study hard, not because I want you to be more than achievements, but because, I hope you will have the right to choose, the choice of meaningful, time work, rather than forced to make a living." ”

When I was sophomore, I had the opportunity to "go to the book", but the high tuition fees made me a little discouraged, after all, the economic conditions in the home were limited.

I called to discuss with my parents to participate in the "special transfer" exam, the father said can go to try, admitted to go not to say, if I have to, can only find a way to pay tuition. Mother is firmly opposed to the test, said for me to read the college is not easy, the family brother, sister school also need money, I can not so selfish, for their own future regardless of brother and sister.

In the final analysis, parents do not support me to take the exam, the reason is no money to support my further study.

On the night of the call I lost sleep, tossing and turning, wrestling, and finally I decided to take the exam.

This is my first time against my parents ' wishes, and it is my first time to make a choice for my life.

I can't imagine what it would be like if I hadn't gone to the exam today, I just know that I never regretted the decision.

Later, I went to a key university through the first and second interview of "special transfer". The tuition is my own solution, through the student loan and the magazine to write articles to earn money, I successfully finished college. And, in this university, I have reaped a precious love.

It was from that time that I actually learned to be independent after making a choice for my life. Since then, although parents will still give me advice, but I only for reference, every time to choose the right to decide is me.

After graduating from college into society, the choice is more--and he talked so long love, should not marry him for a lifetime? The price has fallen, should not buy a house at this time? The job is not very happy, should not choose to resign?

For people in the workplace, the most common choice is to job-hopping, at this time, people around you will give you different opinions, you sometimes inevitably lose the proposition.

Take my last job-hopping, that choice is more difficult than any previous job-hopping.

Your efforts are made to make your choices more correct.