30. Are you ready after 80?

Xiao Shenyang said that the most painful thing in life is that people die and money is not spent. Zhao Benshan said that the greatest pain in life is that people are not living and money is gone. In fact, the greatest pain in life is watching the time go, and you can't stand up until the final erection becomes a problem. Many years ago, I sat on the beach with a broken boat that was out of repair for a long time and looked at the Women's buttocks and breasts in the sea. while holding my feet, I thought, when I was thirty years old, capturing them is as easy as pulling a seaweed. When I turned to me at the age of thirty, I was like a seal drilled out of the snow hole, standing naked in the sun, helpless or embarrassed, you have nowhere to hide!

When my dream was shattered and the crisis was highlighted, I looked back and looked at the intersection of feelings. Wang Xiaobo wrote in "thirty lies": many years ago, when I was in Beijing, I often walked home in the fall, the road is endless. My heart is tight, I do not know where to go, or what to do after the road. The roadside is full of tall poplar trees, and countless fallen leaves are like a golden rain falling from the top of the sky. The wind is whistling and the time is tight. The wind blew the fallen leaves from the troughs, like a golden tide flowing over the road. I walk alone, and I don't see anyone ...... Yes, many years ago, the road was always long. We always looked forward to the future. We stood up thirty years ago and never dared to look forward to it any more. How can we look up?

I went to school at the age of 7. I learned from elementary school to junior high school. I was the youngest in the class. I found out that I graduated from 05 years old, but I was the oldest. I have to lament that the backwardness of Rural Education has brought me two more years in the field. Half a year of civil servants and half a year of entrepreneurship, I almost completed the exploration of the road to life in the shortest time. In, I broke into Beijing and changed three jobs within a year, I have completed my exploration of my work path. I spent three years searching for my own coordinates and figuring out what I want to do? What can I do. In, I got tired. He started to dwelling on a portal website. It cannot be said that I do not work hard, because I have never neglected. It cannot be said that there are vivid success stories. At the age of 30, the body is like a soft toilet paper filled with wrinkles. The heart is like a barbecue on an iron board. It's squeaking, smoke, and smoke ......

About responsibilities

A boss said his employment principle: one is to quit two or more times, and the other is not to be married at the age of 30. He believes that the two groups lack a sense of responsibility, are relatively free, and the establishment of a sense of responsibility is not stable enough. The ancients once said: cultivate one's morality and govern the country. In fact, for the post 80 s of the peaceful age, the country is basically not able to govern the country. The country is quite prosperous and prosperous, we repeatedly use big scripts and scenes to prove that this country is quite rich. It is especially important and difficult to cultivate your own family. I can't afford to raise an elder care because I dare not have children. A safe house is enough for everyone. From an early age, we received education from the country first, then the collective, and then the individual. In fact, what is country? Country is every one of us. Everyone can live well and make the most outstanding contribution to the country. In addition, you also need to care about the world. You don't need to pay attention to the NBA, but you need to pay attention to the Copenhagen climate summit. You don't need to pay attention to the "Three shots shot surprise", but you need to care about Iraq's human bombs. When you are powerless, attention is also a kind of support, at least an attitude. People's attitude towards the similar and surviving Earth.

About feelings

The feeling of thirty years old is poor. We should all be relieved. No matter how deep his mind is, as long as his figure is far away, he should be separated from his heart. If you are still single at this time, you will miss out on the fun of falling in love when you are young, and you will be able to pull it back from the dating market in a down-to-earth manner. After all, it is only part of life for a man to Establish a person together. For the 80 s after marriage, the itch of X years has already begun, and you are still far away from your love affair. Because you don't have time or money.

About dream

At the age of 30, the reality has already broken down our dream, at least two. However, you can wash your face, re-plan your life, and clear your ideals. Clear the dreams that belong to fantasies and put up the ideals that can be seen and touched. There is an story about this: a horse's palm is lost when a nail is lost, and a batch of horse's horses are destroyed when a horse's palm is lost, then I lost a war. If a war is lost, a city pool is lost. If a city pool is lost, a country is lost. Similarly, when you sleep late, you get late. If you are late, you may lose a good impression on the leadership. If you lose a good impression, you may lose a position, if you lose a position, you may lose a chance to become a CEO ...... For the next 80 s. Dream, starting from getting up early every day! Because there are so many things waiting for you every day, you don't have much time.

About parents

Every year, I want to go home for the Chinese New Year. It's hard to go back every year. One day, I was lying in bed. I went home once a year and my father was 60 years old. If he lived to be 90 years old, he and I had 30 chances to meet each other. Every time I went home, I stayed for three more days, my father and I are only allowed to spend 90 days. I used to take him to the world, but as he grew older, I could not do anything about it. Every time I made money for my family, it was like a redemption. Which of the following is approaching? What have you done for your parents? How can I buy a house with their money? Or can I complete a tour with them every year? These are two very different states. In my memory, my father was so strong that he was very old.

The pressure is very high, the children are very small, their parents are old, and there are too few money. After the 80 s, most of them are still standing at the crossroads of standing and not standing: they are young and have nothing to do. At the age of 30, Mao Zedong was already the leader in Hunan's peasant movement. Jay Chou was a 25-year-old Chinese star. Han was a well-known writer at the age of 20 and Ding Junhui became the world champion at the age of 18. You can say they are only a minority, but they actually exist. Standing up, standing up? Sleep or crawling?