Advantages of tianyao Hongyan and ugly girl

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A wise man said, "the ugly man cannot look at it in detail. It is cruel to look at it in detail ."

The male citizens who say this often seem to discriminate against ugly women and do not want to conceal their superiority. But a real good man will never be biased. In those years, Chinese master Mr Chen was not familiar with colleagues and friends of Tsinghua University, Professor Wu Yu, who once criticized him as "not interested in learning, however, it is silly and absurd to seek a beautiful wife. Wu did not listen to the advice of his friends, and finally threw away his wife and daughter, so he had a bad reputation.

If you stand on the Aesthetic standpoint, there will be more ridicule than respect for ugly things than sympathy, and no one will feel anything wrong. All sentient beings know that you are cute, but you do not know what you can do, the day jealous red face and not to mention, the orchid fragrance and burned, the Pearl and the section, is absolutely natural. From the perspective of fate, beauty and beauty are beyond the dust, and most of them cannot be proud of themselves. Imagine, the rare thing is expensive, the beauty of the people for the Jane, the expensive is everyone to compete, not to take its essence and never stop; the Jane is everyone Chase, not close to their own font; if you are in competition, you cannot escape. If you are in pursuit, you cannot avoid it. Where can we preserve the existing beauty? Ugly things are quiet and comfortable, and are rarely disturbed by the outside world. Although they are inferior, they do not abandon themselves. They always learn to cultivate themselves and cultivate morality. Over time, they will produce extraordinary glory. The beauty is favored, and most people are obsessed with dressing up (that is, the so-called female is the joy of their own). They are addicted to singing and dancing, but self-cultivating, sorry to raise the virtues, and the light fades away, become the yellow face of the spider, it will inevitably fade, was ruthlessly abandoned. "How long can we deal with others by color ?" The sighs of the ancients were painstaking. If the ugly girl can cultivate her own morality, such as the deep wine cellar, the more fragrant the longer it is. The beauty of the face is not enough, only the virtue is worthy of, this is the ugly girl's fate is better than the beauty of the key. No, the beauty of the world Xie RuO spring flowers, and the ugly content with light really, eventually into a result.

The saying goes: "foru is born on the ugly side ." Those who care carefully, did not want to extract the beauty of the whole person, the women grow pretty, most of the is flashy; on the contrary, the ugly one, must be second. This is why the world shows fairness. Those who are wise and wise obviously have a strong interest in the mysteries of this project, and seldom make the "Business" a loss. A wise man is a wise man. If the common saying goes that he is playing this kind of brain-turning game, he must turn his car into a ship and plant a big heel. Of course, since ancient times, there have been countless heroes who are sad about the beauty. Such heroes do not have to say that they are mostly tragic heroes. A wise man with a very good mind will make us stay on the spot when we make an appearance. How can they sing. If you only have a superficial understanding of ugliness and beauty, such a drama will indeed make you see the cloud in the dark.

The wisdom of ancient sages in China is far from reaching. In the Xiangyang note, Huang chengyan, a famous man in Dunnan, is an outstanding and open-minded man. One day, he said to Zhuge Liang, a friend of the past: "I heard you want to marry a wife. I have an ugly daughter with black yellow hair and ugly looks, but her talents match you well." Zhuge Liang did not abandon the ugly girl at all and decided to recognize Huang chengyan as his father-in-law. On the day of marriage, the eight neighbors of the Four Villages and Towns regarded the wedding as a joke and formed a saying: "Do not make Kong mingjie, It is a ugly girl ."

From this interesting story, we can easily see that Zhuge Liang has a unique vision of winning the time and future generations in choosing his wife. Imagine what a strange man he is! Turning over the legend of the Three Kingdoms, Shu Zhi, Zhuge Liang Chuan, we can see that: "There are few heroes in the group. The hero is eight feet long and looks very good ." Even according to modern standards, he is an absolute man. The neighbors laughed at Zhuge Liang, but in fact they laughed at their own eyes and could not see Jin Meiyu. Huang chengyan's daughter, despite its poor appearance, was not an advertisement for him. Judging from the Development of ZHUGE Liang's career and the moral character of his children and grandchildren, this ugly woman is indeed wise, And Zhuge Liang's Military Merit should be half of her.

Ugly women often feel inferior because they are not pleasing enough to their faces. They think that all men in the world are helpless, so they are always helpless at key moments. However, the odd women in ancient times refused to recognize them easily, and they read an interesting story in the new saying --

Xu Yun, the famous guest of the Jin Dynasty, married his wife and worshipped the house. He opened his red skull in the cave room and immediately escaped from the door. Family members are worried. Coincidentally, his friend, Fan dongmen, said, "When Xu Yun is in a depressed mood, he asks the reason. He kindly suggested:" Since the family has married an ugly girl to you, he must have his reason, you must take a closer look." Xu Yun reluctantly returned to the Cave Room, and again saw the bride who lacked the surface beauty, it was still unacceptable. This time, the bride held the opportunity to block the groom's path and asked him to give a statement. In distress, Xu Yun asked: "What are the four virtues of women (namely, female, and female ?" The bride replied, "Among the four items, I have no appearance ." She even moved back to the first army: "There are hundreds of rows, how many more do you have ?" Xu Yun said: "I am not bad ." As a result, the smart and witty bride began to click Xu Yun's Acupoint: "You are headed by a hundred lines of virtue, but you are not so good. How can this be the same ?" Xu Yun's words were poor, and the face was pale. She suddenly looked at her and the husband and wife looked at each other.

After Xu Yun opened his red cover, he realized that the bride was ugly. He refused to enter the cave, but he was quite excited. In a word, the bride turned off his male superiority by appearance, saving the "lost youth". The wit thing is that she can convince people with morality. Confucius once lamented that "I have never seen any good virtues or good colors." If his husband was born for centuries later, he would probably praise him for saying "you can teach me ".

Since many of the Western philosophers have never been married for life, I am not sure how they determine the value of beautiful women and ugly women. Only one, passkar of France, said a very funny sentence: "If the nose of Queen kubela collapsed, the whole world may change ." Queen klubatra, the famous Egyptian lady, has successively become the lover of Caesar, the emperor of Rome, and Anthony, the first governor of Rome. If she has made some discounts for her beauty, she will not be able to kill the two hero boys from the wild. The history of the world may look like another. The philosophers who married their wives showed their original form. The wife of Socrates, Santi, is more ugly than the ugly ones. The partner of Rousseau, Leva, is ugly and vulgar, but they are still safe, su's and Lu's achievements in philosophy are also remarkable. Imagine that an ugly, hot, ugly, and vulgar wife still has such a great use. Isn't the ugly, gentle, ugly, and elegant wife a treasure? The most convincing thing is that at least three beautiful men (Zhou Enlai, Wang Jingwei, Zhang Xueliang, and Mei Lanfang) in the Republic of China are married to ugly wives.

In today's era, unlike the past, men have a higher vision and have a greater sense of blame for women. They only blindly show the flag of aesthetics, but cannot see the advantages of some ugly women, in the end, most of them will be smothered by flashy women. The ugly girl in the world does not have to abandon her own inferiority. If Huang chengyan's daughter can marry Zhuge Liang, Jack can also persuade Xu Yun that what they rely on is not talent and virtue? You must never blame others for your poor looks. Remember to keep in mind that your own advantages must be carefully developed and maintained.

The beauty of life is a lot of luck, usually because the men who stick them firmly in their hands and tied them to their belts are bad enough, hard enough, romantic enough, famous enough, rich enough, enough to have a status, however, they lack the minimum virtues, the fundamental wisdom, and enough compassion. Sister Xi Xia Yu, he has met Shang Yu, Yu Zhou youwang, Xi Shi Yu Fu, hook Yi wife met Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, Hu Juan met Dong Zhuo, Yu Fei met Cao Yu, zhang Lihua met Chen shubao, Yang Yuhuan met Tang xuanzong, Helen met Prince Parris, arrydra met Edward VII, Marilyn Monroe met President Kennedy, and Diana met Prince Charles. It should be said that all the men who meet these beautiful women are awesome. Should they always hit the game? But all of them are miserable. When people are not well-intentioned, their weak shoulders will have to carry the name of "red face and water". Do you say "no? Among these unfortunate women, Helen, the first Greek beauty, seems to be an exception. She was tempted by spring, and ran away with Prince Paris, triggering a ten-year-long Trojan war. You can think about it carefully. agemennor and his younger brother, muieralios (helensev), vowed to destroy the city of Troy from beginning to end, and said that they were still trying to save their damaged male dignity. The Life and Death of Helen had no longer been important, however, as long as the shortest who later generations mention the cool war of this creature, they will be directed at Helen and target the generation of enchantress.

Beautiful girls are vulnerable to endless troubles. They tend to become trophy and are vulnerable to comfort women. Even if the world is peaceful, they are still super prey in the minds of men. Words like "Hunting" reveal a few pieces of information.

In August 31, 1997, Princess Diana suffered a car accident and Xiang Xiaoyu, who admired her and loved her. Now, in the rain night to listen to Alton with a deep melancholy voice singing the "Candle", we can more deeply understand the sorrow of the day.

There are not few wonderful women in the world. However, they are always mistaken by the blind eyes of fate. As a result, they are separated by the gap, such as the gap between them. When there is a huge world and a huge world, they must have good luck to meet them. That is to say, we were lucky enough to have met each other. For example, if cheloubatra met Anthony and Xiaofeng Xian met Cai Yi, it was still another tragedy, yao holds tears of sympathy.