Borrow an umbrella
Confucius went out one day, it would rain, but he did not have an umbrella, someone suggested: Coshayou, with Zi Xia borrowed. Confucius said: "No, Zi xia this person is more stingy, I borrowed the words, he did not give me, others will think he does not respect teachers, to me, he must be distressed."
--contact with people, to know the shortcomings and strengths of others, do not use other people's shortcomings to get along and test, otherwise friendship will not last.
Learn
A horse, a donkey heard the Tang's monk to go to the West, the donkey thought the trip was difficult, then gave up, but the horse immediately followed, experienced 9,981 difficult, take back the scriptures. Donkey asked: brother, is not very hard ah? Ma said: In fact, when I went to the West this time, you walk a little less than me, but also blindfolded, beaten. In fact, I was afraid to goof more tired.
--Real tired, from the inner ignorance and confusion.
Stop the car
Sweden's Volvo headquarters has more than 2000 parking spaces, and early-morning people always park their cars away from office buildings, every day. Q: "Are your berths fixed?" They answer: "We arrived early, there is time to take a little more road." Late colleagues may be late and need to park their cars close to the office building. ”
When you think of others, the road will go farther.
Cooperation
One day, in the dead of night, the lock woke the key and complained: "I worked hard for the main guard the house, and the master like you, always bring you around, really envy you ah!" ”
And the key is dissatisfied with saying: "You stay at home every day, comfortable, how easy!" I follow the master every day, the sun and the sun, how hard Ah! I envy you more! ”
Once, the key also wanted to live a comfortable life, so hid himself. The owner went home after the door, lost the key, flustered under the lock to smashed, and conveniently thrown into the garbage heap. After entering the house, the master found the key, angrily said: "The lock also smashed, now keep you still have what use?" "After that, the key was thrown into the rubbish heap.
In the garbage heap meet the lock and key, not by sigh up: "Today we end so sad, all because the past, we did not see each other's value and pay, but greener on, each other, mutual envy and suspicion ah!" ”
Most of the time, the relationship between people is mutual, cross-over, fighting, can only be a lose-lose, only with each other, mutual appreciation, mutual solidarity, mutual support, mutual trust, mutual cherish, can win-win cooperation.
Borrow an umbrella, learn from, stop, cooperate.