[Contact intelligence] 003. Be able to get along with others in harmony

According to taamud,It is the root cause of a person's failure. You despise people with a heartless attitude, even if the other party is not at your point, it will also respect you.

In the process of interacting with people, you can master some simple, natural, normal, and easy-to-learn communication skills to make yourself a favorite person.

(1)To be an approachable person, you can easily deal with others.That is to say, when other people are dealing with you, do not feel nervous. It is said that some people "it is difficult for you to deal with him", and it is difficult for him to approach. This is often an insurmountable obstacle in communication. A approachable person gets along with each other, and his or her manners are natural. He willCreate a comfortable, pleasant, and friendly atmosphere. Being with him is not as embarrassing as wearing a worn felt hat, a pair of tattered shoes and a worn-out robe. A stiff, cold, and unresponsive person is difficult to integrate into a group, and he is often a stubborn, unruly monster. You really don't know how to deal with him, and it's hard to figure out his inner world. You don't know how he will respond to your words and deeds. It is really not easy to like a person with such a quirks.

(2)Considerate and considerate.A person considerate of others is always put in the shoes of others, so as not to let others be nervous and restrained, nor to embarrass others. It is said that Shakespeare has the magical power of understanding. In the process of communicating with a person, he is like a chameleon, which can adapt to the changing time and location according to the different characteristics of the contact object. Therefore, he has many friends.

(3)Treat others with generosity. Generally, people with such qualities must have a broad mind. Because those who are especially concerned with others' attitudes towards themselves, those who are afraid of others' jealousy of their position and position, those who are in a dominant position in life, it is rarely cold to others, and it is generally not easy to get angry with others.

(4)Be loyal, honest, and caring.Psychology in a university analyzes the personalities of people who are loved and not loved. They made a scientific analysis of 100 individual characteristics. They pointed out that if a person wants to win the favor of others, he must have 46 personalized licenses that attract people's favor. That is to say, to be accepted by the masses, you must possess many excellent qualities.

To make others like you, you must have a basic character. This is loyalty, integrity, and caring. Perhaps, as long as you have the basic character, other qualities will naturally be possessed.

(5)Be able to carefully distinguish others' intentions, motivations, moods, feelings, and thoughts.That is to say, a person with strong social networking skills must be an abacus. They will consider the consequences of their own behaviors, calculate the possible behaviors of others, and calculate their own interests and losses. All these Abacus are made when the relevant factors may change. Therefore, only people with strong cognitive ability and good at understanding can make these calculations in a complex and changing situation. Almost everyone has the basic wisdom of this kind of interpersonal communication. The key is how to make it grow and how to bring it into play in their lives.

Introduction: 000. Talmud

Life intelligence	Communication Intelligence	Smart thinking	Business Intelligence	Successful Intelligence
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