How important is communication???

Communication is ubiquitous and unavoidable, so what kind of attitude and consciousness do we need?

(1) Non-ambiguous information transmission

Summary: In many of the team work, often encounter a situation is because the information transmission is unclear, resulting in problems, followed by two or even multi-party dispute shirk responsibility and deadlock.

Story: Last month my home decoration, my eldest sister in charge of contact with the decoration master, my mother overall, my second sister responsible for preparing materials. One night, my second sister and my mother said, cement tomorrow, to contact the decoration master moved upstairs lest the rain wet. So, my mother let my elder sister contact the decoration master. So the decoration master early in the morning to find a bunch of people in the cement came to work, the results of cement at noon, until two o'clock in the afternoon. During my elder sister, my mother, my sister all kinds of disputes constantly.

Summary: When you convey information to others, you should consider whether it will make the other person have a different understanding?

(2) Dare to communicate

Summary: Many times the opportunity is to rely on their own fight, ask for a raise, confession, hope to get a chance. You need to be brave and proactive in your communication. Otherwise you will miss a lot of opportunities for this.

Story: I am a fresh graduate. I believe that you will have a job search experience. Sometimes you find a good job, and then you worry that you may not find a better one, so you sign a tripartite agreement. But in the back you find a better one! Our school is said not to let the breach, even if the breach will wait for the first half, then all graduated. So basically no one to break the breach. But there are some students, to find the teacher to communicate, and finally those students successfully broke the breach, to get a better company.

Summary: Many times have to dare to communicate, seize the opportunity. Learning not to let the breach is only hope to control not to let too many people break the promise, but not to say that one does not let. Perhaps for the teacher, agree with you to break a promise only a little, you do not try to communicate, then you lose the opportunity.

(3) Skills to master communication

Description: The communication skills are the ultimate, and the way to communicate in order to let others clearly understand what you want to express the meaning, and accept your words.

story: or about the breach, I also have a breach, learning that there is actually I have not worried, Because I was clear about the teacher's tricks. But you have to ask your current company to agree to your breach, so you can get the old three parties to apply for a new tripartite agreement. But HR said the shortest break process is also one weeks (in fact, I know only half a day), but in order to catch the month of the new three-party application, I need to get the old three in a day, so I sent e-mail to hr: very can understand the company's cancellation process needs a period of time, but the study has a deadline, so or please do not affect the work of the situation to pay more attention to, thank you to understand our mood, please send the original tripartite and default letter to: ** province * * City Tianhe District * * * , Recipient * * * *, contact phone *** , zip code ****  ; Thank you! Then afternoon hr told me that the material has been sent to me, please pay attention to check.

Summary: The above my communication way, expressed my urgent feelings, understanding his work, and gratitude to him, at the same time to send the address of the collection, do not need him to ask me again, let him convenient.

(4) Thinking from the perspective of others

To think from the perspective of others, in fact, is the summary of the above three points: 1, the information passed to others can make people ambiguous, this is from the perspective of others thinking. 2, May for teachers and HR help you just a point, communication will be successful, but also from the perspective of others thinking. 3, how to express to allow people to better accept, need communication skills, but also from the perspective of others thinking.

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How important is communication???