Reading "Are your lights on"

This book discusses how to solve the problem and puts forward some things that have never been imagined.

I remember that when I received a training session, the vice president of the company asked some of the most basic questions during the study so that I could better explore the source of the problem, something that everyone is used to but ignored.

 

We often have one or more puzzles in our life, work, and study. What puzzles do we have?

But this world does not often want to do so. Our life is entangled in various sections, our business is blocked by friends from all walks of life, and our love lags behind the changing requirements of the other party. Then, we are busy with rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, and vinegar tea. We are busy with you and me, and we don't know where our lover collects so many tears.

 

What is the problem?

It is the difference between your expectation and your feelings. No matter what it looks like, people seldom know what they want until they know what you have given them what they need ";

The real problem may not be what you think. You may have found the true meaning of the problem from another perspective.

 

Who has a problem? What is the nature of your problem? Identify the problem: what about others? Your own?

1) When you wander tirelessly on the road to the definition of a problem, don't forget to look back at it at any time to see if you are lost.

2) when others are able to solve their own problems well, do not go beyond the limit;
3) if someone can solve this problem, but he will not encounter it himself, the first thing you need to do is to make him feel the problem.

4) Try again and blame yourself-even if it takes only one second. The problem disappears.
5) a small reminder may be more effective than your complicated solutions.

What is our attitude towards the problem?
1) the so-called "destiny" is just another term of "nature"-as an excuse for laziness

2) Two laws

Peter's law, he said, is that the bureaucrats in an organization are constantly promoted until they reach a position where they are not competent.

Paul's law, he said, continues to make work more difficult in modern institutions until every bureaucracy surpasses their competency. The root cause of the problem is often yourself.

3) about people
"There are two types of people in this world: one is doing things, and the other is looking for things for others. Be a little farther away from the second type, so that you will be very smooth ."

"There are two types of people in this world: one is doing things, and the other is enjoying honors. Stay among the first people-there is much less competition ."

 

What education do we receive?
1) consider typical homework problems. They fatten their young minds and wait until the final exam ends.
2) Students eventually consolidate this assignment mode. Although it simplifies assignments every week, they will be overwhelmed when the final exam comes. At this crucial moment, the exam covers questions that may come from any week of the 15 week. One of the most important clues they rely on-where the problem came from-is also gone with the wind!
3) maybe the reason why the school has developed so many mentally retarded problem Resolvers is precisely because it never gives students the opportunity to find out what the problem is.
4) Most of us go to school-and there are too many. We have formed an instinct to grasp the first expression that appears in our mind like a "problem. Then we try to "solve" it as quickly as possible, because everyone knows that speed is important during the exam. There is also a concentrated spirit. In this way, we learned a bad habit, even if we leave school, even if we no longer take the test.

 

What are the common mistakes we make?
1) No matter what it looks like, people seldom know what they want until you give them what they want.
2) the final analysis shows that not many people really want to solve their problems.
3) do I really want a solution? We never have enough time to consider whether we really need it, but we always have enough time to regret it.
4) Part of the reason is the human adaptability tendency: Repeated stimulation will cause less and less response. Adaptability allows us to ignore the constant things in our environment, which will simplify our life. Fish always see water at the end.

 

We are busy and busy in projects of life, work, and study, but we have little peace of mind. Why are we doing this? What are the shortcomings of this, how can we improve our life, work, and study.