Some love, do not grow old with the body

Ahan, presided over the public number "mummy's Secret Garden" (No. mamisg), children mother, in foreign companies for many years, love to write things, photography technology three-stream, the appearance of their own way under a sincere heart.

I have left my hometown since I went to college, and until now, when I have time to go back to my hometown, the first thing is to date two elderly people. The only difference is that I went to see them by myself, and now I'm taking my daughter to see them, and by the way, they messed up their neat home in three minutes.

One is my grandfather, already ripe old age.
One is my grandmother, 80 has three this year.

This time to go home, my grandmother secretly pulled me to the room, I had some small excitement in my mind, count is neither my birthday nor my daughter's birthday, how to send red envelopes? is secretly pinch finger oracleof, a word gently leisurely floated over: Caoxiaonan Ah, tell you, ah, your grandfather a old bones, sometimes unexpectedly will come to touch my back ah lala my hand ah, I made a goose bumps, you say this is serious dementia ah? At that time if I had a mouthful of salty soda, estimated that water can be sprayed to Mars, but I absolutely hard to swallow it down, pretending to calmly say, grandma, you worry about, this is to show that the old bones of your feelings are still sparks ah, you must cherish these small sparks yo.

Grandpa Grandmother's teenager is just a chaotic artillery fire war era, leave home constantly hegira, avoid air raids, Dodge Chase, avoid hunger, these surprise moving soul of sad memories once was my childhood bedtime story, so that my dream is smoke. Grandpa originally was full of illiteracy, in a variety of Flight gap self-taught a lot of things, which is the same abacus, so things let his fate ups and downs, and now still inseparable, every day to stroke several times, with a prison indestructible two wife status.

When grandpa in the newspaper for a Zhangfang, grandma is still looking for brother sister-in-law to wash clothes, although not bullied, but also live a jirenlixia look at people's face. At that time, Grandpa launched a proactive offensive tactics, daily run my grandmother there to help work, make full use of their own human flesh washing machine vacuum cleaner dishwasher function, this trick for the inner-and-dumb type of boys particularly applicable, all in silent work. I have always felt that a large part of men's love for women stems from compassion, because compassion and germination of love, to stimulate the naked protection of the desire, so the prince fell in love with Cinderella, Popeye, not, is Oliver, Tao Ming Temple in love with the cedar, Mr. Zhangfang in love with the laundry girl.

18-year-old laundry girl, looking at drying racks on the back of the figure, not a big, nor broad shoulders, but it is very practical, decisive decision to the human flesh washing machine development as a lifelong human washing machine. In the turbulent and changeable era, out too many vigorous love, I had a crush on Zhang ailing's "Love", the white fringe and pliant back to the original Taijiquan-style test and be tempted, in the fire and tightly embraced the scene became after the "Gone with the Wind" After the girls love the beautiful imagination, So when I heard the grandmother of this story, feel too bland, mineral water is not on, the most is boiled.

Just, after growing up to shake God, the most thirsty is boiled water.

Later, the war was over, fortunately they survived, still alive and healthy, they got married, gave birth to two daughters, have a stable job, have their own home and the ability to hire a nanny, put in the present, not the absolute middle-class, also can be disguised as a middle production. But fate is like a vase, always breaking it when the flower is most luxuriant. The Times began to turbulence, the country set off countryside activities, awareness of the very high grandfather, the initiative to apply for the countryside, and grandmother apart, quit work, followed by Mr. Zhangfang with an abacus dragged children to a completely unfamiliar place.

There, they gave birth to a third daughter. One will only dial the abacus beads, one will only teach children to sing and dance, three female doll home can not become the first productivity, in the rural areas, need to climb the mountain to work, often weak grandfather picked cattle excrement and walk in the field, always attract malicious ridicule or deep sympathy eyes. Because grandpa really can not do what live, only in the Commune brigade to help the accounts and write for the illiterate villagers, by the way to the home of the girls comb hair plait, and grandma hoping every day to run to the school outside the village to teach, because the body is not good, sometimes suddenly faint, was put on the flatbed to send back. I do not know that in many nights, Grandma has no regrets to follow this man, many times no food to eat can only rely on foreign relief, grandma did not blame this man, also can not know Grandpa is about to be ordered to the street before the night, Grandma back to remember many years ago the day of the sun sheet behind the figure, Dangling like a distance. They relied on each other, supported each other, and came all the way.

Listen to Grandma said these fragments, I tried to catch her words under the emotion, but can not find a hint of sadness and sigh, the days are so, wrinkles is so a piece of tear out, the skin is such a block of withered, the next generation is such a little bit of growth, sometimes people are not too smart not to care about, It is not a good thing.

For feelings, we always analyze too thoroughly, read too many emotional stories of men and women, why do we love others? Why does love make us hurt? And how to find a better lover? We did evolve into high-level animals that thought, but lost the primal instinct of love. We are always careful to take a step-by-step test, thinking that after the flowers are thrown out, the prince and the princess can live happily together, but it is possible that one day, we will be thrown in the air is a torn marriage certificate.

Because my high school distance two hometown is very close, so do not go to the canteen to rub rice, in order to save meal ticket money down to buy snacks, originally I had to chew the old spirit. I read the evening paper sent by my grandfather's newspaper every day, and the newspaper always stacks up and down, then sells, then stacks up a new pile, and the days are gone. I always take the age first, grandpa and grandmother day by day toward aging. They are often basking in the sun, and as young as the same as the second wife, and then write some of their own may not be able to read the diary, and then drink pot of warm swallow tea. Another is always busy out, buy vegetables to burn a meal, while cleaning up the newspaper while DAO, if no response rushed to the old man's ear loudly shouted a few words, the old man on the face of a smile, and then or deliberately and the old man to fight a mouth, and then his happy not.

These scenes are later only slowly think of, I thought at that time, I was bent on the newspaper to ponder the answer to the political question, in fact, these bits and pieces like a life drama, seemingly careless, but silently printed in my mind, has been affecting my mate, my married life and my marriage attitude. Simple and true, can be long-term.

When I finished four years in the north of the university, continue to work outside, miss their wedding photos of gold, when I go back, the wall has been hung up pictures, the bride's white dress and white hair staggered together, the groom a black suit, see has been the foot of the strength to chest, but still can not conceal the appearance of hunchback, For the first time, the two were faced with the same lens, with a few stiff smiles. Every day, they live under this picture, get up and go to bed, walk around, watch TV together when one is sick and the other in the next. Sometimes, grandma goes out for a few days, Grandpa will lose his temper, you are not no one in control of me, why not come back soon Ah! And sometimes, Grandpa is not too obedient always sneak out, Grandma is very angry, dead old man, you are out with which old woman date Ah! We audience, always can't help laughing, is really a pair of joy enemy.

Now every time to go back to see them, the elderly are more old than once, the back more camel ears, hair more white face more slack, unchanged is still bickering, still care for each other, still love each other. And I, have been trying to figure out their stories, really one day to write, but found all pale, life was originally to be more plump.

This era, the birth of the marriage treasure all kinds of cheats, there are even professional guidance how to find a partner platform, how many people found it? We always think of the hands of the son, with the son, the wedding promised underground kneeling commitment for life, how many people did it? Our hearts and bodies will grow old, the love hormones will eventually run out, the face is not, aesthetic fatigue, is exhausted by life, and how to continue to retain our love? I am not a love expert, my marriage sometimes also can appear problem, really dare not casually assuming. Just to tell the story to everyone, you feel good or not, no wonder, at least, in my heart, such a marriage process has been invaluable, it let me muster the courage to face the future of the old, cheer up the spirit of our impetuous and crack, the original some love, not with the body and aging.

May grandpa and Grandma healthy and happy, friction friction, continue to have a small spark.

Some love, do not grow old with the body